nope

sometimes,but the secret of long lasting relationship is that both partners are starving themselves waitin and waitin. the period of waiting keeps them anxious and keeps them together

Depends on the parties involved but it's not advisable

I believe sex on a first date enhances a relationship that would have been otherwise fruitful, say between two compatible people who are mutually attracted to each other. People are so quick to blame sex on a first date for the demise of a relationship that has been through a precarious condition from inception. Abeg make una leave sex alone. Sex on the first date is not responsible for the demise of a relationship caused by picking an incompatible, lame ass partner. What is the difference in having sex on a first date or on a second date or on a third date, especially if each consecutive dates are, say, a week apart? After all, you still had sex.

but dey say sex b4 marriage is sum kind of taboo, one day i heard sum big bro saying dat they must test their grul b4 they get her married, is this surpose to bi so.?

60% likely

yesssss!

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FALLACY! ! !

I had sex on my first date far back 8 november 2007 and the relationship still stands and is still hearty. I have not cheated on her since then even when i know i'll not marry her cos we are mates[color=#000099][/color]

weda sex on the first date or not
what will be will always be

@simonwal:
There's nothing weird about your position. For me, i'd be pissed off with so much waiting. Infact, my best relationship had sex on the first date. The likeness was mutual so there was no need to stress out when we could really bond ourselves. It worked perfectly.

Many of una too dey misyarn. If you never CONFIRM, how u go fit get relationship?

You have to check it out, if no be your size, you forget am!

EroticGirl:

Many of una too dey misyarn. If you never CONFIRM, how u go fit get relationship?

You have to check it out, if no be your size, you forget am!

You don spoil baje !

rita@NL:

You don spoil baje !

Siddon dere dey look. If you don't confirm, and later the guy cant perform, everybody will blame the woman as if she is the one that can't bear a child. They wont know its the guy that is useless.

EroticGirl:

Siddon dere dey look. If you don't confirm, and later the guy cant perform, everybody will blame the woman as if she is the one that can't bear a child. They wont know its the guy that is useless.

I see say you don really spoil and abeg no corrupt me jor. I be V-yarsh

rita@NL:

I see say you don really spoil and abeg no corrupt me jor. I be V-yarsh

It's your kind we're talking about. Better go and check yourself with the doctor / sex therapist. Maybe your thing has even expired sef. ;

EroticGirl:

It's your kind we're talking about. Better go and check yourself with the doctor / sex therapist. Maybe your thing has even expired sef. ;

If i catch you,you go wunjor i swear but plz dont corrupt me i'm still very young.

yes, it most likely kills a relationship.  for those  who think the same, how long can you wait?  how many dates?  2, 3, 10, , ?

Sex is the peak of bonding. It is fussing your life with another. It is not just fun. The relationship cannot survive unless in miserable agony. A relationship without trust because you will always have this fear of he or she could have it with another today during launch, or 'is that why she came late yesterday. Sex on first date kills trust which is very essential in a relationship. www.myspace.com/naijapassion

Sex is the peak of bonding. It is fussing your life with another. It is not just fun. The relationship cannot survive unless in miserable agony. A relationship without trust because you will always have this fear of he or she could have it with another today during launch, or 'is that why she came late yesterday. Sex on first date kills trust which is very essential in a relationship. www.myspace.com/naijapassion

Hi guys, my reasoning here is this: There's more to sex than just the bang bang and the big O. Aside the trust issue, what scares me is the soul- tie that occurs btw the both parties. For some, its excuse- worthy in flings, but in heart- bonded ones, its just off it. Methinks its better we know ourselves more, than blind our eyes to possible incompatibles. My thoughts, pls.

birds of a feather likely flock together. if playboy meets playgirl, then what do you expect? na bang, bang naaa!

d individuals involve determines what d relationship becomes,its a 50-50, dey cud screw on d 1000th date and it may end there.

nope.doesnt kill a sexual relationship

exactly! if they're both players and are in it for the sex, they could just continue screwing for as long as it takes!

i have been with my fiancee for five years now, we are tying the knot soon and we had sex on the first date. IMO it does not matter to me if it is on the first or 100th date. I don't see how it means that a lady is cheap because she had sex on a first date that's crazy. It takes two to tango, why must the lady be cheap and the guy a god . People should stop promoting such ridiculous notions. Sex on the first date should not kill a potential relationship unless either of the party is a jerk.

well, to me, sex on first date depends on the individuals, some persons might have being casual friends for a long time, and on their on first date, they both might have the intentions of themselves apart , so to me like i said it depends on the individuals .

Forget it.most use sex on first date to test a lady if she is cheap.you may find it funny, but that is the gospel true.

I have dated several ladies, but the lady that shows more quality even on bed on the first day we met surpasses even those that took more than 3 years to agree to come to bed with me. The truth is that some people feel the longer it took you to accept the offer the better; the quality that one exhibit before, during and after sex keeps the relationship even stronger, it doesn't matter when it happened. Sex is something that comes naturally, its been 3 years and no sex since the first time together yet I love and adore her and the first days, first sex and first everything still felt like yesterday to me. I hope to get married to her next year, God Willing; I really can't explain her with the keyboard before me. She may not be the most beautiful but for me she is top quality; I tried to find fault but believe there are none. Thank you to all the ladies who left me at some point in time because they left I found my jewel.

also for your own HEALTH RISKS its better to wait a while.
not just jumping on some guy you just met.
how slutty.
you hardly know anything about the guy.
at least be dating first.