RuggedArab:


Would you advise your bro or want your bf to help you in school fees or rent?

My bf once paid 50k i used in doing something in school, and won't take even 1k frm me, men are different, and i consider that one a man.

Don't 4get some of you are just boys.

Benita27:
What are packet shirts?. Hope you knw they come frm different world designers.

My husband won't regret marrying me, bt for a bf, i don't owe him anything.

Let the posterity judge you, who's looking for a foolish girl that will spend on you.

Did you read in my post where I categorically stated I wanted a girl to spend on me? Hahaha of what use is it so it can be as a reference point tomorrow like you are already doing? Nah

If my girl choose to surprise me or probably gv me a treat I can't object to it. Maybe I may have misunderstood ur "packet shirt" but dat from a guys view is a very cheap commodity. You want to buy a guy a packet shirt with a breast pocket and u call it a designer simply put it "Shirt" and not complex the situation.

You feel it's ok I buy you exotic things cos we're dating but you don't think it's wise to surprise a guy with sth he'd like and appreciate. I would be stupid to allow a girl take my financial burden and I'll just watch and cross my leg and be feeling happy? C'mon babe no b babe buy G-Wagon for her man as appreciation of love? Think well dear a relationship is a 2 way street

nelszx:


Did you read in my post where I categorically stated I wanted a girl to spend on me? Hahaha of what use is it so it can be as a reference point tomorrow like you are already doing? Nah

If my girl choose to surprise me or probably gv me a treat I can't object to it. Maybe I may have misunderstood ur "packet shirt" but dat from a guys view is a very cheap commodity. You want to buy a guy a packet shirt with a breast pocket and u call it a designer simply put it "Shirt" and not complex the situation.

You feel it's ok I buy you exotic things cos we're dating but you don't think it's wise to surprise a guy with sth he'd like and appreciate. I would be stupid to allow a girl take my financial burden and I'll just watch and cross my leg and be feeling happy? C'mon babe no b babe buy G-Wagon for her man as appreciation of love? Think well dear a relationship is a 2 way street

Have you bought a Tokunba for ur gf b4?, did you see the babe that bought the car for him?.

Stupidity is when a man doesn't knw his roles in a relationship, my candid advice was for ladies and not for boys like you.

Benita27:
Have you bought a Tokunba for ur gf b4?, did you see the babe that bought the car for him?.

Stupidity is when a man doesn't knw his roles in a relationship, my candid advice was for ladies and not for boys like you.

Truth is you don't have to throw insults to drive home your point it doesn't validate yours either. Let's end it there, a relationship is a form of commitment and sacrifice and not a business venture. If you observed carefully I only picked out what wasn't making sense from all you wrote.
N.B: A man will always be a man we can shift our responsibility to the other gender. In as much I advocate a woman should bring sth to the table "occasionally" it should be as a support and not a moral obligation.

nelszx:


Truth is you don't have to throw insults to drive home your point it doesn't validate yours either. Let's end it there, a relationship is a form of commitment and sacrifice and not a business venture. If you observed carefully I only picked out what wasn't making sense from all you wrote.
N.B: A man will always be a man we can shift our responsibility to the other gender. In as much I advocate a woman should bring sth to the table "occasionally" it should be as a support and not a moral obligation.

If you read my post very well, you would have realize that frm your last two sentences i made mention of that.

I only made emphasis with that word, and didn't insult any1.

Have a nice day.

Benita27:
My bf once paid 50k i used in doing something in school, and won't take even 1k frm me, men are different, and i consider that one a man.

Don't 4get some of you are just boys.

You don't actually know people behind some monikers.

...... because he gave you 50k for a pressing need you consider him a man? and helping him out when he is down makes you less a woman or makes him a boy? smh.

You are selfishly broke mentally.

RuggedArab:


You don't actually know people behind some monikers.

...... because he gave you 50k for a pressing need you consider him a man? and helping him out when he is down makes you less a woman or makes him a boy? smh.

You are selfishly broke mentally.

Thanks for the compliment.

Benita27:
That's ur mentality, just as i have mine.

My parents will always give me more money than my brother, and when he inquires, they tell him he's a man, and have survival instinct bt is nt the same for me, cos i maybe be forced to do other things.

I can't spend on a guy and let my parents knw, bt he can spend on me and let his parents knw, is totally wrong to be dependent on ladies, you're a man.

The oyibo people you like are not dummies.

I am a man means I should spend foolishly on a lady i am yet to marry? I cant take a gun for a lady who cant cross a gutter for me

agarawu23:
I am a man means I should spend foolishly on a lady i am yet to marry? I cant take a gun for a lady who cant cross a gutter for me

Nobody said you shld buy a ferrari o!.

NIgerian men.

Benita27:
Nobody said you shld buy a ferrari o!.

NIgerian men.

better

Cutehector:
Halfricanadian please there is a difference between being in love and being stvpid.



@op


You are right. Though a lady can support her guy when in need, dah doesn't mean she should become his mugu. Personally I won't tolerate a girlfrnd cooking feeding and paying my bills, so that when things go awry, she'll start saying crap like, after all i've done for him. I just don't Wana hear Dat statement!

[b][/b]This is a good answer. Assist.....dont be a mugun.

things can be rough for a guy and his lady support him, not taking it as her responsibilities. you can also surprise with gifts and it has to be vice versa...... ladies please lets be wise!!

danbrowndmf:
Pinkbarbie comman talk your own o.

Of course, why shouldn't she?

Benita27:
Never develop the habit of spending on a guy you're dating, there's no harm in helping them when they're in need, What real men want is a faithful lady, not one that spends on them.

To some spending on them reduces their self worth, even in marriages when a lady is the bread winner of the family, the men are not so happy, so why should your boyfriend be happy when you're the one doing virtually everything for him?, when such a relationship crashes, he has nothing to lose but you.

Imagine if all you do is:pay his school fees, pay rents, cook for him with your money whenever you visit, change his wardrobe, when there's no guarantee he will even marry you, neither are you his sugar mummy, is he handicap?. He will take all these and still cheat on you, and dump you when the need arise.

We ladies are naturally emotional, while the male counterparts are naturally logical, when he dumps you suicide is inevitable, he's likely to move on sooner that you.

He asked you out, you didn't ask him, why should you two go on a date, and you're the one buying everything, while he's collecting?.

Spending on a guy is not healthy, even your parents will frown at it.

Expecting the ladies you date to spend on you is like patronising a prostitute and asking her to pay you.

We're not in India where women marry men.

whenever i want to toast a girl the first thing i look out for is her mentality. if she thinks like the op i just enter bike and zoom off or run for my dear life

Smhart1:
Wait till you are my man

how can i be your MAN?

PinkBarbie:
Of course, why shouldn't she?

but u have never spend on me before na.

Blackfire:




how can i be your MAN?

You are a man you should know how to be my man.

Smhart1:
You are a man you should know how to be my man.

u know different lady different choice.

Do u want me to sweeep u off your feet?

Or stole your heart with gun blazing?

Or come in like a smooth operator ?


*winks*

Blackfire:


u know different lady different choice.

Do u want me to sweeep u off your feet?

Or stole your heart with gun blazing?

Or come in like a smooth operator ?


*winks*

Non of the 3 is not okay by me...

danbrowndmf:
but u have never spend on me before na.

You are not my man.

PinkBarbie:
You are not my man.

sorry.i forgot i'm ur girl.

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danypst:

we know virtually all Muhamads will prefer their wives to be a house-wife and not work. That stiil does not generally make it a foolish act. Its just ur opinion though.

As Your Name Sounds........ too me. I can't complain coz its your choice too make... So even if a make my wife A permanent Agent of the other room. You can't complain too. It's my choice too make.. Thanks Mr. Dany.....what

My bf once paid 50k i used in doing something in school, and won't take even 1k frm me, men are different, and i consider that one a man.

Don't 4get some of you are just boys.

hmmm, you called him a man becos he gave you 50k from his maybe a milli in account. wat do you call a man that gave 5k from his 10k in his account and you still dump him for a richer dude. if you not a man u can neva have a clue.