ForeverYoung197:
FIRST THING FIRST , you and your girl friend should report to the police Station and file a formal complaint about her harassment and that if in any case she will do that again, she can go to jail. DON'T RUN AWAY. FACE HER because you are sumborri

gabinogem:
If u know her family, kindly tell them to warn their daughter. If it continues, report the matter to the police so that when next she comes to ur house u can arrest her. But pls don't beat her, cuz might escalate the problem.

sumborri:
actually she has very well connected family members. And I don't know if the police case won't be compromised. I have thought of doing that but I don't yet have the connections in this world , incase the matter become a game of whom u know. I don't know any body in that regard

[size=15pt]“Women Are Complicated & Complex Beings That At Times You Wonder If God Do Understands Them.”[/size]

She says I disvirgined her with promise to marry her (yes I said that when we met).

sumborri:
I wasn't close to her family while we dated, and her only sister whom I was abit close to , has taken her side, apparently brainwashed. All she keep saying to me , is that I promised to marry her, and yet she never told them of her behaviour, or that she even aborted for another man. Who does that and expects love again,

chericleo:
Dnt beat her up cos u might just kill her and end ur life. I fink u should arrange for a meeting were u, herself, a close relative of hers, ur friends and her friends will talk and settle d matter. U can also tell dem dat uv reported d matter to d police dat she's threatening ur gals life. Dat can scare her and her friends. Or if she's d typ of person dat can go to any length to hurt u or ur Babe den make an entry in d police station were she will sign an undertaking to b held responsible if anything happen to u or ur Babe. And dnt get me wrong, ur not reporting her to d police dat ur weak or dat u can't deal wif her no ur not. Ur just gonna do dat to b on a save side and also to save ur gal. Ensure u go wif d threat messages. Den let her call d police dat she knows. U just Av to b very wise in dealing wif dat gal for ur sake and for dat of ur Babe cos a desperate woman can go any length so u just Av to shame her. Dats MA opinion though.

ummeey:
Some people are already dead, they are looking for who will push them and they will fall. Don't even touch her. Just give her, her virginity back. Please free the present girl for now cos your mad woman might hurt her. As for you, I will advice you when I break my fast.

sumborri:
actually she has very well connected family members. And I don't know if the police case won't be compromised. I have thought of doing that but I don't yet have the connections in this world , incase the matter become a game of whom u know. I don't know any body in that regard

sumborri:
I can't afford to lose my current woman. Though I know if I leave her it will keep her safe, her mum wants her to break up with me, I feel so devastated.

sumborri:
my current woman feels I am putting her in a bad situation with my EX. Thus if she realises I had a meeting with her , she might feel I wanna start things up again. Will take your advice though and report to the ppolice before she goes an reports me on cooked up allegations. Na first to report in nigeria that has the advantage. She wants to bully me cos I don't know many people in this world like her family. Well its life

BeeBeeOoh:


I pray you sort things out with her because, the statement above got you implicated. Infact, “You See Sh1t Come Macham.”

LAST BULLET: Don't You Ever Lay Your Hands On Her, Because It Will Complicate Issues Rather Than Solving It.

lytech1:
This kind girl is desperate,and can do anything to have you back.
Reporting to police might make her go spiritual(attacking u spiritually)

My brother,u can make it from this idiot


Pretend you love her,
Turn her to ATM machine,
Very soon,she go wise up..



Na she go run by her self

sumborri:
We dated for three years, once she entered camp, my calls became annoying, days will go by and no call, text or chat from her. I stopped calling to see her reaction, and to my disbelief she stopped calling, there was no quarel or bad blood when she left. Anyway my guys who were in same camp, quixkly told me of her maami market and soccer fleld waka and I thus forgot that relationship.
Fast forward to 9months later, I was dating someone else and happily too, when I returned from work and met her at my door step. I inquired who died, and she started begging and accusing me of neglect etc. Even after telling her of all I heard, she tried to make it all my fault. Anyway I quickly told her , these weren't necesary cos I have moved on. Then she told me dat she had an abortion for a guy during camp because she realised I am the man for her , and thus didn't want to have his baby despite that he wanted to marry her.
I looked at the mirror to be sure "fool" wasn't written on my fore head. I walked her out and since then all I get keeps ranging from pleas, to threats to my woman. She says I disvirgined her with promise to marry her (yes I said that when we met). She even visited my home once and tried to make a scene. I refused her entry cos my woman was inside, and she screamed , slapped me a couple of times even my neighbours had to warn me about the mad women I bring home. I have tried to be a gentleman and ignore her but she has done what I won't take.
she technically went to my woman's home with some friends of hers, she bolted the door, and they kept shouting outside that they came with razor blade to disfigure her fine face, dat she has connections with police and nothing will happen. After neighbours calmed her down, they left and my woman has threaten to leave (as adviced by her mum).
Now this mad woman is a girl who knows about my violent tendencies. this is a girl who I have begged and adviced to leave me alone, this is a girl I have tried my best to be gentlemanly despite all her provocations.
I am intending going to pick her up for a three day torture with my army goons. Yet something in me tells me dat move will make things worse.
What do I do ? The best option appears to pack out and change my contact , but she knows where I work and I can't afford that there, plus should I run away from a woman ? Don't wanna lose my gf cos of a mad EX.