My girlfriend got pregnant for me by mistake(its a mistake because we are both not ready for it) and i didn't concore with her advice of abortion...we took courage in moving on... But Now she hates me like shit.. Despite both our parents are fully aware.. And i have done all i cld do to make her change... I even told her family buh she insisted on just having the baby and not having any connection with me...the unborn child is nw 6months old.... I love her and wld want us to continue our relationship if God says its gonna lead to marriage.. Buh she no gree oo.. She said she isnt interested again.. The funniest part is dat she doesn't talk to me well on phone anytime i call to check on her. She either insult me or hangs up... And before dis we both loved each oda.. N she's nt a wore,,, and am sure i didn't do anything wrong... Even if i did she said i didn't do anytin.. Abeg guys wat shld i do? Shld i just boone her... Pls advice me guys

Yeah it is always a mistake..


on a serious note,She said you did not do anything yet she is acting up??she might probably be angry that she got pregnant unexpectedly and you are the one who made her pregnant so she is frustrated and using the frustration on you which is not necessary because it takes two to tango.you both had the sex....Remember i used the word "probably" so that means that might not be the reason why she is acting up..... sit down and talk to her but if she still insist you leave her then give her some time and try again later...



but if I want to be sentimental then I have to say that maybe she is doing all that because of mood swings that comes with pregnancy......

Pregnancy hormones at work.
She will return to her normal self after delivery.
Relax

mineANDurs:
Pregnancy hormones at work.
She will return to her normal self after delivery.
Relax

you sure? Dis is d 3rd month

mineANDurs:
Pregnancy hormones at work.
She will return to her normal self after delivery.
Relax

you sure? Dis is d 3rd month

mineANDurs:
Pregnancy hormones at work.
She will return to her normal self after delivery.
Relax

Do pregnancy hormones make some women hate their loved ones during pregnancy??am asking based on the OP story...

Don't give up guy..... She passing through alot...

To carry belle no easy, especially wen you no plan for am, dey character of dey woman go change small....

Dey pain and stress wey she dey pass through no be moi-moi...

Continue to dey show her love with time her temper go cool..

mineANDurs:
Pregnancy hormones at work.
She will return to her normal self after delivery.
Relax

Yeah you are right

[b]You had unprotected sex, the girl got pregnant and you call it a mistake?
What were you expecting?... A plasma tv?

Back to the topic; You have to tread softly with her. She might still be going through some psychological alterations which comes normally with this kinda case. She tends to thing about a lot this time especially the negative effects the pregnancy might pose for her life plans.

My advice is, just give her space, don't pressure her so much. But don't ever cut off communications with her. You might not necessarily be calling, cz hearing your voice can stimulate a whole lot of ugly thoughts in her, rather send her text message always. Assure her that you still stand with her and have never abandoned her. Remind her that she's never alone in the experience. Buy her the basic things that an expectant mother needs, give her some financial assistance no matter how little it could be. With time, she will come to acclimatize with the present situation and gets back to normal. Don't ever "boone" her.

Congratulations in advance bro on your new status as a father. [/b]

This is serious ...

And you never expected it

Well, i think its either pregnancy hormones at work according to the profs above OR she's pissed that you want her to carry and take care of what she least expected

I just hope she doesn't hate junior teaboy014, its not the guys fault

MrFinbarr:
[b]You had unprotected sex, the girl got pregnant and you call it a mistake?
What were you expecting?... A plasma tv?

Back to the topic; You have to tread softly with her. She might still be going through some psychological alterations which comes normally with this kinda case. She tends to thing about a lot this time especially the negative effects the pregnancy might pose for her life plans.

My advice is, just give her space, don't pressure her so much. But don't ever cut off communications with her. You might not necessarily be calling, cz hearing your voice can stimulate a whole lot of ugly thoughts in her, rather send her text message always. Assure her that you still stand with her and have never abandoned her. Remind her that she's never alone in the experience. Buy her the basic things that an expectant mother needs, give her some financial assistance no matter how little it could be. With time, she will come to acclimatize with the present situation and gets back to normal. Don't ever "boone" her.

Congratulations in advance bro on your new status as a father. [/b]

thnks bro

MrFinbarr:
[b]You had unprotected sex, the girl got pregnant and you call it a mistake?
What were you expecting?... A plasma tv?

Back to the topic; You have to tread softly with her. She might still be going through some psychological alterations which comes normally with this kinda case. She tends to thing about a lot this time especially the negative effects the pregnancy might pose for her life plans.

My advice is, just give her space, don't pressure her so much. But don't ever cut off communications with her. You might not necessarily be calling, cz hearing your voice can stimulate a whole lot of ugly thoughts in her, rather send her text message always. Assure her that you still stand with her and have never abandoned her. Remind her that she's never alone in the experience. Buy her the basic things that an expectant mother needs, give her some financial assistance no matter how little it could be. With time, she will come to acclimatize with the present situation and gets back to normal. Don't ever "boone" her.

Congratulations in advance bro on your new status as a father. [/b]

You just said my mind

GloryIsaac:
This is serious ...

And you never expected it

Well, i think its either pregnancy hormones at work according to the profs above OR she's pissed that you want her to carry and take care of what she least expected

I just hope she doesn't hate junior teaboy014, its not the guys fault

LOL. You don name the baby already

MrFinbarr:
[b]You had unprotected sex, the girl got pregnant and you call it a mistake?
What were you expecting?... A plasma tv?

Back to the topic; You have to tread softly with her. She might still be going through some psychological alterations which comes normally with this kinda case. She tends to thing about a lot this time especially the negative effects the pregnancy might pose for her life plans.

My advice is, just give her space, don't pressure her so much. But don't ever cut off communications with her. You might not necessarily be calling, cz hearing your voice can stimulate a whole lot of ugly thoughts in her, rather send her text message always. Assure her that you still stand with her and have never abandoned her. Remind her that she's never alone in the experience. Buy her the basic things that an expectant mother needs, give her some financial assistance no matter how little it could be. With time, she will come to acclimatize with the present situation and gets back to normal. Don't ever "boone" her.

Congratulations in advance bro on your new status as a father. [/b]

Chai See what 30 mins of enjoyment has caused ....

@Op, see you in 6 months bro... God will see you both through this interesting times #peace

GloryIsaac:


Chai See what 30 mins of enjoyment has caused ....

@Op, see you in 6 months bro... God will see you both through this interesting times #peace

u aren't helping dude

SANDOSKI:




Yeah you are right

Olympus has fallen

crazymommy:
Do pregnancy hormones make some women hate their loved ones during pregnancy??am asking based on the OP story...

Whenever I am pregnant, hubby knows his boundaries, there are no go areas.

Pregnancy can make a woman hate d world and everyrhing that breaths in it!

GloryIsaac:


Chai See what 30 mins of enjoyment has caused ....

Are you a virgin??

mineANDurs:



Whenever I am pregnant, hubby knows his boundaries, there are no go areas.

Pregnancy can make a woman hate d world and everyrhing that breaths in it!

Yeah I agree with you...I intentionally asked that question because I know your answer will be informative to young boys and girls out there so they can understand when they are faced with similar issue especially in marriage...GOD bless your home...

TeaBoy007:
u aren't helping dude

Dont get pissed bro...

You chose to keep the pregnancy against her wish and thats why she's acting up mehn, someone suggested you keep contact with her throughout the stuff and i think you should go with that advice...

if she is not corperating with you, let her bear d child n leave, don't force anything on urself, so u won't have more problems in future, if she's not for u, she isn't for u. wat has happened has happen

crazymommy:
Are you a virgin??

Don't derail the thread

GloryIsaac:


Dont get pissed bro...

You chose to keep the pregnancy against her wish and thats why she's acting up mehn, someone suggested you keep contact with her throughout the stuff and i think you should go with that advice...

i cld hv gone with d abortion buh i dnt really hv d mind for dat ni.. Is dat wrong too? Cos to me i already made a mistake of having unprotected sex n i cnt afford to make anoda one

GloryIsaac:


Chai See what 30 mins of enjoyment has caused ....

@Op, see you in 6 months bro... God will see you both through this interesting times #peace

Abeg Broz, nah 12 month women from ur area dey carry their unborn child

The OP said it's already 6months nd u re adding another 6 month, nwanne u must be a Martian..

amuokuko:


Abeg Broz, nah 12 month women from ur area dey carry their unborn child

The OP said it's already 6months nd u re adding another 6 month, nwanne u must be a Martian..

lmfao!! he said the pregnancy is already 3 months nah


your moniker though..

Yeah.
Significant changes in the hormone (estrogen and progesterone) levels can affect neurotransmitters,which are brain chemicals that regulate mood

crazymommy:
Do pregnancy hormones make some women hate their loved ones during pregnancy??am asking based on the OP story...

TeaBoy007:
i cld hv gone with d abortion buh i dnt really hv d mind for dat ni.. Is dat wrong too? Cos to me i already made a mistake of having unprotected sex n i cnt afford to make anoda one

You made the right choice..... give the full gist in relation to your other thread, prolly get a better advice..

wen u dey enjoy her u did not seek for advice noq u wnt ppl advice
my friend u re a man take decision