Hello all, so i moved to ghana and fell inlove with this beautiful lady,i was hoping to start a long term with her but when i told her how i feel ,she told me we should be friends and had many bad past and is scared to enter a relationship now and that how i ended in the friendzone.
She calls people to check on me and when i see her she pretends like she dont care,she always asking from people about me and how i was doing ,always asking if am in the office and that that that.
Her Birthday comes up very soon and i had planned to get her something .
DO I GO AHEAD SINCE AM IN THE FRIENDSZONE

Pvssy nigger. Must you fvck a lady before you buy her gift? Get sense na.

Friendzone?
Abeg give her a friendly Gift like birthday Card as a good friend


Nothing I hate reach Friendzone

If you buy her a gift upon all the friendzone i swear you'll never touch that toto. The best way to get her is to stop trying hard to get her and instead get another (preferably finer) babe. Be doing that one even in her presence and she'll start throwing herself at you. Women want what other women also want. If you are some single lovestruck dude chasing her, she'll keep blowing the type of lies she told u about being scared and all that rubbish. Don't be a fool. Wise up cuz these ladies don't play out here. It's in their nature, they'll use you for your resources and dip unless you truly know how to boss them.

jashar:

4. Send her a text message like every other normal friend.
5. May you jam the one that reciprocate your feelings.

@op, heed to this advice

octus2008:
Hello all, so i moved to ghana and fell inlove with this beautiful lady,i was hoping to start a long term with her but when i told her how i feel ,she told me we should be friends and had many bad past and is scared to enter a relationship now and that how i ended in the friendzone.
She calls people to check on me and when i see her she pretends like she dont care,she always asking from people about me and how i was doing ,always asking if am in the office and that that that.
Her Birthday comes up very soon and i had planned to get her something .
DO I GO AHEAD SINCE AM IN THE FRIENDSZONE

, yeah bro, it shows you are mature. And not a angry rejected failed toaster

jashar:
1. I'm happy you know you're in the friendzone.
2. It's like you like it there.
3. Buying her a gift will just elongate your time in the friendzone.
4. Send her a text message like every other normal friend.
5. May you jam the one that reciprocate your feelings.

Op, this is d best advice you can have. Its even better that it came from a lady. If you do otherwise then you're OYO

Friendzone her too

So after listening to your advise and all the care and even some suggestions from pple who have not been in this position before,i decided to off the plan.
Next thing her close friend calls me up and tells me that the girl is in Love with me and that she is scared of Nigerians, na so i look my self ask am say what is there to be scared about me. Anyway have decided to go ahead with the present with or without any further attachment,she has helped me in acknowledging God more in ma life,i owe her that .