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Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by dicksonadams(m): 7:48am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Izen:dislike women like this, they think they are all intellectual and shiy but just like the rest of em 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Revolva(m): 7:59am On Dec 05, 2016 |
that d way todays young ladies behave......oga run leave her oo dont marry such type...ok unless ur name na sorry....d day she nop see food for ur house ....she can blow other guys for food..n cash 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 8:01am On Dec 05, 2016 |
gedtalks: And you're thinking of getting married to her? Intending couples are meant to know each other. One person doesn't do the knowing alone. It won't suffice. It's not just okay that you think you know her, you have to be sure she knows and understands you, too. That's the only way an eventual marriage would survive. You might think of yourself as cool, smart, God's gift to humanity and all of that, but when she knows you well enough, she may not appreciate those virtues. If your only problem with her is the way she always demands to eat out, then talk to her about it. Tell her you want to build something serious with her and to that end, you want her to see you for the man you are. In my opinion, your relationship isn't solid enough. You two should work on that. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Greenbullet(m): 8:03am On Dec 05, 2016 |
doll912:take this.
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Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Girlbestfriend(f): 8:05am On Dec 05, 2016 |
jahsson:I ain't going that road with you, Gaskia |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Burgerlomo: 8:05am On Dec 05, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Eddodoh(m): 8:07am On Dec 05, 2016 |
slex:Hmmm!!! I hope you knack her very well b4 dumping her? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by autonomous22: 8:11am On Dec 05, 2016 |
plz dump her before she dumps u.... meanwhile, she is on a mission to ruin ur life 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by tunjilana: 8:12am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Izen: I love the way you are being specific...shows you want genuine answers. Firstly I do not believe the african society(at least my part) teaches a woman to loose everything about herself for the man. And it has nothing to do with civilization, In my part of Nigeria, even before the white man set foot here, women are known as pillars of free enterprise. Marketing and trade was their core. You here things like Iyaloja,Iyalaje et al and mothers even groom daughters to engage in trade and business once they are matured enough. In those days, men were polygamous and mainly gave their wives a fair and reasonable share of what they have, the women often supplement from earnings from trade and other endeavors. My great grand mother was like this likewise my grand mother Now talking about these days, with education et al, do you seriously think a man will put his daughter through school and possibly even spend more on her(cos the girl child often gets more resources than the boy when growing up, my sisters got what they want while my own small request is always screened ) just so she can pack up? Check the lady topping your class and doing well academically, she obviously won't finish school to pack up...I sincerely believe every woman that packs up for a man never really had plans for a great life. Times changed and a lot of middle class families have diverse ways of managing family while both still earn.A house help on a wage can cook, clean, wash while the woman does something flexible enough to support finance and still have time to instill values in the children. Simply put a man respects an empowered and level-headed woman...They are assets no man jokes with 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by IbroMaka(m): 8:13am On Dec 05, 2016 |
gedtalks: Are u kidding me... Ditch the Biitch fast! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by umarazizz87(m): 8:29am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Ah why asking for advice? It is obvious she's not a wife material. If you don't want live a frustrated marriage life u better stay away from her. |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Wiseandtrue(f): 8:31am On Dec 05, 2016 |
gedtalks: dollyjoy:Thank you. That was the card he dealt not one or twice and she is reciprocating. A simple practical/correction will tell you who she is before its too late. 1. Buy some ingredient one day then when she is around instead of going to buy fast food, ask her to cook 2. Another time ask her to buy the ingredients and cook 3. Gradually you will correct that first impression 4. Once in a while you can buy fast foods 5. If she is a wife material from her cooking and adjustment you will know. Above all marry a woman that will give you peace. I wish you the best
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Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by claremont(m): 8:35am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Izen: Modern society requires that both a man and a woman make financial contributions to make the relationship work. It might not be equal financial contributions, but there has to be some contribution from the lady other than the traditional roles of "the kitchen and the other room". If women do not want men to see them as slaves and sex objects, they have to make tangible contribution. However, there are some men who actually prefer females that stick to the traditional roles. I think different people look out for different things. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by dee02(m): 8:37am On Dec 05, 2016 |
She must be obese now with all of the fast food she has noshing at your expense.....Unless fatsos are your type, that is the indicator you need to get her binned! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by samsam2019: 8:46am On Dec 05, 2016 |
gedtalks:so why do you need advise? You know she's not what you want in a woman and you still want to persist with her? You better dumo her now become you become a divorcee |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Adebowale89(m): 8:52am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Op, seems u and Valentino u are relative? coz if not you would ve sense that, the girl doesn't ve a wife material she dramatized it to u, campaign it to you and here you are asking what to do Op, use paracetamol and 7up.....it boost brain faster! |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Ferdinandu(m): 8:54am On Dec 05, 2016 |
gedtalks:Guy as you are saying this thing, I feel like you are describing the current girl I am dating and thought that I will settle down with because I really like her, but from this her materialistic behaviour, I have already started my car, it remains for me to accelerate and off I zoom. I don't want to be bugged down all life with just a pretty face which obviously fades in a short while. Those girls are just leeches, nothing more 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 8:57am On Dec 05, 2016 |
gedtalks:just tell her is not going to work between both of you, buh that u guys can be friends i hope u don chop am |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by slex(m): 9:03am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Eddodoh: Bro, truth be told i no too do am like that 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 9:04am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Must all ur posts be long and lengthy,your problem is that u too know book Oliviaarims: |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by luminouz(m): 9:04am On Dec 05, 2016 |
des4ella:Loooool! Thanks bruh! But Buhari would be stingy so I wont be part of his economic wateva*rolling my eyes* |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by luminouz(m): 9:05am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Saidu22:Ayam telling u.... |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by luminouz(m): 9:06am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Onyedika11:Loooool! |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by luminouz(m): 9:07am On Dec 05, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat:Being me? U can NEVER be me.....there is only one of ME! But u can be.like me....n DAT would be d beat thing that ever happened to U! |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by streetzdreamz(m): 9:23am On Dec 05, 2016 |
masseratti:my bro, she ain't no village girl, her excuse back then was,we r both students,can't burden you with my wants, she's only giving in now that am done with school,there was this lady I knew who gives out a list to prospective boyfriends, just like an engagement list, thats your definition of city girls shey? you v probably been meeting all this money oriented ladies, some ladies don't give a f*ck bout your purse, not that they don't want a good thing, they just wouldn't demand for it or make it a priority, they'd rather you do it at your own pace and discretion, I hope u get ma point now. |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by masseratti: 9:29am On Dec 05, 2016 |
streetzdreamz:Lolz, av met them all, you should have started it that it was in school, if you are talking about that, definitely many girls will do you without money,, just be out of the system no matter how fine you are, unless you want to do an old cargo or an ugly girl. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Kassidy90(m): 9:33am On Dec 05, 2016 |
gedtalks:Not all of them I dated a lady sometimes ago, without a doubt I know she loves me and I loved her too but she hardly request for anything despite she was a student in fact because of that I always makes sure she lack nothing would have marry her but it's a pity her people won't allow her to marry a Yoruba/Muslim cos she's an ibo babe one d best I ve seen 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by streetzdreamz(m): 9:37am On Dec 05, 2016 |
masseratti:I still don't think its the school factor, its more of a personality, even now that am outa school, she still finds it difficult to make a request, some ladies ain't just the booze party money freak, she had her birthday last month and wouldn't even go out, with all ma talks and cajoles of stepping out with her brothers since i wasnt around,she slept all day!!!!! |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by streetzdreamz(m): 9:44am On Dec 05, 2016 |
yinkhar:exactly, met a lady who was always hungry, I mean always!!! I once bought her a meal from an eatery around 10pm, it just changed everything I might have felt for her, money,food,material driven ladies are a big turn off for guys, even the super rich dude will get fed up one day, your last sentence and moderation in everything is the key to a lasting relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by mylove4God(f): 9:48am On Dec 05, 2016 |
bbmpin: Exactly.. He should first of all discuss with her before taking any action. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by skylane: 9:56am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Floor it, she's channeling your money to her lover who must be a 419,any woman who loves you will only demand from you wen the problem is about to kill her,she will always make the spending 60/40 wen u go out,be wise my brother |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by mylove4God(f): 10:00am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Please try discussing with her. Let her know how her actions makes you feel. Her response and reaction will let you know what next step to take. She might not know what she is actually doing is wrong. Talk to her and let her know how you feel about it before thinking of breaking up with her. It's better you let her know you feel now that there is still relationship, than when you have broken up the relationship. You never can tell, you might be saving her from more mistakes. 1 Like 1 Share |
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