harsysky:


On behalf of Lalasticlala, look for what she loves and tell her to quit doing it. Whether it is TELMUNDO, fashion tv , whatever. Try to make her see how her feelings to what she loves correlate to your feelings to your sports too. Anything for my woman is my priority, especially something that won't kill/ remove money from my pocket if I stop it

butanep:


You don't know my woman. I know her very well. Sometimes you have to play pranks to your woman, then when it fails you tell her the truth so both of you face the reality. I told her so she can changed her mind from coming but since she didn't, I had to spill the bitter truth.


The fact am not scared to loss a woman doesn't mean I don't love her. If a woman want to exercise control over me, l shouldn't correct it because of love abi... love can't make me eat Shit.

I don't think marriage is all about love. Love is overrated that's the reason couples can say I love you today and divorce tomorrow.

Relationship should be based on compatibility and understanding. If we aren't compactible and can't understand our needs and desire, then we should go separate ways.

halfricanadian:


Me i will just marry mysef

NgcoboP:
lols ...you have a lover already in shyling... lucky you

halfricanadian:


she is d swttest boo ever

I love her deeply bt she no dey gree understand dat

shyling:
am touched....

sade1994:
Seriously I enjoyed reading this story. ..

SmellingAnus:
I remember I use to have an issue with the way my ex then was into movies... I let it slide and let her watch her movies even when we are together, then the worst part came... She always insist that I see the movies with her... I am not a movie kind of person worst still is that I dislike series not because it's not interesting but because it's time consuming, addictive and I know I will never complete it so why should I start what I will not finish but that happens to be the exact kind of movies she loved then... I could get her anything as gift but she appreciates most is when I spend time to see a movie with her... (but note I am lover of Mafian movies but not crazy about them)...

SmellingAnus:
I remember I use to have an issue with the way my ex then was into movies... I let it slide and let her watch her movies even when we are together, then the worst part came... She always insist that I see the movies with her... I am not a movie kind of person worst still is that I dislike series not because it's not interesting but because it's time consuming, addictive and I know I will never complete it so why should I start what I will not finish but that happens to be the exact kind of movies she loved then... I could get her anything as gift but she appreciates most is when I spend time to see a movie with her... (but note I am lover of Mafian movies but not crazy about them)...

Ranchhoddas:
How can a girl be dictating how you live your life. Give am red card card sharply.

freecocoa:
OP fvck your babe, she's not ready for a relationship.

How dare she try and come between a man and football, like she well so?

Football is life my nigga, don't let no one tell you otherwise.

butanep:


Guy you nor get mercy at all... I should drop her so fast and hard that she breaks the floor. abeg ooo... I nor want hurt someone daughter. I am trying to be diplomatic in the situation. I don't want to take harsh decisions. I'm still finding it difficult how will a woman am dating tell me to stop watching football. That means when we are married, she will tell me not to walk my friends away from my compound.

I won't yield to her request anyway.

butanep:


You get mouth oooo

surprised a girl is saying this.. u are a correct babe.

... she is just acting possessive.

RichieDaVinci01:
She indirectly stopped you homies from coming over and stopped you from playing and stopped you from watching bruh better run away she'll make your life miserable later

SmellingAnus:
I remember I use to have an issue with the way my ex then was into movies... I let it slide and let her watch her movies even when we are together, then the worst part came... She always insist that I see the movies with her... I am not a movie kind of person worst still is that I dislike series not because it's not interesting but because it's time consuming, addictive and I know I will never complete it so why should I start what I will not finish but that happens to be the exact kind of movies she loved then... I could get her anything as gift but she appreciates most is when I spend time to see a movie with her... (but note I am lover of Mafian movies but not crazy about them)...

halfricanadian:


Eaxctly aint scared of loosing any guy too

mapet:


This is me you just described

butanep:
Good morning Nairalanders.

I know this forum has been providing vital solutions to problems from time immemorial hence the need to pour-out my worries on this forum to get solutions become inevitable.

I was preparing for the final between Portugal and France yesterday when my girlfriend called me she will be coming, that I should be at home by 5pm. I was like why today of all day now! I told her I won't be around that I will be going to my parents place that evening. She began to act cold via the phone and later told me she will come let's go together. I haven't even seen your parents one on one she said... I was like which kind stubborn babe is this... I replied let's see about it but it will be better we make it another day. Don't worry today is the perfect day she said and cut the calls.

I tried calling no answer. This babe has come again because she don't like hearing football. We have had issues on this football matter severally but I told her she can't dictate what I will do or not, that I started watching football before I meet her. She first stop me from playing my soccer game when she is around. my friend have to call me when coming during the weekend to play games if she is around or not. I had to stop doing it when she is around to avoid problems.


Fast-forward... She came few minutes to 5pm. She was looking superb, probably to impress my parents. The desire for romance and sex came but I have to rebuked it because if it start, then my match is cancelled. How do I tell her I ve changed my mind from seeing my parents to watching football she never like or want to hear when she is around. We talk and talk till about few minutes to 8. She observed I wasn't coming closer to her as usual. She was like, a you expecting another woman. I smiled...

Then I busted it. Baby lets go and watch match. This one is very interesting. It's a final match. Ohhh match again. Aren't you going to your parents place again? I said my mum called to tell me she won't be around. She became relaxed. Please cancel the match... I want to cook something, you need to assist me. I was like baby am not hungry. I ve eaten. I am watching my food intake this period. She said that's my own, she wants to cook and I should be with her. The hatred against her started again. I said if you don't want to follow me to watch the match, eat your food alone. You can't stop me this time. Even my mother can't stop me from watching this final.

I left the kitchen. I called a friend to reserve a seat for me. She was frowning bitterly . I have made up my mind already. Few minutes after Ronaldo was brough -down, I received a text from her. " Dear so your match is more important than me" you can forgo me just because of match you can still watch later...it's a pity you don't love me. All I was thinking is how Ronaldo will come back again. I didn't give the message a second thought.


After the match. I was so happy Portugal won after the heat from France. That is when I read her message again. I quickly ran home. It was almost 11:30pm. She has slept. I send her a romantic message and told her am sorry about it but she should try to let me enjoy my football.

She woke up this morning. She was still frowning that I abandoned her for common football. I try to make her understand how important and interesting the match is to me. She left in anger and said I should either choose my football or her. That when I have made up my mind, I should let her know.


Though decision for me to make. I am not scared of loosing her anyway but I don't want us to break-up just like that... I'm not ready to drop sports again because of her. I told myself the sacrifices is too much, maybe I have to let her go... I have made up my mind not to call her.


Nairalanders what do you think on this issue? Matured advised only...

ayooladee:
dont you have a Tv, DStv or are you out of subscription, dont you have a mobile internet banking in you phone,


well i have nothing to say go and marry the game





I just dey vex this morning

butanep:


You enjoyed reading the story... how?

Have you been in such before? What did you enjoyed about it?

ayooladee:
dont you have a Tv, DStv or are you out of subscription, dont you have a mobile internet banking in you phone,


well i have nothing to say go and marry the game





I just dey vex this morning