na wa for you. we know all the tricks these ladies play and from experience, the more nutty the lady, the more she plays hard to bed!

sex should be seen as a gift vis-a-vis its not suppose to be a one way thing; both partners must feel the need to do it about the same time; it most come naturally; you have to expect it anytime; except when recommended by the doctor during baby making. I am not saying you should jump at any guy or lady you meet on the first day; and if you are talking about health and safety, you have to also consider the fact that even right where you are now may not be safe; it is only by God grace that we are safe

a gift from the ladies to the men or what?

Gift is something acquired without effort or payment or obligation, that is exactly what sex should be; if you notice there is a lot of difference when one pays for sex. People who pays for sex even finds it disgusting at the end of the day yet they still return.

to me i dnt think its right 4 a responsible girl but it actually depends on individuals

nwainbuekw:

to me i dnt think its right 4 a responsible girl but it actually depends on individuals

Responsible my butt !

so, it's a 'gift' for a lady to have sex with a man?

Research has shown that premarital sex is the major debilitating factor to long lasting sustenable relationship.Lets try and avoid it by all means.Lets preserve and protect our destinies!

not necessarily! not advised though.

On a first date u want to maintain an unbiased view of ur date. sex does have the power to cloud ur judgment. before u know it u start thinking that theres something there when actually u just another P****sy down the line of others , then u are trapped in a web of yet another disastrous relationship .

Keep sex aside for goodness sake!!!!  Keep it simple ,enjoy the company of the date or not .

its not advisable cos de guy mite think de babe is too cheap and dts how she opens up 4 evybody on de 1st date bt not in all cases though

it really really depends on individual
i had some, it worked for me
i had others but now they are no where to be found
what can one do
you only need to pray for the righth person to come along
cos a player might stay for six months or longer,get whatever he wants and still get lost and a serious person may do it an hour after you meet and you may end up at the alter
everything is up to God
and the individual involved

But its best to keep them legs closed!

Nothin Left to say!

The girl who allowed a guy to have sex with her on their first date should not bother looking for a job or should resign from her present job and start prostituting.

yommys01:

The girl who allowed a guy to have sex with her on their first date should not bother looking for a job or should resign from her present job and start prostituting.

really?

Ya it depends,but the relationship may be destroy,but ive seen couples who told me they did it on the 1st day and still marry,so it depends on the level of understanding, maturity and love u people have 4 each other.take care

so, its all prostitutes that go about looking for sex on first date?

i think relationship is based on intentions.We can say its good and as well bad.

you mean good and bad at the same time? how?

there is a tendency to think that she could as well fall for another guy on the first day, epecially when problems (inherent in any relationship) begin. believe me, it may seem harmless at first but with the effects of time, distance and other love eroding factors. one may only discover the time bomb too late.

@topic

Yes cus sooner or later you are going to start to ask yourself what if questions . . . .

It's not a gud signal for a lasting relationship

i dnt think so

like what if she does it with yet another guy she meets tomorrow?

I wouldn't know

Hey!!! am babadee, Sex is good alot for bodys

If she wanted it,then she must be lose,

it can but it depends on both parties wat they have in mind

George_D:

you mean good and bad at the same time? how?

I was making contribution in respect to the post.

ok. i hear you.

Answer to question: NO

no to what?

No it does not kil a potential relationship.