I've learnt to be a good guy since my exit from teenage years. I'm in a decent relationship too with a lady in her mid 20s.

However, lately I get attracted to ladies I meet in church, park, parties etc. I've also fantasized on seeing another girl even though deep within me, I can verge that I have a good young woman.

I have discussed this with a close friend. I fear I have some polygamous instincts.

I need diverse opinions.

Huh

halfricanadian:

High libido and the drive to conquer new lands.

nedu86:
Huh

The most cruel thing a guy can do
Is make a girl fall for him with no intentions of catching her

That's not the case

halfricanadian:


The most cruel thing a guy can do
Is make a girl fall for him with no intentions of catching her

Any remedy?

ikbnice:
High libido and the drive to conquer new lands.

nedu86:
That's not the case

Wats d case

Like I'm flirting

halfricanadian:

Wats d case

Not all men ....

nedu86:
Any remedy?

yes there is. Marry a Calabar gal.

nedu86:
Like I'm flirting

Dont flirt if u not satisfied with ur gf let her go

97 percent

Pheals:
Not all men ....

Is marriage wholly about sex?

ikbnice:
yes there is. Marry a Calabar gal.

It's empirically proven that all ladies flirt even when in happy relationships.

halfricanadian:


Dont flirt if u not satisfied with ur gf let her go

nedu86:
It's empirically proven that all ladies flirt even when in happy relationships.

All ladies?

If i shd flirt? It wud b a classic record

Yeah ladies flirt alot. I once overheard some ladies discussing how boring their relationships are.

halfricanadian:


All ladies?

If i shd flirt? It wud b a classic record

nedu86:
Yeah ladies flirt alot. I once overheard some ladies discussing how boring their relationships are.

Yup dey shd step up their cookies instead of climibing d ladder of anoda girls relationship

You sound all good

halfricanadian:


Yup dey shd step up their cookies instead of climibing d ladder of anoda girls relationship

nedu86:
You sound all good

tanx

nedu86:
Is marriage wholly about sex?

we werent discussing marriage but sex.

Not really but the ish is that most men like varieties.

Its a default thingy.

Moreover,It takes high profile self control and discipline principles not to waka waka from one bae to another

If King David,Samson,The wisest man ever king Solomon etc could melo different fishes ,who am I?

Self control is da best but conji a bastard can annul it.

hehehehehe

Yes, all men. Including my father.

nedu86:
Any remedy?

Some deep rooted religious flocks says prayers work.Maybe sha...but e no work for me.

My opinion, get more close to the girl, have fun together.ie party together, watch movies together, shop together,if no money I advise you do petty shopping,play games whot,chess,ludo etc together,jog together or exercise,swimming et al. This activities will kindof create a bond between you and her,reduce external distractions from another party and burn libido to a certain level

If she is the teamnosex before marriage.....hmmmmm just concentrate on her natural assets only.

goodfornothing:
Yes, all men. Including my father.

Nah, My Papa was monogamous, I wanna apply his principle when I get married.

Not all are polygamous but most are natural cheaters.

If you love your girlfriend, you will control yourself around other girls. If you don't love your girl, drop her before you go after the new one.

Be a decent and respectful person.

Of you are having trouble deciding, then it's obviois you don't love your girlfriend enough.

When you have True Love you will NEVER doubt it.

virginboy1:


Nah, My Papa was monogamous, I wanna apply his principle when I get married.

My father is monogamous too. But the question here is 'are men naturally polygamous?" and the answer is YES. If not for religion and poverty, most men would be competing with Solomon today.

yes men are polygamous and we try so much to practice monogamy but sometimes nature takes over but we can never intentionally compromise or hurt the one we love.

goodfornothing:

My father is monogamous too. But the question here is 'are men are naturally polygamous?" and the answer is YES. If not for religion and poverty, most men would be competing with Solomon today.

Oh!!! Sorry I misconstrued.

I think you are right

icedbeatz:
yes men are polygamous and we try so much to practice monogamy but sometimes nature takes over but we can never intentionally compromise or hurt the one we love.

On point, just as the saying goes "One can't cheat nature" but can adapt or blend with it.

Some people sees it as the devil playing its work when a guy ask a bae for sex.
Meanwhile, its a natural phenomenon.

foolinlove. I sight you