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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by darlingtito(f): 6:03pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Just like you said in your post,you fought till other guys left..God knows the way you did that so let her also fight..are you inlove with this other lady?i doubt it.berra be sure b4 you sell your happiness for 100k.pele saweide: 9 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by darlingtito(f): 6:15pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Hehehehee..he also said 'he thinks he loves the other babe and she feels the same way schumastic: |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by schumastic(m): 6:21pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
darlingtito: HE ONLY FEELS THAT WAY CUS THE BABE SEEMS ESTALBLISHED, THE ONLY ADVICE I HAVE FOR HIM IS FOR HIM NOT TO SETTLE DOWN WITH HIS BABY MAMA CUS IS OBVIOUS THEY ARE NOT COMPATIBLE. 6 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Goldenheart(m): 10:13pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
I insist, Most Women are the same... 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Opakan2: 10:13pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
A lady or guy that can't apologize when wrong is a no no. I'm sure you saw the signs but chose to ignore cos of mumu love she was showing you.. she even insults your mother, imagine I really don't know what advise to give cos this one fit send people to kill you if you leave her. it's better to look well before you leap to avoid stories that touch 4 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Kbantin: 10:14pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
if u will follow the proper way of marriage..shes not ur wife..u only had a proceed of fornication with her which is dat child..seek the face of the Lord and go for counsellin to know the right woman for u...a long lastin relationship does not start so awful like yours..just ask her to pack out and find a good woman by seekin d face of the lord..u can take the custody of the child after it all... 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by tammie24: 10:17pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by madamcoolstory: 10:18pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
The first 3 paragraphs put me off. Really? She doesn't have an ambtion, she nags, she disrespects my mum... bla bla bla. And you have been with her since 2011? There is definitely something you are enjoying from her! #spoiler. I didn't bother reading your whole nonsense. 8 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by babyfaceafrica: 10:20pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Any lady that can insult my mom ....can never be my wife...OP are u sure she has not jazzed you?...some insults ur mum and you are staying with her?!...chai... 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by eleburu(f): 10:22pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
you've seen the warming signal but you chose to wave it away.
next time never wave away a warning signal. 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Impeller(m): 10:23pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
How will you feel in 10yrs time that the child was not even yours? Go for a parternity test without her consent. If the innocent child is truly yours, take the child to your mum...Go out there and work hard for your mum and child. Please, do not marry a bad wife!!! 4 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by olagbemi118(m): 10:23pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Bro, u try oooo. Since 2011...that special grace dat has been keeping u is rare ooo. Kip enduring u hear. 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by danot1030: 10:23pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
I can't just know how some of you erroneously get into some kind of relationship with some witches and you can't walk out of it. 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by AgbenuAnna(f): 10:24pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Because she has a child for you abi? Why didn't you separate since Brother be honest You have seen someone else 5 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Chukazu: 10:24pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
if she was so bad that you can't tolerate her, how were you able to have sex with her, and even impregnated her? you don't like her, but you love sex? see your life. 4 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by adedehinbo(m): 10:25pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
saweide:the name of the girl is faith right? 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by ademide0710: 10:26pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
If you want to live long, get your kid from her and plead with your mummy to raise her for you and search for a submissive,understanding,caring,loving,hardworking and above all a PRAYERFUL woman. Life is short to endure all this hardship in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:26pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
You just try and understand her and why shes so disrespectful and all that.Try to patch things up.Forget 100k.If she could treat you like this in five married years,she probably has a score to settle with you. Try to show her that you are not chyking others,resolve the issue amicably.If it persists,just seperate. 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by mecussey(m): 10:28pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
saweide: Bro...u a re a playboy 7 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by charlesadams926(m): 10:29pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
post=52098225:abi o |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
saweide: Oga,the only question I have is; Why do you love her? |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by stanliwise(m): 10:31pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
I would love to hear from both party. But from what you have said. Don't think your socalleed nagging wife would remain like this, people change. As your babymama, what have you done personally on your path to express your love. e.g Gift, Going out together, show her to your friend. Nevertheless nothing is holding you in that relationship, not even the child, you can leave her and care for your love child(never abandon for any reason). Don't feel a soothsayer or a prophet will help issues, no one can ever predict this future of yours, You can only make it work or leave it to negligence. 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by KKKWHITE(m): 10:33pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Pray to God and give her some time and she will change . As for that 100k you missed , you should have told your closed girlfriend of yours that you have someone in your life at the earlier stage i guess maybe she was already falling for you . |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by ventilation: 10:33pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
I read this one confirm say true true Otumokpo de |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Longcucumber(m): 10:34pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Baawaa:oga that post is real.stop doubting everything. 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by aigjoey(m): 10:34pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
For this same nasty behavior I just left my girl last week. She has the same attributes and nature of your baby mama. She argues too much.. Nags more than buharis government,,, always right,, talk too much... In fact u can never correct her. The only time we are friends is during sex. In fact we even quarreled at times during sex. She is so some how. Ahhh.. God forbid.. My brother, I warned her, advice her, begged her to change but at d end she refused. Next for me was to walk out before I die young. If I mistakenly married her, I will be beating her everyday and u know the implications. My brother am out of her life for good and already have a girlfriend now who listen to voice of reasoning and homely. Pls run away.. U just cannot cope with her if eventually u two are married. Run o... Run oo 7 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Diplomaticbeing(m): 10:35pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
You're an opportunist! You exhibited both predaceous and leechlike opportunism against your baby mama and your prying lady friend, respectively. Altruism, honesty, civility and reciprocity are some major hallmarks of a good leader, but you lacked them. You don't deserve mercy. 9 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by mmsen: 10:35pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
You don't know to put a password on your phone? |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
op u can still get back that babe that blocked u on whatsapp. u can start by sending her a very long message explaining what you are facing with the baby mama. if that should work, dont bring up the money issue for business. for your baby mama, tell her u are not sure about the wedding plan unless u see changes in her behaviour. you have to be serious about this decision. then again if she doesnt change the issue of who is to keep the child will arise which will be a different ball game entirely. 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Mmmy(f): 10:37pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Initially, when reading this, i feel sorry for you. Towards the end, with the other woman and #100,000, i'm a bit more conscious. Finally after reading a few comments, i realised that your story is too negative for someone who has been in a relationship for 5 years: saying the only two positives you can identify are her teaching skills and that she cares for her child. It seems like you've already made up your mind and have written a biased story solely blaming the woman just to have some justification. I can not take sides without hearing the other side and what made her how she is now but all i can say is to end it for both your sakes. If you can no longer find any positives in her, it would not be fair to keep her at the side while you chat up more, as you said "humble, submissive, jovial etc." women. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Phi001(m): 10:37pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Seun don get traffic sha... OP, just tell her to carry her wahala and go or you carry your own and go... |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by charlesadams926(m): 10:38pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
There is more to this than amidst the eye.... Op this a desperate attempt to convince yourself (not us) as to why you should quit! I understand that women can be ridiculously vile when the want to, but I think you want to victimise urself so you don't look irresponsible. I also know loosing 100k and prolly a good bleep can make you see her as the devil, but omo Na ur wife she be Na. You have plans to marry her next year abi? She was protecting her own home. That's what mothers do. Meanwhyl I think your problem is financial not emotional. Allow her a bit of space to cheat....that is the easiest way to get rid of a woman! With money, that woman can be someone's dream girl remember how you fought off guys, if she didn't mean that much to you, you wouldn't have bothered. 5 Likes |
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