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Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by daclint(m): 8:40am On Jul 28, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Wife material spotted
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Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 8:44am On Jul 28, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ:you are a real lady. Am in love with you |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by davestead(m): 8:45am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Supnaija:You killed it brother. One bottle of Orijin for you. You just said my mind entirely. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Caleycash(m): 8:45am On Jul 28, 2016 |
tbliss22:Hahahahahahaa...Omo no be small tin oo, sai Baba!!! |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 8:46am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Akexstinger:Best comment on this thread,really making sense! No sentiments or hypocritism unlike many here! Like I said earlier,the man must show me first that he is worth it else he should forget me spending a dime on him! I deserve the kind of love I would give someone else so its only fair!
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Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by simwally: 8:53am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Nairaland!!! Destroying relationship since 190bc. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ifeomaekol(f): 8:53am On Jul 28, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ:I support ur comment----once in a while is very ok, but a lady shouldn't make it a habit could make the man uncomfortable. Yea once in a while, a lady should surprise her man with a gift no matter how small. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by tbliss22(m): 8:58am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Caleycash: Like seriously why will someone just credit ur account with 10k without any service rendered? If the guy didn't siphon your money now, he will definitely do it anytime in the future as long as u ar still using the account and your details is with him already. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 9:01am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Later, this one will come out to shout gender equality. Rubbish. Leeches everywhere. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ifeomaekol(f): 9:16am On Jul 28, 2016 |
agarawu23:where did that dull mentality stream from?? Let's go back to history then, our fore fathers, our tradition, where did that phrase come out from 'my knight in shinning armour'. A man is naturally that way to protect n provide for his woman, n it ll always be like that. But yes a woman should give to her man once in a while, surprise him n show him via ur giving that u care n appreciate him( use her money, go to the market and cook his favourite meal). Real men dnt feel comfortable accepting things frm their women all the time, some see it as a trap. What of men that stp dia wives from working? N tell her whatever u need tell me I ll provide?? So my dear, our prayers should be that we should be connected to our own ordained spouse that's all. When u r in the right r/shp all these won't count. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by IAmNigerian: 9:24am On Jul 28, 2016 |
[b][/b] ehix89:. #GBAM! This says it all. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ifeomaekol(f): 9:36am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Giving once in a while to ur guy isn't bad, and like someone commented you must first know the kind of man he is before anything else. Giving to him when he's financially flat isn't bad either, in r/ships we support one another. Men appreciate it when u surprise them with gifts but making it a habit all the time might make them start to wonder. I still rem the story a guy posted here on nairaland, he (the guy) was asking every one on nairaland if his girl had not turned into a runs girl all b/c she bought him an expensive sun shade glasses as a birthday gift. Men are complicated creatures so as a woman u tread with caution. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by pussyAvenger: 9:41am On Jul 28, 2016 |
ifeomaekol:hahaha.....knight in shining armour....stop readin fairy tales |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Alezy(m): 9:50am On Jul 28, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ:u should know we got lotta kids in here |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ifeomaekol(f): 9:51am On Jul 28, 2016 |
pussyAvenger:lol, reading them makes life a bit easy doesn't it? |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by kilokeys(m): 10:13am On Jul 28, 2016 |
misspicy: hello.. i sent a pm. its been a while. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Originalsly: 10:20am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Benita27:This is the bottom line of the thread and as a guy I agree with Op 100%. Many ladies see this as a way of keeping the man. A guy not financially independent or wants extra would maintain the relationship with that woman regardless.... as long as she keeps the cash flowing....what does he care about her?...it's all about the money. When he no longer wants her support ..no problem in dropping her. ....just like that. Money can't buy love. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by SlimShaddy10(m): 10:35am On Jul 28, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ: well said girl. u must be a girl of valor. not all these coward ladies that could not survive on their own without asking guys for money |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 10:53am On Jul 28, 2016 |
UIA04:Deception is an illusion, the side from which you look at it determines how you perceive it. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:15am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Originalsly:God bless you, very few of you are on this thread. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by naniawini(f): 11:15am On Jul 28, 2016 |
I concur Sexytemi: |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:19am On Jul 28, 2016 |
uupgrade:Bless you too. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:22am On Jul 28, 2016 |
oluseyioba:Extremely wicked, if you say so. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Omonigeriarere: 11:24am On Jul 28, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ: Good point. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Omonigeriarere: 11:24am On Jul 28, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ: Don't blame her: she has a gift of parasitic tendency: a man like me will refer to her as slave in the long run. If a man must do everything, how is she going to prove being an 'helper' which God called both parties? Op needs proper re-orientation. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:27am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Supnaija:Plz do, provided it educates those who want to learn. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:31am On Jul 28, 2016 |
pussyAvenger:This is the silly mentality you nairaland broke dudes have. Find out why you're called men, no be to dey make mouth. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:36am On Jul 28, 2016 |
I tink u broken...u need to heal Benita27: |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by noskybanj(m): 11:39am On Jul 28, 2016 |
We r men, taking care of our women is what we do. Bt nothing stops a good woman from contributing every now n den. Makes ur man confident in u n proud also. A demanding woman is a real turn off 4 most MEN |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:45am On Jul 28, 2016 |
pussyAvenger:I am prettier than all the girls you've dated put together. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Omonigeriarere: 11:46am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Titilayooni: The truth is that op has never been in genuine love with a guy because it is absolutely impossible to love and not give whether a guy or gal. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Emma60Ayoola(m): 11:54am On Jul 28, 2016 |
ehix89:My Thought Exertly.... |
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