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Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:09pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
Are you ready to get a gf/wife and enjoy all the fun that comes with a race romantic relationship ?? Or you want to continue making excuses, talking yourself out of approaches and spending lonely nights with your Vaseline (no pun intended). If yes, you can either read on bro or just close this page; and keep on living a life of excuses while your friends, who are more socially aware keep getting all the beautiful girls. Stated below are 5 attitudes/mistakes which can automatically turn a girl off and suggestions on what you should do instead. 1) Whining - To whine is to complain annoyingly. Take back sec and think about your previous Convo/relationship in which you complained bitterly. Was all all the whining worth it? I bet your answer is no Learn to always sort things out I'm a mature way. If you continue whining, it won't be long before she starts comparing you with other guys. 2) Clinging/Neediness- This is one of the biggest turnoffs for most women. In the dating scene, it means being emotionally dependent on a woman. Are you needy? Logically evaluate your previous convos/relationships to see if you are a victim of this attitude. If yes, then learn to give women space. Allow them to be their own person bro. 3) Tightwad/Stingy How stingy are you bro? Do you freely give? I do not mean giving like a maga or ATM oh.. . Learn to give to a girl when she deserves it. Armed with this idea you won't given like a "maga" or be considered as one. For example, a guy sending cash/or 1500 MTN to a girl who doesn'tfl call him/or give him attention is a pure "maga". She doesn't value you bro, so why waste your time?. Only do things for girls when they deserve it or when they are invested in you too. 4) Laziness Are your passionate about your life or just like spending hours looking/chatting with girls? Chatting and looking for girls all day will, in the long run, only make you look jobless and lazy. Get busy with yourself bro. Focus on your dreams and aspirations( Work, School, Hobbies,Talents). Start doing something worthy and women will like and appreciate you more. 5) Over eagerness for Intimacy/Groping- This one is huge. You will need to understand attraction is in stages before you get rid of this one. You met a girl off this morning and you want her to be your wife/gf on thwe evening of that same day? Calm down bro. Attraction, as it pertains to women, is not a logical thing- it's emotional bro. No need to rush it. If you are exhibiting the qualities of a bf/husband/ already, you won't even need to to ask her out. Over eagerness for intimacy, often times, is a sure symptom of being clingy which invariably results in desperation. Evaluate your dating scenarios and make the necessary corrections. Worthy mentions no included here are: jealousy and hot temper/getting angry easily. Peace. 130 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by Rhesusmonkey(m): 12:34pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
I dnt nid a gal friend nor a wife yet, I nid a woman friend, so what should I do and not do?? 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by bentlywills(m): 1:05pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
No GF No problem 247 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:07pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
bentlywills: Hahaha..all join bro 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:09pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
Rhesusmonkey:Lol den start acting like a man friend already. 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by JohnnyBling(m): 10:09pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
Nice one 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by peterpaulis(m): 10:30pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
... Girl way go gree go gree simple! 206 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by peterpaulis(m): 10:31pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
What matters the most is how u use your words 6 Likes |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by Kayoderebel(m): 6:25pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
I wouldn't want to say that OP is retarded or something but this post is legit backwards 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by lyriclekidd(m): 11:06pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
I don't need 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by Lamasta(m): 11:07pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
You people have come again with your list This is Nigeria where money answereth all things not list is that clear @ OP 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by PureGoldh(m): 11:07pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
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Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by openmine(m): 11:07pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
If you want to be a man of value and attract ladies in your life,then avoid 1,2 and 5! 1 Like |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by iPhoneRepairer: 11:08pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Since 2016 now front Page? When it's your time, it's your time Girlfriend is not a priority. Getting the money is. 51 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by KINGJAJA888(m): 11:08pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
No 1:Get Rich NO 2:GeT Richer NO 3:GeT Richest No 4:BE f*cking richer than d Richest No 5:GeT Richer than no 4 They will all Lick ur feet. Trust me. 66 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by mysticgal(f): 11:08pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
MGTOW’s would soon land, prepare for landing |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by error4040: 11:08pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Bullsh1t from the Pit of Hell. I can't believe I am saying this Guys Hustle o Make one OP no open Thread for Nairaland de Give una False Advice that worked way back 1999. 18 Likes
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Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by MrCuteking(m): 11:08pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Trash |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by Pussywar(f): 11:08pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Kayoderebel:how? |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by landmark86: 11:08pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Op if you care to no, I live in a city/town where pvssy is cheaper than pure water. so hold your keypoints. 38 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by 24kmagic: 11:08pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Three years ago, it's not front page worthy, why is it front page worthy now? Nairaland mods sef. But most of your points no follow sha, only 3 and 4, at least to me |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by anambraamaka: 11:09pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Okay |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by Lordave: 11:09pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
You say we shouldn’t get jealous or angry easily? “For I your God, I am a jealous God. Visiting the iniquities of thy fathers upon the 4th generations of those that despise me” Even the God you guys say is Love made the above statement and you’re talking about man? OP, you’re mad! 4 Likes |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by Younghacka(m): 11:09pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
State One Advantage Of Having A Girlfriend. 14 Likes |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by Thisnut(m): 11:10pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
stingy! guilty as charged. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by friendlyadvice: 11:10pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Op I want money what 5 things should I stop? 1 Like |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by heckymaicon(m): 11:11pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
since 2016 Oluwa ranti mi si rere as the mod take remember this op today |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by tiana29(f): 11:12pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Kayoderebel:that's because the post was made in 2016 |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Unfortunately, guys of nowadays don't understand ladies. Women are same all over the world. If you want to win their hearts, you have to make patience your best friend cos they like taking their time. They want to study you, consider lots of things before accepting your offer for a date. I'm talking of the serious-minded ones and not the slay queens who would hit you and run to another prey. You may think she's hard to get whereas, she's busy studying you..and if she's the wife material who's ready to get married, she goes a distance to know about you,including going spiritual. By the time you finally get married, she'd now be telling you how far she had gone without you knowing...and that's if she wants you to know at all because our women are highly secretive. Na wetin den wan make you know about them, na im you go know, no matter how much you pamper them. Whereas, on top of a delicious meal or at bed time, a man could vomit almost all he has kept in his heart to her. 18 Likes |
Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by olaboy33(m): 11:13pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Reason why you should ignore this post: -Its from 2016, Nigeria of now if different from Nigeria of then -OP is into (Bleep) porn, what applies in his world doesn't apply in the real world 9 Likes 3 Shares |
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