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Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by LordReed(m): 2:17pm On Jul 11, 2016
@butanep

It is not unreasonable to give our loved ones space for their hobbies and games. Anybody who does not know how to let their partners enjoy their hobbies is only unwittingly creating an unhealthy atmosphere that will blow up unexpectedly in their face.

In your case you need to seat her down and tell her this is who you are. You are not hurting anyone neither are you hurting yourself. 90—120mins to watch a match is not going to stop you from having quality time with her but if she can't deal with you being you then you are sorry you won't become someone else. It's up to her to either accept you or walk.

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Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 2:18pm On Jul 11, 2016
shyling:

Wrong post...wrong audience I assume....

Why are u in two places are u double?
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by Kaycee7(m): 2:20pm On Jul 11, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
my brodah I dey oh.Economy don hook us for neck like fish bone...now na onto underground tinz #CodedOperations. na so we dey roll now.
My penìs? I do not know what u speak of grin

Some dey even say make him buy dstv,watch am for house. #LoL
When ma n1gga buy Dstv, the girl go come talk say na Zee World dem go dey watch. The same people go still tell am make im pay for xtra view.

e better make u suffocate me with one dirty pillow than make me watch football at home. E no make sense.
Ma guy, you sabi. Na football I dey watch no be documentary. If I dey house dey watch Man U vs Chelsea, who I go yab when Martial score? Make novices park one side abeg.

I how you've been well,bro.
Na survive we dey so. No light, no money, less food. But God dey sha.
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by shyling(f): 2:23pm On Jul 11, 2016
halfricanadian:


Why are u in two places are u double?
I should be asking you that.... How can you be in my heart and where you are dearie?
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by harsysky(m): 2:24pm On Jul 11, 2016
butanep:
Lalasticlala... how far... what will you do?

On behalf of Lalasticlala, look for what she loves and tell her to quit doing it. Whether it is TELMUNDO, fashion tv , whatever. Try to make her see how her feelings to what she loves correlate to your feelings to your sports too. Anything for my woman is my priority, especially something that won't kill/ remove money from my pocket if I stop it
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 2:25pm On Jul 11, 2016
shyling:

I should be asking you that.... How can you be in my heart and where you are dearie?
embarassed embarassed im a female aladin
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by sammyogboso(m): 2:25pm On Jul 11, 2016
Ma babe doesn't lik football buh she said she can't stay @home alone so she joined me buh we went 2bar she was busy pressin her fone nd eatin her suya meat me was busy watchin wot took me dai..............i tink u Shd talk 2her hrt2hrt............don't let her go lik dat
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by shyling(f): 2:30pm On Jul 11, 2016
halfricanadian:

embarassed embarassed im a female aladin
Really? Tell me more?
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 2:31pm On Jul 11, 2016
shyling:

Really? Tell me more?
More like wat?
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by shyling(f): 2:33pm On Jul 11, 2016
halfricanadian:

More like wat?
About you being a female Aladdin... Pictures you like Jasmine..
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 2:41pm On Jul 11, 2016
shyling:

About you being a female Aladdin... Pictures you like Jasmine..

cheesy cheesy oga im nt jasmine

So pls dnt jazz moi embarassed embarassed
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by shyling(f): 2:43pm On Jul 11, 2016
halfricanadian:


cheesy cheesy oga im nt jasmine

So pls dnt jazz moi embarassed embarassed
When ladies are in love with one another it's the greatest kind of love you ever get anywhere among humans
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by sade1994(f): 2:43pm On Jul 11, 2016
Seriously I enjoyed reading this story. ..
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by butanep(m): 2:46pm On Jul 11, 2016
MrImole:




Yes, you are right, she looks at me in a certain way anytime she wants something, the looks always make me feel weak and I seriously need the antidote.


I repeat, females are evils.
hmmm


Pathetic
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by freecocoa(f): 2:46pm On Jul 11, 2016
OP fvck your babe, she's not ready for a relationship.

How dare she try and come between a man and football, like she well so?

Football is life my nigga, don't let no one tell you otherwise. angry
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 2:50pm On Jul 11, 2016
shyling:

When ladies are in love with one another it's the greatest kind of love you ever get anywhere among humans

Alaye go nd clean up u dripping blood
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by shyling(f): 2:52pm On Jul 11, 2016
halfricanadian:


Alaye go nd clean up u dripping blood
Wrong post...wrong audience
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 2:53pm On Jul 11, 2016
shyling:

Wrong post...wrong audience

cry cry u are fustrating me
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by uruomostephen(m): 2:55pm On Jul 11, 2016
2BB4CB3E:
break up with her asap
no girl can ever, will never ever tell me what i can do or cant do!
when its not like i want to smoke or go out with big yansh!
break up with that robot asap
once you allow bullsh*t to thrive, she will never stop
soon she will be telling you to escort her to make her hair
. people like you now dey nee down dey beg women so bad egg, you better give him a good advice.
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by shyling(f): 2:55pm On Jul 11, 2016
halfricanadian:


cry cry u are fustrating me
Bae am in love nony
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by Femistico(m): 2:56pm On Jul 11, 2016
Buh in the first instance, why will u let ur girlfriend have a say in ur private decision...why do u need to lie to her that u wanted to visit ur parents, are u scared of her,,,my guy go siddon somewhere....that's why I always don't hide my love for football from my gf's immediately I met them, I let them knw the type of person I am..
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by Mopricelezz(f): 2:58pm On Jul 11, 2016
Do we even have guys who dont love football?
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 2:59pm On Jul 11, 2016
shyling:

Bae am in love nony

Shebi with baba God noni
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jul 11, 2016
uruomostephen:
. people like you now dey nee down dey beg women so bad egg, you better give him a good advice.
do you know me?
abeg stop saying what u dont know

Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jul 11, 2016
so good to see halfricanadian and shyling making an headway.... I foresee a new dawn in Nigeria...keep it up babes.. cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by shyling(f): 3:00pm On Jul 11, 2016
NgcoboP:
so good to see halfricanadian and shyling making an headway.... I foresee a new dawn in Nigeria...keep it up babes.. cheesy
Thanks sis
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jul 11, 2016
NgcoboP:
so good to see halfricanadian and shyling making an headway.... I foresee a new dawn in Nigeria...keep it up babes.. cheesy

your moniker is ewwww
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jul 11, 2016
shyling:

Thanks sis

No shame!
public display of dirt

Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 3:02pm On Jul 11, 2016
NgcoboP:
so good to see halfricanadian and shyling making an headway.... I foresee a new dawn in Nigeria...keep it up babes.. cheesy

grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by andreawills96(f): 3:04pm On Jul 11, 2016
butanep:
Good morning Nairalanders.

I know this forum has been providing vital solutions to problems from time immemorial hence the need to pour-out my worries on this forum to get solutions become inevitable.

I was preparing for the final between Portugal and France yesterday when my girlfriend called me she will be coming, that I should be at home by 5pm. I was like why today of all day now! I told her I won't be around that I will be going to my parents place that evening. She began to act cold via the phone and later told me she will come let's go together. I haven't even seen your parents one on one she said... I was like which kind stubborn babe is this... I replied let's see about it but it will be better we make it another day. Don't worry today is the perfect day she said and cut the calls.

I tried calling no answer. This babe has come again because she don't like hearing football. We have had issues on this football matter severally but I told her she can't dictate what I will do or not, that I started watching football before I meet her. She first stop me from playing my soccer game when she is around. my friend have to call me when coming during the weekend to play games if she is around or not. I had to stop doing it when she is around to avoid problems.


Fast-forward... She came few minutes to 5pm. She was looking superb, probably to impress my parents. The desire for romance and sex came but I have to rebuked it because if it start, then my match is cancelled. How do I tell her I ve changed my mind from seeing my parents to watching football she never like or want to hear when she is around. We talk and talk till about few minutes to 8. She observed I wasn't coming closer to her as usual. She was like, a you expecting another woman. I smiled...

Then I busted it. Baby lets go and watch match. This one is very interesting. It's a final match. Ohhh match again. Aren't you going to your parents place again? I said my mum called to tell me she won't be around. She became relaxed. Please cancel the match... I want to cook something, you need to assist me. I was like baby am not hungry. I ve eaten. I am watching my food intake this period. She said that's my own, she wants to cook and I should be with her. The hatred against her started again. I said if you don't want to follow me to watch the match, eat your food alone. You can't stop me this time. Even my mother can't stop me from watching this final.

I left the kitchen. I called a friend to reserve a seat for me. She was frowning bitterly . I have made up my mind already. Few minutes after Ronaldo was brough -down, I received a text from her. " Dear so your match is more important than me" you can forgo me just because of match you can still watch later...it's a pity you don't love me. All I was thinking is how Ronaldo will come back again. I didn't give the message a second thought.


After the match. I was so happy Portugal won after the heat from France. That is when I read her message again. I quickly ran home. It was almost 11:30pm. She has slept. I send her a romantic message and told her am sorry about it but she should try to let me enjoy my football.

She woke up this morning. She was still frowning that I abandoned her for common football. I try to make her understand how important and interesting the match is to me. She left in anger and said I should either choose my football or her. That when I have made up my mind, I should let her know.


Though decision for me to make. I am not scared of loosing her anyway but I don't want us to break-up just like that... I'm not ready to drop sports again because of her. I told myself the sacrifices is too much, maybe I have to let her go... I have made up my mind not to call her.


Nairalanders what do you think on this issue? Matured advised only...






. Is only a witch that can stop. Guy from watching soccer, Some girls are just matured in age and body but not in sense, if she really want to spent eternity in ur house, she should respect what you love doing by the way if she say no soccer tell her no more make up, let. See who will win
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by Nobody: 3:04pm On Jul 11, 2016
men r hardly worth the trouble... I might marry my cat or my smartphone instead as a last resort

halfricanadian:


grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by halfricanadian(f): 3:08pm On Jul 11, 2016
NgcoboP:
men r hardly worth the trouble... I might marry my cat or my smartphone instead as a last resort


Me i will just marry mysef

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