nkemjacob2:
D beating continue until sense is restored, age does not matter

Thats 101% wrong, any beating that cant serve its desired effect before ages 15-17 has lost its value instead it starts creating longlasting hatred between offspring and parent.... Or you've never heard boys of 16&17 do certain things and say 'Afterall, the highest they can do is to beat me' .... Truth is, they can actually do other things but too much beating has made the child to subconciously believe thats the highest they can do therefore making him do what he wants anytime...

GloryIsaac:
Where do i start this ??

Well, i and a group of friends headed to a friends house yesterday to talk about certain things ahead of the evening service which was scheduled to hold by 4 pm.... on getting there, we noticed he was always touching a particular part of his head, on enquiry we found out that he got a beating from his mum the previous night because he came back late around 7pm which led to a disagreement between them.... We couldn't hold back the laughter , though it didn't last long because it led to an arguement on whether his mum was right to still be beating a nigga who would be clocking 23 or 24 this year (not so sure about his age though, but i know he's past 21) .

I'm fully aware that this niggas parents are strict and are really good at dishing out serious beatings since the days of adam and eve, my dad quit beating me when i clocked 13 so i find it really amusing to see a guy in his early twenties still getting some touches from his mum....
Decided to bring it to NL in order to know you guys opinion on this.....

And at what age did you get your last beating ??

Cc RoyalRoy

enoch273:


There is nothing bad there, I also received beatings from my mum too, one thing to put in mind is that no matter how tall or how big, you can never over grow your parents.

No one's talking about outgrowing parents, we're saying its not right to beat someone of that age, thats clear violence and you know there's something called retaliation, right ... It never occurred to me until someone on this thread mentioned that we(his friends) are going to push him into retaliation by throwing banters at him, i just hope it doesn't lead to a whole new level of madness.... Things like this are the roots of strained relationships in different families today, you may think that after everything things will return to normal but its exactly the opposite, the one at the recieving end may not talk but you'll be shocked at what he can do the day he gets an oppurtunity to make them feel pain, Lincoln said 'If you really want to test the true character of a man, give him power'....

Btw, any beating that can't serve its desired effect by ages 15-17 has lost its value.

Omoluabi16:
awww.. I feel your pain. But do not give up on him, absolutely no one is beyond redemption.you went on about some luxury stuff there. Was your brother ever starved of money? or the 'I get what I want ' while growing up?Last child/only son?


who am I to even judge your parents, after all you came out fine. he'll change.

Tunechi1:
true but some resetting slap

iomoge2:


Last child but he has an elder brother who is 5years older but one year older in academics because that one had to do Nd here n IJMb for Uni-ilorin.
The brother came out fine too. In a class of 70 something only 15graduated without a carry over and he was one of them with a 2.1.
Well, I think the baby of the house thinks life is fair. Since everything is given to him on a plater of gold.
He never suffered like me n his elder brother (am d first) who even had to hawk pure water n become factory workers /sales girl boy to ensure the factory grew.

Honestly, I have lost interest in his cause.....
Someone who can't help in anything but has d guts to call n ask for monthly recharge card to subscribe n ask for weekly transport n upkeep to galivant around Town.

Lemme stop talking cos it hurts.....

Thats a priviledge the last child always enjoys, its unfortunate that this one took his too far ... Well, lets hope for the best

GloryIsaac:


And you've never been beating .... i have nothing to say

99foxxy:
How do i prove it na? don't let ma mum hear this oh.

Hmm, ok oo.. but dont forget to vote for VIZKIZ in the Mr NL contest shaa

Greenbullet:
there is a thin line between correction and torture, if u beat a dog too much,it will surely fight back,you ar the real disgrace to accept oppression. this is where corruption starts ,IN THE HOUSE,IF U CANNOT STAND AGAINST OPPRESSION AT HOME HOW CAN YOU DO SO AGAINST A POLICE MAN OR A POLITICAL OFFICE HOLDER.YOU ARE A WEAKLING.

LabiaDestroyer:
keep decieving yourself

wildguy:
Everyone supporting beating an adult as a method of correction should then see nothing wrong in a husband beating his wife as a means of correction.

Domestic violence is domestic violence irrespective of who is dishing it out or who is receiving it.

Jadonjack:


A weakling? Really?! Isn't it funny how you refuse to understand the diff between that "correction" and "torture"!

GloryIsaac:


Hmm, ok oo.. but dont forget to vote for VIZKIZ in the Mr NL contest shaa

GloryIsaac:


Hmm, ok oo.. but dont forget to vote for VIZKIZ in the Mr NL contest shaa

GloryIsaac:


No one's talking about outgrowing parents, we're saying its not right to beat someone of that age, thats clear violence and you know there's something called retaliation, right ... It never occurred to me until someone on this thread mentioned that we(his friends) are going to push him into retaliation by throwing banters at him, i just hope it doesn't lead to a whole new level of madness.... Things like this are the roots of strained relationships in different families today, you may think that after everything things will return to normal but its exactly the opposite, the one at the recieving end may not talk but you'll be shocked at what he can do the day he gets an oppurtunity to make them feel pain, Lincoln said 'If you really want to test the true character of a man, give him power'....

Btw, any beating that can't serve its desired effect by ages 15-17 has lost its value.

GloryIsaac:
Where do i start this ??

Well, i and a group of friends headed to a friends house yesterday to talk about certain things ahead of the evening service which was scheduled to hold by 4 pm.... on getting there, we noticed he was always touching a particular part of his head, on enquiry we found out that he got a beating from his mum the previous night because he came back late around 7pm which led to a disagreement between them.... We couldn't hold back the laughter , though it didn't last long because it led to an arguement on whether his mum was right to still be beating a nigga who would be clocking 23 or 24 this year (not so sure about his age though, but i know he's past 21) .

I'm fully aware that this niggas parents are strict and are really good at dishing out serious beatings since the days of adam and eve, my dad quit beating me when i clocked 13 so i find it really amusing to see a guy in his early twenties still getting some touches from his mum....
Decided to bring it to NL in order to know you guys opinion on this.....

And at what age did you get your last beating ??

Cc RoyalRoy

GloryIsaac:


And you've never been beating .... i have nothing to say

99foxxy:
Bribe me na Bribe me na

How much

Silkmoth33:
Isn't it wrong for ur own mom to mal-handle you?

Take a chill pill bro, i'm not talking about myself lol and thankfully mum and i have a wonderful relationship , not some royal rumble stuff

99foxxy:
You won't understand. Among my siblings I'm the only one that who's untouchable, reason, daddy's girl.

Reference:
Failed parenting. What are you correcting for 22 years, haba. Violence remains the tool of the weak and the ignorant. Start early, raise wisely, live by example and always communicate (an area women oft fall short, that's why they tend to do it more) leave no doubt as to the direction you are leading, love them unconditionally and you will never have to raise your hand against your child.

I received the cane as a child but cannot remember exactly what those were for. The things that I do remember today, the things that have moulded my character I still remember and will remain with me till I die is how mamy parents lived. And this is a biblical principle. The Old Testament was full of the rod, God's judgement but until Jesus came did we have a true example of how man should live and it is now easier 'to become'. Worked examples are the best tutor in life.

Myself2:
If course,that"s if he is one if the zombies that voted for the dullard.Those ones should be given hot slaps everyday of their zombic lives

I understand your frustration bro but this isn't about politics so dont start a Zombie vs Wailers war here pls

Dont forget to check my siggy, its Vizkiz or no one

Greenbullet:
don't patronize me,weakling!.

Pls bro, dont start an e-war on the thread, you can bring forth your point without throwing stones( you know what) .... but dont forget to vote Vizkiz

From an epl supporter

GloryIsaac:


Take a chill pill bro, i'm not talking about myself lol and thankfully mum and i have a wonderful relationship , not some royal rumble stuff

Barigaboy:
Hen hen, if 22 child misbehave na slap he go get. Nobody is above punishment when u misbehave. Only that punishment have levels. I saw your slag(Nigga Nigga). My broda dis is Nigeria. D way a child behaves determines d size of his cane. If your parent don't beat u thank God. Don't put your nigga into anoda trouble instead just tell him that his parent will change as soon as he is able understand them n behave well. Console him n don't let him see them as enemies

Truth be said, i've moved on from his issue, told him to Man Up and stop being a chicken but i think i'll give him this piece of advice, thanks bro...
Btw, would love you to vote for Vizkiz in the Mr Nl contest

truthsayer007:


Story, you are not successful, That is why she is still beating you. Period !

Imagine if Chidinma parents beating her after she won project fame, trust me, They can't.