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Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by marvelck: 11:59pm On Jul 31, 2016
A solid frienship is the foundation for a happy relationship. Infact thats the secret of a successful relationship. Rushing into a relationship without getting to know the other person well is not the right step to take. You'd only be doing yourself more harm than good, should you overlook the need to be friends first before any other thing.

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Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by 7Randall: 12:03am On Aug 01, 2016
Ok
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by faruz: 12:10am On Aug 01, 2016
noted!
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by P0intBlank(m): 12:13am On Aug 01, 2016
Sounds nice in theory but the reality is that you may end up being just a Friend

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Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by PussyMechanic(m): 12:15am On Aug 01, 2016
So what of those who have sex at 1st meeting outside whatsapp (popularly known as sex at 1st date) and still married each other
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by Nobody: 12:17am On Aug 01, 2016
marvelck:
A solid frienship is the foundation for a happy relationship. Infact thats the secret of a successful relationship. Rushing into a relationship without getting to know the other person well is not the right step to take. You'd only be doing yourself more harm than good, should you overlook the need to be friends first before any other thing.
Nice adv

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Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by IbBarham(m): 12:20am On Aug 01, 2016
Nice write up..
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by duality(m): 12:28am On Aug 01, 2016
P0intBlank:
Sound nice in theory but the reality is that you may end up being just a Friend

Only those looking for sex are afraid of being just a friend. Besides, even if you get married to someone. Is it not friendship you'll be doing in marriage? what do they do in marriage romance? No!!! It's that friendship. In fact the gradual the friendship , the stronger it is.

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Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by P0intBlank(m): 12:35am On Aug 01, 2016
duality:


Only those looking for sex are afraid of being just a friend. Besides, even if you get married to someone. Is it not friendship you'll be doing in marriage? what do they do in marriage romance? No!!! It's that friendship. In fact the gradual the friendship , the stronger it is.

I'm not against your philosophy. But I've seen this happen time and time again. It's just the female psychology. U'll have to find the balance.
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by vchykp(m): 12:39am On Aug 01, 2016
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Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by duality(m): 1:06am On Aug 01, 2016
P0intBlank:


I'm not against your philosophy. But I've seen this happen time and time again. It's just the female psychology. U'll have to find the balance.

The strongest relationships are those without those "Butterfly feelings" for a reasonable time knowing each other.. All these 'Just friend" thing or whatever it's called, will soon be demystified. the narrative will soon change. relationship exclusivity, simply because of transient feelings or that a boy or girl says, I love you, is criminal. humans have become too complex. we most times love wrongly. Hot love will become cold love with unnecessary expectations. "The just friends" gives you a honest assessment, for those true to themselves. If the mind is "sexualized", then the psychology of "just friend" becomes an issue.

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Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by Phut(f): 2:36am On Aug 01, 2016
duality:


Only those looking for sex are afraid of being just a friend. Besides, even if you get married to someone. Is it not friendship you'll be doing in marriage? what do they do in marriage romance? No!!! It's that friendship. In fact the gradual the friendship , the stronger it is.
A thousand likes

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Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by Tobbey(m): 2:42am On Aug 01, 2016
Phut:

A thousand likes
well welll welll
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by jashar(f): 7:34am On Aug 01, 2016
why would you date a person you ain't friends with in the 1st place?
undecided
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by tommychow(m): 8:15am On Aug 01, 2016
And that's how guys get friendzoned. Listen, every babe has at least 10 guys on her list. If you're forming lets be friends first, she'll lose interest eventually. And guess what, immediately a guy she finds very attractive comes up to her boldly telling her he wants her...FORGET IT!

You soft guys need to learn how to lock a babe down, play games (girls love the thrill) and get her hooked...But DO NOT get emotionally attached. Now that she wants you, take it slow, be her friend. By doing this, the ball is you your court: you can assess her while she waits for you to take it further.
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by Nobody: 8:25am On Aug 01, 2016
Most girls will feel betrayed when they find out that u only became her friend so you can date her.. U go dey form friend when she don dey date other people aft er u go come here dey tell us say she sees u as a brother.. This ur method involves pretending and girls like a straightfoward person.. E no go work
Re: Before You Date A Girl, Make Her Your Friend First by Nobody: 8:29am On Aug 01, 2016
Phut:

A thousand likes
Phut..ur current boyfriend ..was he just ordinary friennds with u b4?. Dont lie

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