jaxxy:


I think it depends on d level of cheating here and also if ur friend also doesn't cheat on her. If she Ws cheating like an olosho kinda way then find a way to lead ur friend to catch her wen offguard
bt if it's decent(good girl kinda) cheating like she doesn't want to put her eggs in 1 basket then let her be and let ur frnd find out by his own if he has trust issues cos nobody is perfect and it not ur place to police it and judge it or spoil it.

Met her in the hall way coming out of a hotel room with a guy.

emvico:

in football we have home/away match. what she did is called AWAY match. just try and find out if is a fixed match.

it was definitely fixed because they were in a hotel room together

antieverything:

if u wait till dat girl give ur friend hiv na mi nd my church membersz go swear give u

bro easy na.... its not easy o u won't understand the delima I'm in now

Certifiedboss:


From this moment record all your conversations with her if she keeps begging u not to talk just in case she wants to set you up at the end . Save chats and record calls.

yes bro

vivaciousvivi:
Passy089 I would advice firstly that someone else ( a close family relative preferably) is also aware of this,simply to act as a witness to the truth (in case you are truly set up). Secondly, depending on the closeness of your relationship to your friend I will advice that you tell him. Better if he calls her immediately to verify in your presence so she doesn't spin tales. But break the news in a manner that shows the gravity of the situation...a fiance is not a joke because if left untended, she would commit adultery too
Goodluck

thanks dear

Princedaniel:

You are a very wicked friend!!!

hian

markbenny:
Hope you will not end up fvcking each other, she sounds like a very bad girl and can offer sex to shut you up, out of whichh she could still set u up


Follow your min. do the needful

Yea its possible she could but I have a babe so I will simply turn it down....she even called to know when I'll be bk from work today cos she wants to see me.

beedam:


And how many times have you seen the guy cheating with another girl that you decided to tell the girl too?

You mentioned something that you and your friends are supposed to be watching each others back, biko, watch your own back first.

Please mind your business .

Also what do you mean by caught her cheating? Ko ye mi.

Coming out of a hotel room with a guy that's probably not her relation

Kitikpa lachaa gi anya. Its always "bros b4 hoes". Hu 4yrs of relationship epp? She knew the relationship was 4yrs and meant smthing to her and she went cheating. Chooi ataaam kukumba chidinma. Waka!! Attention seekers

Mcowubaba:
Depends on the level of closeness of you and your guy.
If he is like a brother to you- Tell him
If he is just a normal guy to you- Respect Yourself

You are on point.

Passy089:



we ain't that close but we do hang out most times in the evening or play street football.

What if d other stranger finds out about ur friend and tries to harm ur friend, would u forgive ur self? What if that babe gives ur guy H.I.V and he now has to live on drugs, would u forgive itself knowing that telling him would have put him on d alert ? If ur answer to any of the questions is YES, then be silent over it but if NO, then tell ur friend and save a soul now. How he handles it thereafter is no longer ur business.

Passy089:



Met her in the hall way coming out of a hotel room with a guy.

Is ur frnd out to marry her if no let her be bt if yes then u may want to advise him indirectly 1st. Like a jist about anoda guy u know dat he doesn't know and see his reaction to that. Then u know if to actually tell him or not cos sm guys aren't matured to handle situations like this.

I honestly cannot believe that peeps are actually advising the Op to keep mute...especially the guys

And na una go dey shout "loyalty" upandan..

#FakeAssNiggas everywhere!

why won't you tell him,so he won't settle down with a devil tomorrow....be your brothers keeper
a painful truth is better than a useful lie* they say

[quote author=Passy089 post=50750856]

I'm a christian I've read it thanks.[/quote what is the verse all about? My bible no dey close.

If i say tell, some ppl will still convince you otherwise and if i say otherwise, some ppl will still convince you to do the opposite.

But all I've got to say now is that if you know you dont have an extra reliable gf, just gboju

Davash222:

If you are a Christian pls read 1 Thessalonians 4:11

Hahahaha!! I can't imagine I actually went and read my bible for this shit!!! Lol!!

I won't have a problem with u telling me my gal is cheating. But u Berra find me anoda galfriend soon, cos am not gonna stay single because u couldn't mind ur own damn bizness!!!

Davash222:

If you are a Christian pls read 1 Thessalonians 4:11

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and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,

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Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before.

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and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,

Berean Study Bible
and to aspire to live quietly, to attend to your own matters, and to work with your own hands, as we instructed you.

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and to strive earnestly to live quietly and to attend to your own matters, and to work with your own hands, just as we commanded you,

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and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you,

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And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

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to seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

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Also, make it your goal to live quietly, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we instructed you,

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to aspire to lead a quiet life, to attend to your own business, and to work with your hands, as we commanded you.

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and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

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And that you would be diligent, peaceable and occupied with your business, working with your hands just as we commanded you,

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Also, make it your goal to live quietly, do your work, and earn your own living, as we ordered you.

New American Standard 1977
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you;

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and that ye procure to be quiet and to do your business and to work with your hands, as we commanded you,

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And that you study to be quiet, and to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

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And that you study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

American Standard Version
and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

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And that you use your endeavour to be quiet, and that you do your own business, and work with your own hands, as we commanded you:

Darby Bible Translation
and to seek earnestly to be quiet and mind your own affairs, and work with your [own] hands, even as we charged you,

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and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

Webster's Bible Translation
And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

Weymouth New Testament
and to vie with one another in eagerness for peace, every one minding his own business and working with his hands, as we ordered you to do:

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and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

Young's Literal Translation
and to study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we did command you,

Dimples999:
Make her tell him.

How?

justscorchone:
Omo wetin you wan talk na,as if your guy no dey tidy outside,see ehn use this one take open office for the girl head jare,if na torokobo lasan to fuel your car sef no wham

Ur certainty fear me o

A case of 'Am I my brother's watchman's
If you should mind ur business about this, then you should mind ur business about many other sorts of things..
If everyone should mind ur business...

Davash222:

If you are a Christian pls read 1 Thessalonians 4:11

Another example of someone quoting scriptures to justify there actions. If your significant other cheated on you won't you want someone to tell you? Whatever happened to do unto others what you want them to do to you?

Since your guy isn't married to her yet, I'll advise you tell him indirectly. I mean, a kind of advise or indirect interview on his girlfriend

If it is your friend cheating on the girl will u tell the girl?

Busy body don lead to some people untimely death, speaking from wat have seen. Can u swear ur friend is faithful to her?

You owe it to your friend to tell him the truth.
Think about it, would you like your friend to hide such a thing from you?
Good chaps must stand together

bazzyblings:

Wetin concern that verse with what's at hand ?

Fixed

discman2k2:
Pls brother, I've read 1Thesalonians 4:1, how does it advice him? Ols expanciate.

Oh, sorry, 4:11..read again

iamloyalty:
Busy body don lead to some people untimely death, speaking from wat have seen. Can u swear ur friend is faithful to her?

Imagine, and you call yourself iamloyalty. You are a very wicked and disloyal person. So you will allow your friend to keep dating a cheat. I pray to never meet someone like you, talk less of having you as a friend.

OP, do unto others what you want others to do you. And you will reap whatever you sow, it's not a curse but a fact of life.

If I were you, I won't tell him.

But...

I will let the girl know that she's now under my watchful lens.

Using my sleuth techniques, I will find a way to digitally record her admittance to the 'crime' plus her promise/acceptance to never sin again.