motherfucker:
career is guaranteed? Hmmm... I think Millions of Nigerians that have lost their jobs in the last few months have been lied to.

ItsQuinn:
so.....How are you suppose to go into marriage without any source of funding? So you want her to be a housewife so that her husband can be controlling her like a malu? you do well

Talk2Bella:


what if she accepts the proposal and he wants to wed ASAP?

i see no problem in that.

have you given consideration to the fact that as time goes by her job may become more demanding, supposing the man understands and allows her some time to settle i, does she keep giving him more excuses as to why they should keep raising a family on hold because of her job

motherfucker:
lol. You being myopic after reading her report.

ItsQuinn:
In my opinion, career is a top priority more than anything else .....I will advice her to focus on her career first before thinking of marriage because [s]career is guaranteed while marriage is never guaranteed[/s]....unless her boyfriend is willing to be patient enough and wait for her until she finally settles in her career. Imagine if her boyfriend leave her for another lady after she's sacrificed her career ....is that not fvcked up?!

samuelUMOH:
This is not a lie the age of the lady is crucial .For instance if she is 30plus or going close to menopause will you say career comes first?

Lsofdk:

point of correction… nothing on earth is guaranteed

ItsQuinn:
how please?

motherfucker:
No guy who wants to make make a woman become a house wife would agree to let her work in the first place. The dude want her to succeed.

All she has to do is tell what's up ( she hasn't done that but already making up issues on assumptions)

They can get married and decide not to have babies for 3 years till she wants it.

She can take your advise, marry her job and cry later af losing the guy.

ItsQuinn:
you are definitely right! So why will she go for what she's not into fully. In life you are meant to pursue what makes you happy and from the looks of it, she wants her career more than marriage

Lsofdk:

she's not fully into it because of her new job, which demands she remain single.

one thing is still unknown if she picks career over marriage… how long her company expects her to remain single

Talk2Bella:
Cutehector

Cutehector:
sorry I replied late. I just never saw dis mention...



Some ppo"s comments in here sha.. dey do me mk I konk dem

motherfucker:
do you lack comprehension problem?

Lsofdk:

i see no problem in that.

have you given consideration to the fact that as time goes by her job may become more demanding, supposing the man understands and allows her some time to settle i, does she keep giving him more excuses as to why they should keep raising a family on hold because of her job

motherfucker:
No guy who wants to make make a woman become a house wife would agree to let her work in the first place. The dude want her to succeed.

All she has to do is tell what's up ( she hasn't done that but already making up issues on assumptions)

They can get married and decide not to have babies for 3 years till she wants it.

She can take your advise, marry her job and cry later af losing the guy.

Talk2Bella:


No one cries because they lost someone there are many people out there to replace who's gone

Yes they can put babies on hold till she's ready but y'all forgetting she told her company she's single and that's one of the criteria for getting her job so immediately bobo pops up she might lose that job

motherfucker:
That is what you would think that there is many fishes in river. I used to be member of that school of thought until something happened. Trust me, that thought if very destructive that we think.

Talk2Bella:


it is not a school of thought it's a glaring reality

motherfucker:
there are many many fishes, that's not disputable. How easy do you find good healthy fish?

Talk2Bella:


with nice dangling earthworms

motherfucker:
you. I need to hug my pillow.