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Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by careercrew1: 9:42pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
fragilebeing:I feel your pain and know what you are going through. .I have a blog that is based on career development and advice. ..Am currently writing an article similar to your issue.. Permit me to ask, what is your relationship with you and your colleagues? Do you have a good relationship with your boss? Have you ever sensed any sign of envy or jealousy towards you from your colleagues? Answer these questions so that we can go through this situation together.. .I am willing to help. . You can also visit my blog at www.careercrew..com and check out other articles that will boost your morale. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by UIA04(f): 9:46pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
dammytosh:I suspect you are one of his backstabbing wicked colleagues. 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by freecocoa(f): 9:47pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
dammytosh:What are you talking about? A careless statement from someone, that isn't relevant. Please how is it irrelevant? So it's okay to go about calling people useless after they put in their efforts to work? So if I do something and my boss thinks it's wrong(regardless of whether it actually is) its cool he says whatever he wants to me? I don't understand this. What difference does it make who said it? 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by Cholls(m): 9:52pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
my brothers and sisters this is actually the time I have been waiting for...............Nairaland and faceoff are like gala and lacasera. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by pole: 9:53pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
It May Be Ture Abi Hm Kmw Read U Before Hm Talk Am |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by pole: 9:54pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
It May Be Ture Abi Hm KNOw Read U Before Hm Talk Am |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by XCLUX(m): 9:54pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
BABANGBALI:Mumu if d op needs your opinion he will buy u a brain. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by LaurelP(m): 9:54pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
Bro you seem to have low self esteem. if an ordinary word from someone can bring you down like this, the u need to watch out before u commit suicide. STOP CARING TOO MUCH WHAT PEOPLE SAY OR THINK ABOUT YOU. What will be will be and u cant satisfy human beings. Just do what u think and know is right and leave the rest to God. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
I wish I know you in person to teach you how the mind works just so you engineer you own mind to block out those negative thoughts. Anywho, Be strong and act nothing ever happened. Fake up confidence if you don't have one and you would subconsciously be confident of yourself. To live a stress free life, study the life of the wisest and most educated man: Socrates. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by freecocoa(f): 9:59pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
Originalsly:While I understand what you said, I must say, you sounded like it's the Op's fault, so just wanna say that, OP shouldn't have to apologise for being smart and putting that smartness to work, it's the bosses and colleagues who are threatened by someone's strengths, instead of working to become better themselves, that should be ashamed. Even if OP wasn't asked to help before he did, so long as it was with good intentions and not taking over/doing someone else's job to make that person look bad, then I think he deserves some credit. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by biggie73(m): 10:02pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
Your boss had said you should return to school. Please do so. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by freecocoa(f): 10:06pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
LaurelP:It's not really low self esteem, he has a right to feel bad, not enough to kill himself ofcourse but nonetheless. You are right though, it's always best not to let people's thought about you, define you, people are stupid anyways. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by baby124: 10:06pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
freecocoa:Don't mind them. It is the fear of being called ITK that is making Nigeria as backward as it is. And the mumu boss is sitting his obese yansh calling someone who made an effort names. This is why owners of companies should get to know their employees one on one. The boss is there to supervise, you the owner are in charge of managing and ensuring you retain and groom the best talent for the growth of your company. An owner cannot leave such responsibility to some boss who has no future ambition. And this same boss can probably not even compete with his colleagues in the industry if he is so closed minded anyway. It is the owner's loss. I am sure as an owner I will fire that boss without pay if I as much as smell something like this is going on in my company. Shior. This is how they destroy other people's hardwork and then start complaining that they don't have job or the owner is wicked. 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by Nkysuccess(f): 10:07pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
I understand you brother, its not easy working for a boss that does not know how to talk to his staff. Criticism is part of life. But I encourage you to believe in yourself, also believe in God, and don't let it get to you. This one will pass and everything will be OK, such is life. 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by MrHenshaw: 10:07pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
Yea,l know how you feel now but my humble advice for you is to Thank God if he genuinely sees incompetence and not wickedness or jealousy in you.lf possible this is the time to go and ask him where he thinks you can work on to improve yourself.Note this,Ur only a failure when you fall and fail to pick something from the ground.U can be hired as a consultant in the same company in future if you have the right associates and training.Time will tell.Best wishes. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by BABANGBALI: 10:07pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
XCLUX:ti e ba e |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by baby124: 10:10pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
OP, contrary to what people say. Do not go and paddy up with him. Keep being yourself and improve on yourself. He is probably keeping your colleagues under control by being abusive and destructive. You are there to learn and grow, not to be anybody's puppet. If that job will not enable you to grow, find another job and make sure you write a review on that boss when you are leaving and copy the owner. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by Nobody: 10:23pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
When other people think differently about u, then u must be doing something right. Have u ever heard of Eagles? Bro. They fly alone and the are majestic. Keep your head high. 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by omoiseselagba: 10:29pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
baby124:you spoke my mind.that boss is a MAD MAN.he is not worth anybody's time.this guy should just forget him,face his work and find a way out of the place.i have worked with a lunatic like that,i reported him straight to his supervisor and i gave him a stern warning too.i intimidate anybody who tires to intimidate me.i dont take shit from no body. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by freecocoa(f): 10:30pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
baby124:I tire my sister. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by ikombe: 10:31pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
LaurelP:true talk ma nigga
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Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by deavicky(m): 10:31pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
Are you sure you really know anything? If yes, to hell with him. Go back to your drawing board and do something to make him pay. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by SamMilla1(m): 10:34pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
dammytosh: You are very right because if we don't tell this dude the truth, he might commit suicide. @op If they said you don't know anything, it means they want you to improve. Always remember that they don't know everything, even your boss. The way you presented your English here told me you are not dumb. Don't work your morale down, rather try to improve and get better. No knowledge is a waste. If your boss has not made any move at sacking you, return to work every day and do your thing. Every damn topic in whatever you studied is there on Google search. If you know who I am or follow my stories, you will see that I studied and graduated from University of Google search Engine. Despite not giving me a certificate, it improved me massively. Finally, don't let anybody put you down. The only person that can put you down is You. 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by Richy4(m): 10:47pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
So they do not have HR where u are working? That is 100% bullying.... Anyways Since u guys do not have HR. U can now settle down and do your job. Always give it the best shot.... The problem is that maybe u are too familiar with your work mates... U know what they say too much familiarity brings right? I just said this because u have no business fixing their IT or software what ever...always stick to your own job...Try to be their last resort. even if u know it, be calm until it was obvious no one can do it.... I guess they feel u want to show that u knew everything... and they couldn't miss that opportunity to bring u down. You are feeling this bad because they played an office politice on u and u couldn't take the heat...so since u can't take the heat, u have to be calm and stick to yoür job |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by bclint: 10:47pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
If i were to be u needless loosing concentreation see it as an opportunity to put in ur best nd prove him wrng...plz my frnd be ur self nd wrk hrd except u knw dat wat he said is real den...hmmmm |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by ststyreal(f): 10:56pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
lion042:C petrol on top fire!!!!!. Stop making the guy feel worst please, he is probably bringing this to our knowledge because he needed to be encouraged. My dear op, be strong! It doesn't matter what they think of u, but what u think of your self. Try approaching one of those that made a negative comment, befriend him or her if possible in other to learn and know y they commented negatively on your presentation. If possible, pretend as if what they said never get to you. Just be strong and if u feel u can't cope again, just jejely drop their property before them go drop u. May God grant you the wisdom of Solomon in other to surprise your detractors, amen. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by inception101(m): 10:59pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
fragilebeing: Moyo? |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by Orikinla(m): 11:09pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
fragilebeing:
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Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by ajsans: 11:12pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
freecocoa:Well said, Infact words on marble. |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by lyricalz: 11:15pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
Sori o bros, u sef why u go attend night school na? |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by dammytosh: 11:17pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
UIA04: When u are back stabbed, commit suicide. Ok ? |
Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by dammytosh: 11:18pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
freecocoa: U cnt control people not to say suicidal things to you but u can control urself from committing suicide. That is why whatever anybody says is irrelevant until u make it relevant by committing the suicide. |
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