Wowzerful! I initially avoided this thread cos I really don't give a hoot abt how men feel after divorce but lack of other interesting topics kicked me in. Amelia, easy girl...who dey poke your ribs?Biko face front, don't allow anyone bully you...no time to still read the thread o jare.

bellong:


Hello,

Which Island is this? @your DP

Hiya,
It's Jamaica...along the western coast of the island.

DarkRebel101:


No one is willing to farm. It's been long touted as the ultimate economic panacea, yet no one's willing to take the talk out of the bullpen.

How can it go beyond mere words when anything short of a white-collar job is given the stamp of irreverence? When parents would show the rough edge of the pineapple to their kids should they decide to study Agriculture in the university, because according to them: it is a course for the unintelligent.

The collective mindset of the populace needs to be righted first. Otherwise, we'd talk from now until the second coming of Christ and nothing would be done.

Words on marble.

DarkRebel101:


No one is willing to farm. It's been long touted as the ultimate economic panacea, yet no one's willing to take the talk out of the bullpen.

How can it go beyond mere words when anything short of a white-collar job is given the stamp of irreverence? When parents would show the rough edge of the pineapple to their kids should they decide to study Agriculture in the university, because according to them: it is a course for the unintelligent.

The collective mindset of the populace needs to be righted first. Otherwise, we'd talk from now until the second coming of Christ and nothing would be done.

Necessity should overcome any misplaced pride. The question of whether to farm or not only arises if the luxury of choice exists.

Common sense should propel anyone with dependents at death's door / looking starvation in the face to pick up their hoes and cutlasses and start digging.

shaybebaby:

Hiya,
It's Jamaica...along the western coast of the island.

It's cool... Nice beach they have there. Jamaica here I come.

bellong:


It's cool... Nice beach they have there. Jamaica here I come.

Ya man! You will have a blast. Enjoy when you do go and make sure you take pics to show me when you are back.

EfemenaXY:

Necessity should overcome any misplaced pride. The question of whether to farm or not only arises if the luxury of choice exists.

Common sense should propel anyone with dependents at death's door / looking starvation in the face to pick up their hoes and cutlasses and start digging.

Common sense is a rare commodity in the Nigerian socio-political landscape.

Amelian:




No be if the woman agree to marry you?


If u don't do it, a better man will do the court wedding with her.
Shikena..
Choices full everywhere

"a better man"..I really don't agree with the idea of not doing court weddings,but I have come to a realization that if a person has a different opinion from yours,pls respect his opinions instead of thinking him less of a person..afterall court wedding will not change a wife beater.I hope you get my point ma?

general111:
"a better man"..I really don't agree with the idea of not doing court weddings,but I have come to a realization that if a person has a different opinion from yours,pls respect his opinions instead of thinking him less of a person..afterall court wedding will not change a wife beater.I hope you get my point ma?

It's none of business. Do whatever u like.
Thats the least of my thoughts for Nw.
Thanks.

DarkRebel101:


Common sense is a rare commodity in the Nigerian socio-political landscape.

EfemenaXY:

Come give me your book for free na. Give me as my Christmas gift.

DarkRebel101:


Come give me your book for free na. Give me as my Christmas gift.

It's not for the underaged.

^^^

Hmmm...

So many goings on in this nairaland ...

@topic

Personally I do not wish any man/woman that went through the "i do process" to just quit........... However I would strongly advice young married and about to be married couples that there is a saying that " a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage", I would "personally" add that "a broken marriage is way safer than a broken life"........
My people when the push comes to shove "court, traditional rites and church" are just historical rituals, what really matters is where you both stand and your individual happiness. Cheers