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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by bethyz(m): 12:08am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Not every man cheat. I will always have that in mind. Immediately you start developing and nursing such taught then it will happen. There is power in our imagination. How you deal with it is what matters. Telling a man to cheat with condom you are just digging your grave. The day he doesn't use condom will he tell you. Keep no cheating in mind and fight it out. If he cheats you want to stay good luck you want to go good luck. One day one of the women will visit you because you have given him the free will to cheat. I will take that idea.just the last one is taken. A man that wants to stay will stay. 7 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 12:09am On Sep 18, 2016 |
cococandy:[size=15pt] its plain bitter truth,, am sorry if it sounds unpleasant to your ears. Just think and rethink that's all [/size] 1 Like |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 12:14am On Sep 18, 2016 |
diva90: [size=15pt] i stand to be corrected. Females were never created to be wise, and you naturally proved that flaw from your write up [/size] 3 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 12:17am On Sep 18, 2016 |
This mysgonist e-diot is back again. what's worse is lalasticlala who brought the garbage to front page. we might as well expect him to bring his mistress home and have intercourse right in front of us. We might as well buy a truck load of antiretroviral drugs in preparation for the HIV he's going to bring home. nonsense!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Aboki4inside(m): 12:20am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: Lol... People keep forgetting the GOD factor, that's why a lot of marriages easily get broken.. I like your points, but they r likely to fail if God is never involved.. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by wrongnumber: 12:21am On Sep 18, 2016 |
E be like sey many ladies reading this article dey read am upsidedown or nah dia brain no fit understand. He wrote that ladies should have the expectation and not that it is OK for a man to cheat and he even condemn the act sef. Omo I no go fit marry naija babe o cos many if them get low iq walahi. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Kaira333: 12:21am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Op this ur no 1 point is meaningless to me. Expect who to cheat? My own hubby, not possible dear. I can't leave with a cheating hubby since I know dat I can Neva cheat on him. If not for anything HIV and other std's are real. 1 Like |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Kaira333: 12:34am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Jarizod:Nofin like privacy in my marriage. 1+1= 1. So please stop preaching nonsense. Some guys are something else chuuuuu. Rolling my eyes. |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 12:37am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Kaira333:keep on rolling ur eyes..na u sabi |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 12:42am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Its such a Shame. I would've loved to blame it on the recession but this guy has been spewing out garbage since the days of Yar'adua- and there was no recession then WindUpMerchant: |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Kaira333: 12:45am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Jarizod:lolxxxxxxxx u funny ooooooo but na truth I talk nah |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by diva90: 12:48am On Sep 18, 2016 |
ucsparks: Does this include your Mother as well? Before you hurriedly make such stupid statements, think! 4 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 12:49am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Oh look; a deranged fellow. People like you shouldnt breed cuz your retardation may affect an innocent offspring. Let me school you, females are generally smarter and wiser than men of the same age as they are. Compare 2 two year olds (boy and girl), I assure you, 100% of the time, the girl is always smarter. Females also learn to read and communicate way before their male counterparts. ucsparks: 4 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by diva90: 12:51am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Millerz: Thank you jare! He also forgot that a female gave birth to his silly ass! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by ronald4lif(m): 1:14am On Sep 18, 2016 |
I think the OP is right and his points are well articulated, and what lawyers may refer as res ipsa loquitor - the point speaks for itself. While no one encourages cheating or are proud to cheat most men are prone and susceptible to cheating. As we all know and agree men are visually-fain creatures and the ability to restrain oneself from falling into temptation varies from person to person. The pr1ck itself has an independent mind of it own. What this means is that the body and mind may be willing but 'Johnson' may think differently. Every woman should prepare themselves and expect their man to cheat and if he doesn't fine. Infidelity on men's part, has been one of the major reason, aside finance, for the breakdown of many marriages. So for a marriage to last women should learn to overlook it and stop snooping. And while (cheating) men goes about their philandering they must keep it away from their women's knowledge. But to expect a man not to cheat on you, or harbour imagination of 'exploring' other women is unhealthy. This I know is one truth women never want to hear. A real man should have self-control, a woman should have a pass to cheat too if a man cheat is the usual defence women employs when they're slam with this fact. As said earlier, this (self control) varies from individuals to individuals. It's fine if women too want to cheat but they must keep their track clean like the men or embrace the aftermath. On my part, I'm more often than not as faithful as my options. I can vow to be faithful to my wife but all that may change the moment a leggy pretty babe throws themselves at me. Same is true for many men. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 1:27am On Sep 18, 2016 |
An overaged man with a bad marriage record dishing advice to ladies! Ladies, if you dnt want your marriage to pack up like his, you better disregard this op for your own good. If every lady should expect a man to cheat, then let every man expect their girlfriends and wives to cheat too. For every man cheating must cheat with a woman. So ladies, the op has given all yall the indirect permission to cheat. Oopsies! You dnt need permission at all. Its already happening. The post was actually supposed to be directed to men since they never want to admit that their wives can cheat on them too. Men like the op are always afraid, constantly living in a fantasy world expecting what they cannot give. Someone cheats on you and op is saying be patient and calm. Is that realistic? hahaha. You are dreaming op. You need to follow your own advice Toks. Now who is more in deceit? 6 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by JustHere2Observ(f): 1:28am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Every point except number one makes sense. If I should expect my husband to cheat and act indifferent to it then he should expect me to cheat and act indifferent to it. Such marriage will never be a happy one, mistrust, fear, jealousy and despise will be the bedrock of such marriage. You can never respect a man that you expect or think will cheat on you. |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by skyman200(m): 1:36am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Nice one |
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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by tomgabriel: 1:46am On Sep 18, 2016 |
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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by henryhemon(m): 2:22am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: How can you make this assertion when you re not married ? I think it's Your logic and what you believe doesn't make it a standard. Stop misleading people or you pay for the consequences. I think something is wrong with you go sort yourself out. There are lots of people who respect the sanctity of marriage. |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by nijanigga: 2:30am On Sep 18, 2016 |
I'm back, the tormentor of ipods, while I was away, I came in as flatheadedbigots, nijascammers, just to put checks on flat headed bigots who spew rubbish and hatred about PMB. The president blocked all their avenues of looting,if they so need money, while not go to Indonesia and carry drugs? Get rich or die trying. |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by repogirl(f): 2:47am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sighs....... this cheating thing be as e get sha Different strokes for different folks..... Protect your man from cheating because whether you like it or not,there are plenty karashikas out there looking to prey on your man and he can fall o. In the case you marry the type that chases everything, you are going to have your work cut out. It will get to a point where you need to decide whether the marriage is worth it. Like I said different strokes..... people are different, marriages are different. Op, what you are asking is hard, for a woman to be indifferent (Some with hard minds can be though), it's not really in our nature to be indifferent. Personally I think indifference can give the husband free reign to do as he likes since the wife doesn't care and she even advised him to use protection. Instead of indifference , try communication , he should know that it is wrong and it is affecting you and the marriage. Also, get to the root cause of his cheating.... most times it is a lack of discipline on the man's part and not what the wife did or did not do. If my husband is the type that philanders(the unrepentant type) and I know, na to lock up shop throway key o. So that he will not give me one disease I will be treating for the rest of my life abeg. Finally OP,instead of this kind thread advicing women to expect cheating, you should focus more on advising guys like you on the dangers of cheating and why its wrong. If you keep hammering on it, you could help men realise that they can rise above the urge to cheat. Thereby breeding a new generation of men with core values and respect for their women. 4 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by cindyrocks(f): 3:12am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Inibeghe Effiong. HungerBAD: |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by cindyrocks(f): 3:13am On Sep 18, 2016 |
You are encouraging men to cheat on their wives. There are still some faithful men out there. 1 Like |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 3:19am On Sep 18, 2016 |
This guy always saying rubbish since time immemorial, the self acclaimed guidance counsellor..... Smh! 3 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 3:35am On Sep 18, 2016 |
The way people talk about cheating on one's wives one would think cheating (as in sleeping with someone else while married) puts money in my account or gives me a peaceful night rest or makes me healthier or guarantees me a place in heaven. What I am basically trying to say is that cheating is an activity (especially for d married) that involves finances, constant calculation of how not to be caught by ure spouse, constant monitoring of ure phone and a host of other unnecessary distractions. For me any woman that expects her husband to cheat definitely has a psychological problem and should seek help. It takes so much effort to cheat ( and not to get caught ) and absolutely nothing to b faithful to ure spouse. So for this notion of expecting ure husband to cheat on u is a notion from hell. As one that is married for I have better and more fulfilling things to do with my time than complicating my life with an unnecessary affair. Just my thought 7 Likes |
Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Diplomaticbeing(m): 3:41am On Sep 18, 2016 |
OP and his myopic thoughts as usual. You have failed to learn that being self-conceited is not the same thing as being smart. Stop sounding like you're an authority in marriage matters. Kindly stop dispensing misinformation, becuase it leads to misconception which is the bedrock of ill attitudes. Altruism and fidelity and their reciprocation towards each other on the parties involved in a marriage will always lead to a healthy and happy marriage. A healthy and happy marriage is one where both parties involved are internally happy. Absence of peace doesn't only occurs in a time of war, no. But also in any kind of relationship (marriage) where one of the parties involved is expected to embrace self-enslavement to sustain it - your parochial postulation here as a case study. Either of the sexes who abhors altruism and fidelity deserves no respect and association of a sane and sound partner. In my school of thought , irresponsibility is not celebrated and can never be an option for cooperation. 10 Likes |
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