I think maybe you tried to use her and ended up falling in love with her. Maybe you should try to be with her.

McDoe:

Nairalanders, can a lady charm a man? I am asking this question because of my experience. I met this lady and asked her out for just a night, and since then, I can hardly drink a cup of water without remembering her. The worst aspect is tha my d**ck has refused to perform anytime I wanted to do it with another babe except her. Could it be that I have been charmed, can one be charmed really? I need your advice(s) and prayers.

You've been trying to cheat on her?

hahahahahahahahahahaha!

Yumi:

I think maybe you tried to use her and ended up falling in love with her.  Maybe you should try to be with her.

I did not. I would have loved to be with her, but the truth is that she doesn't possess the qualities I needed in a babe after a close encounter with her. And when she noticed that I was not showing interest like before, she threatened to deal with me.

Ujujoan:

You've been trying to cheat on her?           

No, it was only when the sailing was no longer smooth that I decided to "seek greener pasture". I never cheated.

McDoe:

I did not. I would have loved to be with her, but the truth is that she doesn't possess the qualities I needed in a babe after a close encounter with her. And when she noticed that I was not showing interest like before, she threatened to deal with me.

ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha,  

Too many dreamers on NL.

I suspect that she has tied your tom-tom to a calabash.

McDoe:

I did not. I would have loved to be with her, but the truth is that she doesn't possess the qualities I needed in a babe after a close encounter with her. And when she noticed that I was not showing interest like before, she threatened to deal with me.

If you loved to be with her and she needed to work on things, why didn't you work on them together if you really loved to be with her.  Well you probably hurt her by not showing her interest like before, she probably didn't mean the threat but was upset about what you did.  If I was you I would admit you both are all not perfect and work things out.  

I don't think you are being honest you wouldnt have loved to be with a babe that has no qualities.  You probably just ignored her after hitting it and she got upset with you.

McDoe:

No, it was only when the sailing was no longer smooth that I decided to "seek greener pasture". I never cheated.

Yeah right you told us already you were only going to use her for one night.  So that was your intention all along. Now you say you went looking for pastures greener when you admitted you would have loved to be with her.

your story is conflicting dear you need to work on it.

lmao @ the poster !!! you go hear shege .next time you no go pass your boundaries,abi you know sebi say plenty angry babes full this town lol.my advice to you is to go to church for deliverance .
good luck my brother .

Yumi:

Yeah right you told us already you were only going to use her for one night. So that was your intention all along. Now you say you went looking for pastures greener when you admitted you would have loved to be with her.

your story is conflicting dear you need to work on it.

Yeah!

at the risk of stating the obvious, I'd say he's lying!

Ujujoan:

Yeah!

at the risk of stating the obvious, I'd say he's lying!

I hate when men use women for sex don't they have mothers and sisters isn't it?  How would they feel if someone did that to their sister or mother.  Treated her like a prostitute its so nasty and disrespectful.

@ YUMI: Im not sure if you're a new or old member but I note that you post some good points/applicable comments.

Sometimes, people just come on NL to have fun, to push buttons, or for attention, and sometimes just aren't worth your typing efforts, So urm, just informing you, not take all things seriously.  

Yumi:

I hate when men use women for sex don't they have mothers and sisters isn't it?  How would they feel if someone did that to their sister or mother.  Treated her like a prostitute its so nasty and disrespectful.   

_{valid point dearie. What they do to women, Men will also do the same and even worse to their daughters when they have children.}

posakosa:

@ YUMI: Im not sure if you're a new or old member but I note that you post some good points/applicable comments.

Sometimes, people just come on NL to have fun, to push buttons, or for attention, and sometimes just aren't worth your typing efforts, So urm, just informing you, not take all things seriously.  

Oh ok yeah I think that this would be one of those times.   Thanks  

Do i believe in the efficacy of charms ? Yes

McDoe:

Nairalanders, can a lady charm a man? I am asking this question because of my experience. I met this lady and asked her out for just a night, and since then, I can hardly drink a cup of water without remembering her. The worst aspect is tha my d**ck has refused to perform anytime I wanted to do it with another babe except her. Could it be that I have been charmed, can one be charmed really? I need your advice(s) and prayers.

For you to have suspected you might be charmed, then you are not under any spell cos if you are,you wont even suspect anything BUT people around you might know.

You simply have fallen inlove with your woman dude.

@Poster.

What would she gain by charming you?

I strongly believe that what is happening to you is natural; so don't go and begin to call her witch. Instead seek medical help, and I'm sure that your problem would be solved.

CrazyMan:

@Poster.

What would she gain by charming you?

I strongly believe that what is happening to you is natural; so don't go and begin to call her witch. Instead seek medical help, and I'm sure that your problem would be solved.

Dont mind him. Instead of him to admit he cant get it up he's saying someone charmed him!

Yumi:

Yeah right you told us already you were only going to use her for one night.  So that was your intention all along.  Now you say you went looking for pastures greener when you admitted you would have loved to be with her. 

your story is conflicting dear you need to work on it.

But I have just said the truth. That was the initial stage. But Now the thoughts about her have been aching my head. I think the issue of conflicting story does not arise. One thing is that you have not answered the quetion of whether charms work, cos I was told most ladies now patronize the so called herbalists.

ereyomi:

lmao @ the poster !!! you go hear shege .next time you no go pass your boundaries,abi you know sebi say plenty angry babes full this town lol.my advice to you is to go to church for deliverance .
good luck my brother .

I am beginning to think along that line; but which church?

McDoe:

But I have just said the truth. That was the initial stage. But Now the thoughts about her have been aching my head. I think the issue of conflicting story does not arise. One thing is that you have not answered the quetion of whether charms work, cos I was told most ladies now patronize the so called herbalists.

Your story doesn't agree, but to answer your question its nothing to do with charms. I only seen this once before and that is when a lady travelled and her man tried to cheat and couldn't get it up.  The lady who travelled is my friend and she told me after she found out everything.   Some men if they are in love with a woman will not get an erection with another woman.  It's the only time I heard of such things happening. that is just how it is.  The man I told you about I went to their wedding over a year ago they now have a baby and are happily married.  They met and married in a year so it wasn't too fast or anything she hadn't charmed or bewitched him, he had just fallen in love with her.  I don't think they will ever break up and I don't think he will ever try to cheat on her again.

So the best thing you can do is make it up and start treating her well that way it will be easier for both of you.

CrazyMan:

@Poster.

What would she gain by charming you?

I strongly believe that what is happening to you is natural; so don't go and begin to call her witch. Instead seek medical help, and I'm sure that your problem would be solved.

All of you are just dancing around the bush. So far, there hasn't been any advise but continued to be lambasted. Also, the poser here has not been addressed, I repeat, DO CHARMS WORK?

I have just given you an answer no they don't work.  Especially if you are a Christian.  Noone can do juju against you if you are a Christian so you must be in love with the woman and thats just the way you are wired.

Yumi:

Your story doesn't agree, but to answer your question its nothing to do with charms. I only seen this once before and that is when a lady travelled and her man tried to cheat and couldn't get it up.  The lady who travelled is my friend and she told me after she found out everything.   Some men if they are in love with a woman will not get an erection with another woman.  It's the only time I heard of such things happening. that is just how it is.  The man I told you about I went to their wedding over a year ago they now have a baby and are happily married.  They met and married in a year so it wasn't too fast or anything she hadn't charmed or bewitched him, he had just fallen in love with her.  I don't think they will ever break up and I don't think he will ever try to cheat on her again.

So the best thing you can do is make it up and start treating her well that way it will be easier for both of you.

Are you saying that the love for another lady aside the one you are dating regularly could cause a man his erection?

@ poster,yup they do,are you satisfied now lol,and why are you not in a church,you berra run there now,go to anyone fast ,!!!!!

Yumi:

Noone can do juju against you if you are a Christian so you must be in love with the woman and thats just the way you are wired.

I love the phrase "just the way you are wired"

juju is a state of mind if you had just owned up to the fact that maybe you did her wrong or maybe your break up was a bad break up you will continue to think of her until you get closure with her. Which could be by talking to her and apologizing if you did wrong or just talking to make sure that all the hard feelings are gone. By doing this, you will set your d@ck free and you can slay other women.


p.s awww you have a conscience

iice:

Well maybe some charms work (so people say ).  .  .some things are just delusions
How do you explain stalking someone for years even if the person doesn't know you and no get your time?

BTW. . .just go with the flow

this is just it

yes charms work. . . this is nigeria

I remember reading a magazine in lagos where they made an article complaining about the use of love charms.

I thought it was a joke but the wrote a 3 page tirade against the use of love charms and dammation of the soul for using them.


Because u dont belive doesnt mean its not there.
_{I will share my story one day. . . .}

bullshit bullshit bullshit