DuBLINGreenb:
You can't have it all, e.g you are not rich, handsome, smart, God fearing, hardworking all at once you must be deficient in atleast one area it's worse for women (a beautiful girl is told she's beautiful so many times she knows nothing else she goes on the rest of her life trying to holdon to that fading beauty, can you blame her? It's all she's got, not so beatiful girls have to search for other things to hold on to as strengths). Besides you'd have to die to meet a perfect person. I will take beauty over brains even if it kills me except it's an exam situation

blessedvisky:


Bro it could kill you OO.
Imagine you marrying a very beautiful woman who knows how, when and where to flaunt it. Bros, i assure that your lifespan will be reduced by at least 1 year due to the stress she will give you indirectly.

Imagine your wife is that beautiful and hot. Oga, your neighbours, friends, family, family friends, religious friends, fellow workers will all be eyeing her. Some won't have liver to approach her, but some definitely will. Now imagine she isn't completely loyal.....bros, that one na HELL.

Some men are desperate enough to kill a man just to get his wife all to themselves. *David in the Bible comes to mind*

Oga, Intelligence over beauty oo. Who beauty help? ?

DuBLINGreenb:

Wow see points I have changed my mind finish oh but ehm will I pay with my children's appearance? And every morning I will open eye and be face to face with worwor. if it happens i will cry finish then go and find one hotter babe and continue life on a private island

SammyT95:
in as much as I know u're not totally wrong but then I shouldn't judge a book by it cover. I have girls that are fashion divas in my department and they still have a better result compared to their "spiritual sisters " counterpart

blessedvisky:


Lol. I get you totally That moment you can't decide between beauty and brains. But me, I value intelligence/IQ/ smartness over beauty.

Let's paint some scenarios shall we??

An intelligent(& submissive) woman will definitely improve her man greatly, not one who the husband is always checking her phone because he saw the landlord smiling @ her unusually.

Imagine a woman who gives you tips on how to better yourself, who teaches you how to get around those annoying family members you can't say no to , not one that expects you to supply ALL her needs because it's *our money* and sees nothing wrong with spending her money selfishly, simply because that's how all the guys she has dated have been doing. She expects you to worship her simply because of her perfect shape and flawless beauty. And if you don't do it, there is one fvck boy out there waiting for you to bleep up and take your place.

Imagine you marrying a very beautiful wife and she births 5 beautiful daughters for you. When they hit puberty, guys will never stop knocking your gate asking for them. Just pray their beauty doesn't cloud their senses and they spread legs for sweet talkers who will impregnate them and run away, creating additional problem + shame.

Imagine marrying a beautiful woman, and she has nothing upstairs . Guy it's very painful when I try and hold some conversations about science, geography, history, etc with some girls and I get stupid replies like

"abeg, that one has gone jhorr" "what concern me with number of countries in the world" "who cares about caused of natural disaster" "what do I want to do with how crude oil is refined" .

When I hear comments like that above, I quickly run, coz me must marry a smart wife oo, at least I know then, the money I pay on school fees will not be a waste

DuBLINGreenb:

True i've experienced that stupid reply stuff many times + she'll kick subject away from book or school + steady naija jamz when she's around no educational tv including news I understand. my grand father had 3 boys, my father has 3 boys God will continue the good work he has started

Billyonaire:
You are right. If a beautiful girl refuses to study and work hard, it is her pusssy that suffers.

rose54321:
If only you can see me. Beauty - 80%; intelligence - 90%.

But I'm not even up for grabs sef.

Lleigh:


You have been mixing with the wrong ladies.
There are loads around, but you need to find them.
Most might actually be at their respective homes reading

OmaniPadmeHum:


Well, I cant speak for her since I have not met her. Besides it is not fair putting up her photo here with your comments.

However, I do know a lot of them are raised to believe that they will marry a man that will meet their eternal needs. They really have no plans to develop themselves beyond looking physically pretty. They abound.

They are all Telemundo, E! and Zeeworld Ladies. No substance. Every conversation you have with them you hear ''whatever''

I repeat, I am not in support of putting up her photo here with the comments.

rose54321:
If only you can see me. Beauty - 80%; intelligence - 90%.

But I'm not even up for grabs sef.

blessedvisky:
True. It works as a positive feedback mechanism. A girl is born beautiful. Man give her attention coz of the beauty, then she keeps improving/flaunting her beauty all her (useful) life to keep that attention coming.

Its nothing

realmindz:


When we talk of intellect, it's beyond that classroom education.

what's your level of emotional intelligence? Are u disciplined, can you keep to your words? Are u time conscious? How do u handle criticism (make negative comments about a typical nigerian girl and be certain to receive insult in return and she myt even block u on all social media).

Then what are your extra curricular activities,
do u play a musical instrument? do u do arts, sports, games etc? or what special skill do u ve?

how informed are u about international politics? can u engage a meaningful conversation without terming it boring....and the list goes on

90% nigerian girls are liabilities mentally, know little and very arrogant

harffie:
Still waiting for that day when someone will carry his big head and post the picture of someone I know.....

rose54321:
If only you can see me. Beauty - 80%; intelligence - 90%.

But I'm not even up for grabs sef.

saintfellow:
I see them daily.

SammyT95:
in as much as I know u're not totally wrong but then I shouldn't judge a book by it cover. I have girls that are fashion divas in my department and they still have a better result compared to their "spiritual sisters " counterpart

KingCheezyPuff:
this argument has no substance. Most men NEVER make the catch.

remedick:
and when you compare the stats to women, what do you see?

yer argument has fallen through
You claimed men brought "catch's" I said most don't
Noq,where does the "value" ,if I may use the word ,of a man stem from?

KingCheezyPuff:
yer argument has fallen through
You claimed men brought "catch's" I said most don't
Noq,where does the "value" ,if I may use the word ,of a man stem from?

DuBLINGreenb:

Wow see points I have changed my mind finish oh but ehm will I pay with my children's appearance? And every morning I will open eye and be face to face with worwor. if it happens i will cry finish then go and find one hotter babe and continue life on a private island

remedick:
you said most men, remember? So I ask you what are the women achieving when compared to what men have done?

Also, it's only of recent that women have started to make moves in their respective career, hence the "gender equality" mantra, which also gave birth to feminishiiit.

mmm. I said most men had no right to demand beauty of a woman,speak not of the combination of beauty and brains
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Twas you who brought up finances and i quicklyshot it down with the very real fact most men will never be Dangotes
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And you've STILL not told me what "value" man holds??

KingCheezyPuff:
mmm. I said most men had no right to demand beauty of a woman,speak not of the combination of beauty and brains
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Twas you who brought up finances and i quicklyshot it down with the very real fact most men will never be Dangotes
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And you've STILL not told me what "value" man holds??

remedick:
There will be LOTS and I mean LOTS of Dangote IF they had the kind of political links he has. That is his leverage plus, his great grand father was Forking filty rich as far back as 1860s. Go read history and you will have an idea of where Dangote's family root is standing--The great grand father laid the foundation already. Talk about riches, political connection, they had it right before dangote was born and he simply leverage on that smartly to get to were he is. I must give it to him for using it wisely because some idiots would have wasted it.

Are you in anyway encouraging women not to improve themselves beyond skin value? Because I cant understand what you are driving at with this question of yours. Tomorrow you will scream gender equality fa?

You are asking me what value men hold but you live in a world wholly built by men with thousands of centuries gone before women started challenging the status quo, talk about discoveries, inventions, hypothesis, postulation. Just name it and you will find cases of 100 men to 10 women dominating each sphere.

Abeg go sidon.

KingCheezyPuff:
You STILL have failed 2 tell me what a Everyday male's value is because most men did none of this you mentioned