mhisbliss:
so your speech earlier was a conversation starter

I888:
lol... did you expect me to get into a fight with you? na who don ever win women for verbal war? are you looking for whom to use as your e-punching bag? nah... no b me you go disgrace this sunday.

cheer up jor... your blood dey hot sha.

mhisbliss:
women right? Smh i expected it though

I888:
lol... i knew your plan and i had to avoid it before you bury with your venom. Truth is, I had once acted the way you replied above--so much anger cos of the past, hated ladies but these days, all those has passed!

if you are still angry over anything, it will pass. Trust me.

mhisbliss:
hmm tell me more

I888:
tell ya what?

mhisbliss:
more of the psycho babble

I888:
lol. can't talk much but the anger was so much in me back then... no thanks to your sisters

mhisbliss:
what did they do

I888:
too many crimes because I am always too "nice" to them. it's life but I hardly accept them when they come back.

mhisbliss:
what did they do

mhisbliss:
i can visualize how you are treated but stop generalizing because you're chatting with a girl right now

I888:
and you know you ladies never like a nice guy.

I888:
I am not generalizing. If I were, I would have attacked you when you tried to breathe on me. Yeah, back then I was a wounded lion and most ladies saw me as a misogynist.

mhisbliss:
nice guys has types, the ones who are nice because they are expecting to reap the rewards of thier niceties and those who are really nice, i dont like the former but i like the later, but i guess you'll say you're the later, of course you can never be honest

mhisbliss:
lol breathe on you? You're the one that jumped into my chats with someone else and am suprised because they're a hundred comments here and you choose to reply only mine, coincidence?

I888:
lol... why are you being overly smart? You aren't talking to sex freak so what is there to expect from a girl you give a sizable portion except to be treated as much as you treat her? I have ended relationship that sex wasn't involved. It got so bad that I became so impatient such that once I noticed any rubbish I tell them to fork off.

Most girls are deeply selfish and cunning. They want what they can't give. Mind you sex isn't giving something, only freaks see it at the ultimate and lose their senses over it.

I888:
Agreed I jumped on you but it wasn't without a reason, which I perceived as someone angry of her past experience, hasn't gotten over it and that there reminded me of whom I used to be.

mhisbliss:
its giving if you pressurized someone into it, if you are a girl who depends on guys entirely just because he's dating you, then you should expect to pay back someday, since they can't shower you with gifts it must be sex, so tell me if the girl refuse the sex but keeps collecting your gift why won't you be annoyed and feel used?, as for me i believe relationships should be like symbiosis, mutual, the niceties must be from both sides, but if its only from the guy, sex is definitely the end game

mhisbliss:
hmm I'm that transparent ryt, I've gotten over it thats why I'm advising people against it, you know you can only advice people from experience ryt

I888:
lol... I no longer advise people o. Let them enter and learn themselves because experience is the best teacher and people will never take your advise because that "what if" will always make them curious.

I had brother is very experience in this relationship ish, I never took his words until I was bombed lol.

I888:
Well, you have a point, a symbiotic relationship is the only healthy one.

But even if a girl forks my brain off, with all styles, I won't stay if that is the only thing she offers. I have never been emotionally attached to sex and never will. That is why I laugh when I hear some say " I thought sex will make it stronger"

You have to give more, something rare and that is only way to be valued!

mhisbliss:
its not actually an advise its just that your experience in life shapes the way you behave in situations, I'm just saying it pays to be single compared to being in relationships, marriage is something serious you make a vow before God and man, but this dating here and there people do is not really my thing, i know you'll be asking how do hou get married without dating and my answer to that is, dont give all of yourself in a relationship, be neutral dont expect him to be perfect expect disappointment so the blow wont be much if it comes, start taking him serious when you get married but if you're dating don't think you're dating a saint

I888:
lol.. at the emboldened. You are always knowing.

To me girls make the mistake. If you read my post in page 2, you will see where I posted my experience with 2 different girls that I liked and had good intentions towards them BUT they were busy down grading me.

mhisbliss:
maybe those two girls find something undesirable about you, have you ever thought about why two girls will behave the same way towards you? Maybe the problem is you, don't just conclude its thier fault

I888:
lol... well, they thought I had nothing to offer, no future... but after awhile, they wanna give me a chance. So why did they change their mind?

mhisbliss:
lemme guess your financial status improved right

mhisbliss:
wheres the answer

Berlyn:
here's my problem i'm fighting really hard to remain single for as long as i can hold, i don't wanna jump into a relationship! The problem here is i was really hurt in my previous relationship and the fear of being hurt again keeps coming to me, but at times i wish to just say 'yes' to someone and start something new all over again but the impression of all guys are the same, thus making me unable to fall in love again, but the fun of being single is something i don't want to derive myself from, its makes me feel happy because i'm free kind of here are Few things i have benefited ever since i became single, i'm going to share with you all

1 It’s about finding out who you really are.

There are physical characteristics that we all know about ourselves; height, approximate weight and sex being the obvious ones, but being single affords you a unique opportunity, you get to really find out who you are the good, the bad, the indifferent, are all laid bare. Your strengths, weaknesses and insecurities exposed, embrace the solitude and vow to learn and uncover everything about yourself. Resolve to tackle your demons rather than bottling them up so many potential, great relationships are ruined because we carry much unresolved baggage from one relationship to the next, Being single is about finding out who and why you are what you are, and then working to iron some things out

2 It’s about gaining confidence.

Being single allows you to develop skills and talents you may have forgotten about or did'nt even know you had it allows you to learn how to do things independently and cope with change, being single and creating the life you desire is like a journey and the reward for a journey of self discovery is a new found confidence and sense of contentment.

3 It’s about regaining your health.

Use this time to nourish your body with quality foods and benefit from the feel good spirit that exercise provides, you’ll gain the self confidence, satisfaction and a sense of achievement that only a strong and healthy human body knows and you get the satisfaction of politely declining admiring suitors captivated by your recent physical and mental transformation.

4 It’s about loving yourself.

People always say that you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else well, maybe not you can certainly love someone even if you’re going through the darkest of times, but you simply cannot give the pure unadulterated love you’re capable of if you’re shackled by low self-esteem and regret.


Being single used to mean nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.

– Sarah Jessica Parker

I888:
oops... I deleted it o. I thought you had read them. chai! I will try to recompose another one.