Sphinx02:
"You don't hv to like my peps,jst pretend or mk an effort when you're around them.". is it too much to ask.

Ghost447:
What is meaningless there? My mum has sacrificed everything for me, and I will not allow any harm or disrespect to come through me to her, I cannot be weakened by what you people referred to as love.

itzsniper:
the only solution is.... don't allow ur mun or ur mum inlaw to live permanently with u in ur matrimonial home shikena

daretodiffer:
What is so special about your mum? You guys act like you folks always respect your mother in laws too

I hope you also told your mama the same thing because your wife deserve respect as much as she does. In fact every human being deserve respect-:\

baddestchic:
you went too far ooooo..... there are other ways to talk to your partner than putting her on hot seat.... your mum just comes and goes... your wife is your family Now too.

Lumig:
I remembered when I was still young, my mum would always say the wrong thing about her MIL. Now my wife is always threatened with her presence and utter rubbish and look for any mistake she does but can't say it in her presence. MY CONCLUSION IS "WOMEN GENERALLY ARE THEIR OWN ENEMIES" From generation to generation they keep on lamenting about the MIL, later the daughter in law... On and on like that. They are such a difficult beings to comprehend

diva90:
But if your mum disrespect your wife, what will happen?
Your choice of words is very wrong. There are other ways to have said it instead of threatening with divorce.
Secondly I don't think it's okay to verbally and indirectly make it known to your wife that your mother is more important than her.
You can think it but never say it in any form

okirewaju:
I agree with you on Mothers been precious.

That does not mean I walk up to my hubby and say "disrespect my mum and I leave the marriage"

Rheetaa:


Sorry I got a bit sensitive. I'd NEVER disrespect my mum-in-law or in-laws and my hubby has made it clear to them (even in my absence) that disrespecting his wife is a no-no. Some women ARE what they are and a real man strikes the balance between both sides without conflict.

Ego on the part of husband or wife'll only set the home on fire. And, guys, never show wife or mother that you love one more. Trust me, no woman would like that, not even your mother.

Sphinx02:
"You don't hv to like my peps,jst pretend or mk an effort when you're around them.". is it too much to ask.

KoldKash:


A wife is a wife and a mother is a mother.no contest no competition.

MadCow1:



Marriage is wife first before Mother.. That's the no. 1 rule.

Asalyn2016:
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Sphinx02:
I recently told my lady this but she felt it wz harsh.Is it? Anyways d mssg has been received loud and clear.

Winneygirl:
We all should learn to live peacefully with one another.
She becomes your family too. Just like your Mum is family.
Respect her, and let your family respect her as well.
All d issues between DILs and MILs stem from where one party doesn't have enough respect for the other party.
Your wife has to respect your family, and your Mum has to respect your marriage.
Respect is not for only one set of people to give, and another set to receive.
Everyone should give respect.