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Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 1:45am On Jul 02, 2016
Inasmuch i know not everybody will really love to marry, but believe me, there are some who wants to marry just that nobody is asking them how far. Believe me i know how it feels. Indeed time changed yesterday; so much is being preached about rights that it would be quite difficult to take those measures used then for now. Find below some of the reasons why some Nigerian ladies may never get married:


1. Lack of core values Men have had enough time playing and sampling ladies outside. When many of them want to settle down, they do so because they are tired of the kind of lives they have lived and want a burst of fresh air. It is futile getting married to women who would not make them experience any significant change in status. These women cannot cook, keep the house or add values to their lives. They feel being wild and experienced in bed is the only thing that will keep the guys going. In addition to these, their physical appearance is far from being alluring.

2. Living fake lives Many Nigerian ladies that ought to have been settled in their matrimonial homes have lost the opportunity as a result of their fake lifestyles and their superficial way of doing things. Sometimes, men just want something simple, decent and presentable; not the loud, wayward and modest-torn ladies that have plagued the cities and towns in the country. Some men get turned off when they see ladies like these; they may be good for the clubs and hotel beds, but never as graceful ornaments worthy of being placed in their houses.

3. Indecisiveness Many young ladies in the society live their lives based on influences; many of them cannot make up their minds and depend on envious friends to make important decisions for them. by the time the position of their friends dawn on them, it would have been too late and they would have missed getting connected to good and responsible men.

4. Bitterness from the past We know some of our Nigerian ladies have suffered various forms of abuse in relationships. Physical abuse, as well as verbal bashing, has made some women embittered towards the institution of marriage. I will have to stop here until i see comments then i will post the rest but if you can't wait follow here to read the rest http://levelhealth..com.ng/2016/07/why-some-nigerian-ladies-may-never-marry.html

Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 2:02am On Jul 02, 2016
you are so on point
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 3:59am On Jul 02, 2016
Well, it's not everybody that will get married.
Those pix u attached are ewwwwww!
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by illuminada: 4:07am On Jul 02, 2016
Nikita1:
Well, it's not everybody that will get married.
Those pix u attached are ewwwwww!

Hahaha...Nikita grin
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 4:12am On Jul 02, 2016
illuminada:


Hahaha...Nikita grin
Yes cheesy
Not everybody nah.
Is it compulsory?
Marriage is over rated and I blame the society fot it

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Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 4:19am On Jul 02, 2016
Opcry


You killed it with these points..

But just watch how those nonsense feminists come and turn everything on you..

Lalasticlala, I think this deserves a spot on FP

These ladies need to learn..


Op, for being truthful..

Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by illuminada: 4:26am On Jul 02, 2016
Nikita1:
Yes cheesy
Not everybody nah.
Is it compulsory?
Marriage is over rated and I blame the society fot it

Haha...you have a fair argument. I discussed this matter with a single lady in her mid-thirties the other day. I feel like there's bound to be times when such ppl feel lonely and may just resort to a withdrawn lifestyle. I think the demerits of being single outweigh the merits. You are right sha, the emphasis on marriage may have been stressed too much in our society.
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 4:37am On Jul 02, 2016
illuminada:


Haha...you have a fair argument. I discussed this matter with a single lady in her mid-thirties the other day. I feel like there's bound to be times when such ppl feel lonely and may just resort to a withdrawn lifestyle. I think the demerits of being single outweigh the merits. You are right sha, the emphasis on marriage may have been stressed too much in our society.
You also have a point. There are times the loneliness creeps in and also the urge(or what can I call it) to have someone by your side becomes so high that it brings tears to your face.

I will always blame the society for their wahala on marriage stuff
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 6:07am On Jul 02, 2016
5. It is their destiny...

Marriage is not for everyone
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Barackmeringo: 8:19am On Jul 02, 2016
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by LuveU2(f): 8:53am On Jul 02, 2016
HarkymTheOracle:
5. It is their destiny...

Marriage is not for everyone
You are a singer, that's great too!

How about u checking my signature. Will appreciate smiley
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by chigoizie7(m): 11:35am On Jul 02, 2016
Nikita1:
Yes cheesy
Not everybody nah.
Is it compulsory?
Marriage is over rated and I blame the society fot it


Maybe u didn't read where she said that not everyone will get married but majority would want to.


Anyways, I agree with u, marriage is over rated.
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by vicstar(m): 11:40am On Jul 02, 2016
• • • • • Lemme give lalasticlacla a call for u embarassed

Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jul 02, 2016
chigoizie7:



Maybe u didn't read where she said that not everyone will get married but majority would want to.


Anyways, I agree with u, marriage is over rated.
I read everything bro. Just giving m opinion
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jul 02, 2016
LuveU2:
You are a singer, that's great too!

How about u checking my signature. Will appreciate smiley
Done..
Re: Why Some Nigerian Ladies May Never Get Married by dinachi(m): 3:43am On Jul 03, 2016
You failed to add rotten pussy @ OP

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