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Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Ferdinandu(m): 9:09am On Oct 19, 2016 |
soberdrunk:Man this your weird idea, you are really sober drunk. |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by klassic(m): 9:12am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Pray and take time to study him. If you do juju or act like you have juju to scare him off, you will still loose your job, cos he will despise you as a juju person. And if he is a juju person himself like some of my big men friends, you just got yourself a double mess. Cos na that juju go come catch his attention and na to collect from yours join e own. More wahala. If you introduce him to a runs girl, it might buy time but will come back to you when he gets tired of the runs girl. And this time you go enter wahala. If you do church girl more and pray more , you might poss him off and if he is a soft person might let u off the hook but there is no guarantee a Randy goat won't go to any length to satisfy his lust. My advice, pray,fast and pray more that the Lord you serve will give him assignment that will take his mind off you.and also cover up if you expose anything and stop too much franternisng within the office premises. God help you. If y |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Beetee1(m): 9:18am On Oct 19, 2016 |
hi, i think the solution is simple though it may be an aftermath events. just make sure you record your conversation including the said treat of your job on next visit. don't forget to make him talk a lot during the conversation and if possible you both mention the day's date and location of the meeting during the conversation among other important things. then wait patiently for the outcome of his treat and tender the recorded voice as a proof for his action. Lobatan! |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by LegendaryArnold(m): 9:21am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Simply tell him you're a V....I think most men stay away from Vs |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Ikville(m): 9:28am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Just pray...when u r trapped between d devil & d deep blue sea, only prayers can make a miracle happen for ya. However sometimes, u need to walk away from d environment (d man, d job) cos their presence cud influence u into giving in cos u reason dat u cant afford to lose d job & stuff |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by ItzHoludex(m): 9:29am On Oct 19, 2016 |
start sending ur CV to other firms |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Crauxx(m): 9:42am On Oct 19, 2016 |
My dear, plan for the worst. But before you leave, meet him and kindly explain to him why you are leaving. Pray that God will touch his heart to beg you to stay. Strongly make him know where you stand |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by ajasbaba(m): 9:44am On Oct 19, 2016 |
just enter the other room |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by shadeyinka(m): 9:44am On Oct 19, 2016 |
ConcNiggress56: He won't sack you! Do your work! Maintain official relationship! Pray! If he goes on with his treaty, how much is the money? Is it worth becoming one of his statistics? Suppose he was disappointed with the sex experience, would he keep you after he has slept with you? Now, you have value before his eyes because you are untouched! After hebhas you, he will just move on. You will not be his first and you will never be his last. NB: If you are BornAgain and doing this strictly because of Christ, pm me. |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by chiraqDemon(m): 9:45am On Oct 19, 2016 |
U are in a country that has laws and u are talking like this What the man is doing is sexual harrassment When he comes bavk record yiur conversation as proof and take him to court Nigerians should stop wanting to handle things in house Take ppl to court when u have to |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Ikville(m): 9:50am On Oct 19, 2016 |
ConcNiggress56: If u treasure dat job too much, u will give in to him. From ur post, i take it u r a Christian? So why do u sound like u r only surrounded by doz kinda guys? If u keep dat kinda mindset, u may may actually end up wit DAT kinda guy! Be very careful NOT to end up in ur own trap cos dere r diff ways to sleep wit HIV+ woman SAFELY |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Haywhymido(m): 9:54am On Oct 19, 2016 |
ConcNiggress56:hmm, u r rite |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Funkybabee(f): 9:57am On Oct 19, 2016 |
orishirishi advice,see the best advice I will give you is to set him up and threaten to tell his wife or world if he keep disturbing you again try and do that you won't imagine his response |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by geronimoedeh1(m): 9:59am On Oct 19, 2016 |
ConcNiggress56:problem...girls always talking with 2 mouths...u dnt wana hav a boyfriend cox its our way of getting cheap sex ..now ur oga dat pays u in 6 figures lik u said,is demanding to hav expensive sex wit u,d one dat is nt a cheap sex since u ar lookin fo d expensive one ..n u ar stil complaining... |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Nobody: 10:01am On Oct 19, 2016 |
petomas:
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Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by geronimoedeh1(m): 10:02am On Oct 19, 2016 |
d solution is simple...record him makin love advances on u...either audio or more preferable,video....it wil serve as evidence..he cant sack u n he wont sex u... |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by osiscolion(m): 10:09am On Oct 19, 2016 |
This is my candid advice. 1. First of all go join MMM 2. Invest an amount that will give an equivalent to your monthly income every month, so that you will not be broke for the time been. 3. Approach your boss, tell him you are resigning if he does not stop harassing you and also back it up in prayers for God to intervene. 4. if he persist, then quit the job. 5. For the time been while looking for another job, you make equivalent to what you earn monthly on MMM. 6.You will definitely get another job but still put it in prayers. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Skyfornia(m): 10:12am On Oct 19, 2016 |
ConcNiggress56: Call his wife with a strange number and intimate her about her husband's sexual advance to one of his female staff...the wife will definitely confront him and this might scare him away. Never disclose your identity to his wife. |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by sircrabo: 10:18am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Is he the overall boss in that organisation ? If no, screen grab all the messages/mails he has ever sent you as evidence and send him a very polite message telling him you are not interested and attach those messages. Don't threaten him. When he sees all his previous messages, he'll know you can do and undo. If he persists, forward to H.R or whoever can discipline him. If he is the overall boss, then switch to ur plan B. I suppose you would have gathered some experience and money by now, try looking for another job with his competitor or starting your own business. No one will ever harass you sexually if you do the latter. Never you tender your V to him, once conquered its a conquered territory. He'll keep coming for more and offering you more money, better position and believe you me this time you won't be able to resist. That's how a lot of girls turned to official prostitutes |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Josmila(m): 10:20am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Blitzeee: Would you do same especially in these times? Answer with the fear of God |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by SUPOL(m): 10:24am On Oct 19, 2016 |
ConcNiggress56:Tell him u use to have seizures during sex n tell him u can provide a fine babe for him. And pray it doesn't happen to u |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Paragoon: 10:27am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Hmm.sister,dat man seems to av put his hand into the plough o...and he may not want to look back.even if u present another girl/option to him...he will not take his eyes off you.there is a yoruba proverb dat says:if an object touches the top and down,there is a place we can still put it!and also there is nothing coming from the top that is too big for the ground to accommodate.this is another stage in ur life,and difficulties increase the more one moves nearer to one's goal.I'm convinced that prayer is wat u can make now,to the lord who created him.Because he said all soul are his.and...u can also tell ur pastor...to also join u in prayer too.I wish you the best.I dnt think granting him his request is an option...THE AFTERMATH WOULD JUST BE LIKE THE CASE OF BLACKMAILERS...his demand will continue,and if u fail to grant him wen next he demands it,thesame penalty still awaits u! May God see you through.amen |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by PunterTim(m): 10:29am On Oct 19, 2016 |
ConcNiggress56: |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Geolalisa(f): 10:30am On Oct 19, 2016 |
@ Poster Report him to God. |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by ConcNiggress56(f): 10:38am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Josmila: thanks love.. never knew sane and rational minds are still left on this forum.. |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by macsilver(m): 10:38am On Oct 19, 2016 |
If say na me ooo, I'll first claim one dirty vaginal discharge like that. Take a day or two off work (if possible) with the excuse of wanting to see your doctor for medical attention. When you get back, analyse in full details how the dirt coming out of your *whatever* is.... Then the next day, make advances towards him and beg him for sex. Thank me later |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by ogb5(m): 10:40am On Oct 19, 2016 |
befriend the wife of the boss. Tell the bos that you can not date him because you don't want to betray your friend which is his wife Give the boss a runs girl |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by ConcNiggress56(f): 10:42am On Oct 19, 2016 |
moneyMouthed: thanks hun.. |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by ConcNiggress56(f): 10:44am On Oct 19, 2016 |
macsilver: dirty discharge |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by tuco1: 10:46am On Oct 19, 2016 |
iamnen:I they tell you...... Scam of the highest one but wait shey you talk say you no get Bf? No be say Na virgin you be my dear go enjoy your sex because with your statement you ready to give am waiting him want |
Re: How Do I Turn Down My Boss' Advances Without Losing My Job? (please Advice) by Nobody: 10:49am On Oct 19, 2016 |
ConcNiggress56: Start wearing Agbada to work.. |
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