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Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Zaronxpanol(f): 12:09pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
@ OP. If you aren't up to 35yrs old, pls work hard and build up your income, and don't be in a hurry to get married. If you are more than 35yrs you can get married due to age factor. Truth be told with 70k you can get married but you will live a struggling life. Even if your wife earns more than you, her money is not yours and she expect you to provide the basic while she support you but not always....No woman feels happy when she is playing the role her husband is suppose to play, even if she is a pastor's wife, she may smile and help you, but deep within she won't be happy. your ego may also be affected indirectly, except if you are naturally humble and tolerant....It takes a humble and confident man to marry a woman who earns more and support the house..... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by mercydaniel: 12:16pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
pamelga:my dear,u can d most important thing is having d money to marry first,den with planning with ur wife u can make a living.gud luck make a bold step. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by lakeside3020(m): 12:20pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
pls plan very well o,to me u cant start with that kind of income, let me tell you with 200k per month at time I still struggle, or else ur children will not b able to go to good school,u will not be able to buy lovely things for your wife,PHCN money,Transport,Rent,dstv,at time hospital bill all this things, your 70k might not b able to take you except ur wife is working as well to support you |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by LorenzoU: 12:21pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
yes u can many have settled for less. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by petomas(m): 12:24pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
justmenoni:I must confess that you've killed it all. This ur advise iz not for the OP alone but for everyone on this thread. God bless you richly 4 Likes |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Mrfixitxtech: 12:26pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Life is not about having money or not... Do what is Right. getting married when you have enough doesn't matter, You are even more blessed when you are married. Believe me You will blessed more than when you are single. Starting a family is not what you have to plan, when you believe it is the right time. Don;t let people advice wrongly. It just happened. It another Journey of Life at the end, you will have alot of testimonies. Some that are advicing you are not even married and they are over 40 . I am 30years old and i have two beautiful daughters. I don't earn much, My family is Ok and i don;t do ilegal stuff. You don;t need alot of money to start a family. As long as you have Shelters, and your 2 to 3months salary can cover your House rent. Bro you are good to Go. Marriage is another Journey. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by hustla(m): 12:27pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Maybe na by force go marry ni |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by justmenoni: 12:27pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Really, Thank you so much...I'm grateful petomas: |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by 3sexy: 12:30pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
If not for Buhari I would have said Yes 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 12:31pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
LastSurvivor: I single out your post cos people suffer shagging girls while thinking they can't make a family thereby wasting their destinies. My uncle leaves in Lekki now. Big man is an understatement to what he is. I still remember when he sleeps in my room with wifey in the village. His house now in the villa is mansion. Marriage is a gift and comes with its blessings if you manage it well. Don't be extravagant, cut alotta things. If wearing 2 jeans a year and focusing on ur struggle will make u survive, do it. It'll all end in praise. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Tamakay(m): 12:32pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
If that is the only thing lacking in ur achievement shelf no wahala but it also depends on the followings; 1. Location 2. Job security 3. Is the girl already drinking garri with u before(pls decode where I'm going) 4. Have u stopped flexing? 5. Will u be comfortable with d standard of life u want to live? Because 70k na still slim pay for a guy whose eyes are still glued to d skirts. Final verdict, carry on at ur own risk. But I wish u success boy! |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by encrypt(m): 12:34pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Miladi:Wet in concern me for this matter now. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by sfinkzslot(m): 12:34pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
I earn a niche above that but when u take out the deductibles including rent it comes to 35k which my wife and I have been living on..its not fun but you will get along ok...like it's better than nothing |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Yes ke. In fact, you can even start having kids. Pray for a prudent wife,pray for grace.two heads is better than one. You will find that with a good wife your money is put in good use and you fit still get change sef. Pepper sellers gaan are getting married everyday 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by emmydollars4life(m): 12:38pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
if you make your appointment open many will kill themselves here struggling to get it, many people are loosing their work, I believe the company will improve the pay with time, if u are not prepared for it, even #500,000 monthly pay will not be enough, take bull by the horn God is your strength. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 12:41pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
MicroBox: Your wisdom is far too great. I think the best question should be on marrying the right wife and not money. No matter what you earn, the wrong wife can make life miserable for you, Op. 1000000 likes for ya 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by tosyne2much(m): 12:45pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
It's not easy to be a man cos much is expected from him... Where are those clamoring for gender equality? I'm yet to see their comments |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 12:46pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
pedrilo: Another plan will spring up. Don't listen to people listen to your inner being;it speaks always with you. It is your helper. Now the house will be completed, you could see other issues to put in place again, passing up the opportunity to welcome that virtuous woman who will help you grow;their blessings to a man is just miraculous. You can rise in a twinkle of an eye with them compared to the years you were alone. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by solex2agali(m): 12:47pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
yes, you can start family with #70,000. you need to cut your clothes according to your clothes. let your wife know how much you are collecting and never you use another person time to work. go for what you can pay for and not will brings debt unto your neck. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
emmydollars4life:abi o Op, if you have a good woman please go and marry. Don't wait for menopause. I distinctly recall when I was about getting married. I no get work, hubby's pay was fat lesser than yours. He said we should sha do and marry, so we marry na, I got preggy...imagine the financial pressure but you know what? Funny thing is that we hardly remember all that now. We just see our baby of before before and keep thanking God for grace and strength. To build your mansion first is not always advisable for people who are ready to be married. If you don't have a good person to marry, you can keep using that excuse to wait for one i.e use your time wisely by making money 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by lawnreigh(m): 12:48pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Iamhatey:Hello plz how did you go about learning Spanish in Nigeria, I wish to learn it in the nearest future. I speak 2 International Languages already, so I know the logics and tactics on how to go about learning fast. But kindly let me know where and how, moreover the readily available opportunities one can get by learning it |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
emmydollars4life:abi o Op, if you have a good woman please go and marry. Don't wait for menopause. I distinctly recall when I was about getting married. I no get work, hubby's pay was far lesser than yours. He said we should sha do and marry, so we marry na, I got preggy...imagine the financial pressure but you know what? Funny thing is that we hardly remember all that now. We just see our baby of before before and keep thanking God for grace and strength. To build your mansion first is not always advisable for people who are ready to be married. If you don't have a good person to marry, you can keep using that excuse to wait for one i.e use your time wisely by making money 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 12:50pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
justmenoni: Superb analysis. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 12:56pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Kgdavid: I'm gifted by God in fishing out right responses. Yours is one of them, Sir. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by teejay06: 1:01pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
u can go ahead if u are of age ans as a matter of fact, i got married with a salary of 45k living in three bedreeom flat. its all about planning, u and ur woman should agree and be open to each other. do bulk purchase for food stuff, cut down on unnessary events and visits. tyr to be prudent and be faithful to urself. it will egt better with time, kudos 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Joel3(m): 1:01pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Miladi: you must still be a child to comprehend my write up. I didn't state that it’s a must to live in the BQ. that is only a backup. choice of work always come to play. what if everything failed? like he lost his job? where will he go to? from house to village? there are people in the city of lagos who live in rents but they put tenants in their houses outside the city. that house will always remain a backup when everything failed. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by fpeter(f): 1:04pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Dear OP, It is very possible. considering that we don't know where this nation is going in the next few years Consider our parent, in their days they earned lesser even though things were a lot better they found a way to manage. If you start waiting till you earn six figures, my dear you may just be wasting too much time. Just make sure that your wife is also working and considerably prudent. God bless your finances. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Gwazah(m): 1:04pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
pamelga:Wait until u hav a job that will pay 1 million and above. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by shugaboy6102(m): 1:04pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
pamelga:my guy u can marry if u want.first of all it depends on ur taste and if the lady u are planning to marry is not extravagant you can cope.you said you receive 70k and other allowances so its possible you can get up to 90k in a month which is enough with prudent management.pls neglect all those peeps telling you that you can't.its not until you have 500k you can marry and i assure you that you can even marry and have less expenses cos you will have a woman you will plan with.And moreover if you marry a wife that works or does a form of business you are ok jare. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by shugaboy6102(m): 1:05pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Gwazah:you bad gan.see polite insult abeg?? I guess the op got the mesage. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
dfrost: I like that bolded line. Keep it real |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 1:07pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Iamhatey: Sorry bosslady. No offense intended. My sister speaks Spanish, at least basic conversation for someone that has not traveled to any Spanish speaking country. When she started, I was laughing at her but now every time we want to start chatting, she starts with Spanish and switches to English. Hopefully we can open a thread and flow with the language. Ciao! |
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