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Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by sydney440(m): 11:57am On Jul 28, 2016 |
relationship is vice-versa, why can't you spend on your boy friend... then what is love all about if you don't take care of him by buying little things for him....I can't be in a relationship were I will be the only one given...all I know is that I will always give you more than I have received... |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:59am On Jul 28, 2016 |
sapiosexual1:Have you heard of prenuptial agreement?, Find out why the western men make their women sign that document. Have you wondered why ur African men will go their and end up marrying an old western woman that her punana has even rotten?. You think western girls are stupid?, They need the money more than you, and taxes won't let them save. Keep deceiving urself. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ikombe: 12:08pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27:Try reading your post. Cause before they got married she was paying his school fees and changing his wardrobe |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
oluseyioba:No matter how broke i'm, i don't depend on guys, and don't beg for attention, they just give. I have my own career and future aspirations, like i said, be a man and don't develop the habit of collecting frm girls, is for ur own good. Just get a job, and you won't be depending on ur gfs. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
I don't depend on anybody..n I do hv a job....its not like girls r even open handed b4....goodluck with ur decision Benita27: |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Smhart1(f): 12:19pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Ladies and crazy mentality thou... I'm not saying you should be his father but assistance/help isn't in any way bad. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
oluseyioba:Good for you if you don't, now you knw girls are not open handed. Like i said, occasional surprises for a bf is wat a woman shld do. Is a different ball game when u both a married, a married woman wouldn't mind paying her kids school fees. For a bf and gf relationship, a woman shldn't carry the man's burden, give him gifts and sage advice. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by agarawu23(m): 12:29pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
ifeomaekol:hmmmmm! You don spend for your man before? |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
ikombe:And what if he didn't marry her?. If i was paying ur school fees n changing ur wardrobe, won't you feel traped in the relationship?, as a gf. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by agarawu23(m): 12:31pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27:but a guy should? Smh!! |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by MSEdLAW(m): 12:36pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
My ex is a medical doctor,I invested heavily (6digits) on her in ensuring she wrote a foreign medical licencing exam ..so she could relocate to a country with better welfare ...we broke up and it was very painful... we talk til date...i wish her well with no grudge...i spent that much on,her cos I felt she could do,same for me.... |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
ifeomaekol:Is a pity that men don't knw wat makes them men, they think is to wear a starched shirt. you're right dear. I will work on my career as a lady, be very independent and obviously, i will attract my like, not one thing that will put all his problem on my head, why den is he a man?, occasional spending is cool, most of them running their mouth here are male h*es. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
MSEdLAW:You have a good heart, some people are just ungrateful, it would have saved you the stress if you've married her b4 spending on her career. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
agarawu23:We're not equals, never created equally, it's ur responsibility to give a woman. Why do people say " ladies first". The only thing my ex can take frm me is gifts, he wouldn't take money frm me if he's broke, and wen i asked on finding out he had nothing, he said he shld be the one giving me. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by agarawu23(m): 12:51pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27:sorry for him, we guys aren't the same. My ex once supported me with over 50k years ago but its a pity we are no more. Do me i do you Is the game if we are yet to marry. That's why I like oyinbo ppl. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
agarawu23:That's ur mentality, just as i have mine. My parents will always give me more money than my brother, and when he inquires, they tell him he's a man, and have survival instinct bt is nt the same for me, cos i maybe be forced to do other things. I can't spend on a guy and let my parents knw, bt he can spend on me and let his parents knw, is totally wrong to be dependent on ladies, you're a man. The oyibo people you like are not dummies. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by RuggedArab: 1:35pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27: When people are broke (Physically & mindset) they can say worst things. My prayers everyday not to meet such category of people. "Some" ladies spend because they want something in return. What happened to doing it freely whether he is your bf or not? This same guy will spend more than 5x of what you spend without expecting any sort of returns or favor when you are not not even yet his wife. What happened to the saying "Givers Never Lack". This is a natural law; It works very well for me. You must learn how to give for you to receive. I will share this experience..... there is this female friend I have that kills me with her surprise( not like she has given me the highest gift, but because of the way she does it). One day I went to pick her at the airport, as we are about to leave after having lunch that she paid, she opened her bag and brought out an expensive already-made senators-wear and Puma footwear (Till now I do not know how she got my size). Aside different occasions she has offered to pay for our food, buy me drink, brought cakes to my Bday and even tried to take me clubbing which I have declined severally. Mind you, she is not even my gf even though I want her to be my gf. I have had gf's that have bought much expensive gifts which sometimes I declined. She has the heart of giving and that is my point. No matter how little the gift is in your capacity, try and do it. Now, this is what I do....... whenever I go out with a lady and she offers to pay, what I do is I'll make sure I contribute minimum of 40% of what ever we spend; sometimes I do it 50 - 50; most of them don't like the idea but that is my own thingy. This same particular girl will sneak and pay for the bills at my back but I still have a way to give her my own contribution and that is one thing she hates about me. However, when ladies picks up bills for outing or shopping.... the smiles on the guys face is awesome. You don't have to wait until he is your husband; I doubt if you can even spoil your husband with gifts with this stingy mindset. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
There's difference btw a husband n bf. RuggedArab: |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ifeomaekol(f): 1:45pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27:yes ooo dear. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by badderdandem(m): 1:51pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27:I hear you wise lady you expect your man to be doing all the spending even if he is married to you the essence of a relationship is to help each other not to dry the man up meanwhile some of you ladies have endless request like op |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ifeomaekol(f): 1:51pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
MSEdLAW:ehyah, just keep calm and watch God reward u with the best woman ever. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ifeomaekol(f): 2:01pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
agarawu23:I am not stingy, once in a while I surprise him with something. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
ifeomaekol:Such guys will even end up dumping you, run to marry one innocent girl they will take care of. The truth is bitter, don't be a victim of stupid love. Cheers! Babe. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by dadaijboy: 2:09pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Yes she should |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
badderdandem:My post is strictly for dating couples. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by nelszx: 2:15pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27: Men dey suffer oo......Boxers, singlet and packet shirt (cheaper than some brand of singlet) yet you want these people (men) to buy u big things cos they are dating you. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
nelszx:Sorry!, packet shirts done cheap now abi?, or i for buy am G-wagon?. How much them dey sell am, that's if you don wear one. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by nelszx: 2:43pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27: My dear I don't wear packet shirt sorry to disappoint you. If you give me packet shirt I will just lay it down on the drivers seat so he can step on it so he doesn't put dirt and mud on the car. When ur mates are buying turkey shirts u want buy me packet shirt my singlet expensive pass (God forbid nonsense). There are several things u can buy ur guy to show love. If by mistake I buy you sth dat isn't of value to you will u take it? Yet you want Brazilian hair, IPhone 6S, Car from me right and you want to buy me packet shirt. Don't let posterity judge you |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
nelszx:What are packet shirts?. Hope you knw they come frm different world designers. My husband won't regret marrying me, bt for a bf, i don't owe him anything. Let the posterity judge you, who's looking for a foolish girl that will spend on you. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by RuggedArab: 2:55pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27: Would you advise your bro or want your bf to help you in school fees or rent? |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ikombe: 3:00pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27:so are you saying it is ok only for guys to be paying for girs school fees and changing there wardrobe but looks awkward web girls does it Why u wan spoil boiz show na Abi which guy no want dat kinda girlfriend As for your question i will not feel traped so long as am in love and ready to start a life with you i wont feel traped If possible we can give it a trail to know if i will feel traped |
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