@lalasticlala, please help me take this topic to fp, i need more advice from good nairalanders

stan241:
For your own sake,its best you end the whole thing entirely, i mean you both are in the same department which in almost 99.9% of the time doesn't work out talk more of all the other baggage she's carrying around, end it now and start all over, you deserve to be the one and only option of your partner not just some stop gap or a rebound.

bro thanks for that, the most important thing in my life now is to make it and not woman issues, i am an orphan so i have to work towards achieving something in life. But if i later found a girl that will love me for me, why not, but for now it's not a priority.

Ralphjoe:
bro thanks for that, the most important thing in my life now is to make it and not woman issues, i am an orphan so i have to work towards achieving something in life. But if i later found a girl that will love me for me, why not, but for now it's not a priority.

I get you man, in the long run you'd be better off for it to be honest, i like to believe that there is someone out there for everyone so just focus on yourself for now, you'd be surprised how all these things usually turn out in the end, your woman is out there and you'd come across her when the time is right.

stan241:



I get you man, in the long run you'd be better off for it to be honest, i like to believe that there is someone out there for everyone so just focus on yourself for now, you'd be surprised how all these things usually turn out in the end, your woman is out there and you'd come across her when the time is right.

thanks boss, i appreciate that

There's no way she's going to give you her 100%. She has two other guys (that she really loves) on stand-by. Talking to them in your presence means you are not her number one. She doesn't repsect you that much. YOU ARE DISPOSABLE. She's flexing with you ''on the interim'' as these other guys are not around.

Apologizing to you means nothing. I bet you she speaks to them behind your back. You'll keep hurting yourself. I've seen this countless times. And any relationship where you are not sure of your place, always worried your partner may disappear any minute is toxic, and should be discontinued asap. Its easier said than done, though. But stay longer and you'll start second-guessing urself and watch your self-esteem begin to crash.

Unless you are in it for the sex, no strings attached, then no wahala. But, If you want something deeper, u might have to look elsewhere.

If you can - just go.

Most women are liars.....

I still stand on that.

Hahahaga sharp bar, trying to get her own iPhone 7 from these three magas... Op she is securing her future ooo

Ralphjoe:
I got to meet a girl through facebook, we talked and finally hooked up, i asked her out and she accepted, she told me about her two boyfriends that left her for greener pasture, one left for italy and the other one went to ghana, she never broke up with any of them.

So we started dating as we both are student in the same school and department. The whole relationship grew into deep love and affection between us, but she still talk on phone with her previous boyfriends, even when we are together, she will be engaged in a long conversation on phone with her previous boyfriend and also on whatsapp, it got to a stage that i saw a message she sent to her previous boyfriend in ghana that she love him so much, i got so angry with her and she begged me, & she confess that she still love him but she loves me the most and she would love to marry me, we settled the issue.

And now the boyfriend in ghana paid her a surprise visit yesterday when i was at her place and was about leaving, with this now, should i still continue dating her or not? bearing in mind that she is so supportive of me in school.

you need beatings!

You are not serious! You cannot see that you are nothing but Mr While Up Time .....You are not even the side men.

You are the back-Up plan. It is so crystal clear.
In case any of the two guys didnt work out. She will fall back to you.

You can't blame her for not wanting to put all her eggs in one basket, are you ready to put a ring on it soonest?, that's the only way to secure her as your own

Continue fuccking her. Infact,intensify fucking her.

Masterclass32:
There's no way she's going to give you her 100%. She has two other guys (that she really loves) on stand-by. Talking to them in your presence means you are not her number one. She doesn't repsect you that much. YOU ARE DISPOSABLE. She's flexing with you ''on the interim'' as these other guys are not around.

Apologizing to you means nothing. I bet you she speaks to them behind your back. You'll keep hurting yourself. I've seen this countless times. And any relationship where you are not sure of your place, always worried your partner may disappear any minute is toxic, and should be discontinued asap. Its easier said than done, though. But stay longer and you'll start second-guessing urself and watch your self-esteem begin to crash.

Unless you are in it for the sex, no strings attached, then no wahala. But, If you want something deeper, u might have to look elsewhere.

If you can - just go.

my brother, ur analysis made me speechless, why haven't i reason like this before, i wanted to take the relationship serious before but now itz going to be for the sex. thanks for ur candid advice bro, more money to ur bank account bro

Lol, Baba Even James 4 Madrid Better Pass You. Ur Bench No b Here.

Campus love or whatever you wish to call it don't last.. once you're out, it becomes mavro coin, anything can happen

What is wrong with u, are u a primary school boy, she is using you to do fill in the gap, should in case the other guy gets a new babe. Better get another that will love n respect u

Pierocash:
Dnt dump her,secure another serious relationshp with another gal and gradually divert ur luv to ur new gal,let break up by herself whn she notices that u no longer care abt her.
That is how to treat girls like that

guy I swear u talk my mind DAT d best he can do........don't dump her,just look 4 another girl DAT can love u all for herself and gradually................

Benita27:
So she has two pending relationships with two guys, one in Italy and one in Ghana...trust me, she tells those guys the same words she told you about loving you the most.

She's securing her future.

Why ona dey like this Maka why

Bros as long as she dey give u kpekus and money just stick to her like a parasite to its host

Opakan2:
Campus love or whatever you wish to call it don't last.. once you're out, it becomes mavro coin, anything can happen

What did i do to you?

[tell your self the truth, you dont even love this girl, you are in that relationship because your are broke, you are the one cheating her, you Bleep and at the time take her money.quote author=Ralphjoe post=52225790] am already attached to her but i believe i can leave her at any moment without blinking an eyelid, the day i saw the message on her phone that she love her boyfriend in ghana, i cried and cried like a baby, thatz the day i stopped getting attached to her.[/quote]

She's a player using u as a gbewudani!

U met her on fb but u are actually frm d same school and same Dept....hummm.....


God wll give u wisdom....

Make I ask the guy one simple question ❓

Where yu think sae the girl the get money to empower yu?

Parents? Or Italy? Or Ghana?

Please move on, you just there to keep her company and you the last option.

cricifixo:
Bros as long as she dey give u kpekus and money just stick to her like a parasite to its host

my real chairman, na true talk u yarn so, i go chin gum her for those things.

Ralphjoe:
I got to meet a girl through facebook, we talked and finally hooked up, i asked her out and she accepted, she told me about her two boyfriends that left her for greener pasture, one left for italy and the other one went to ghana, she never broke up with any of them.

So we started dating as we both are student in the same school and department.

...Dude forget about her and work towards coming out of school with good grades...school relationships rarely end in marriage..she's dating you out of convenience..you're broke and can't afford to take care of a girl while your parents are struggling to pay your fees...save your scarce resources both financial and emotional for your academics cos that's what's up right now....trust me,she's not worth it...

tcheezy:
[tell your self the truth, you dont even love this girl, you are in that relationship because your are broke, you are the one cheating her, you Bleep and at the time take her money.quote author=Ralphjoe post=52225790] am already attached to her but i believe i can leave her at any moment without blinking an eyelid, the day i saw the message on her phone that she love her boyfriend in ghana, i cried and cried like a baby, thatz the day i stopped getting attached to her.

bro i so much love this girl, the day the whole thing became crystal clear to me was the day i checked her whatsapp me where she confess to still love the guy, that was the day my love reduced for her drastically. right now i still love her but i don't want to be broken hearted.

2,6,8,12 and even 16 can play the game


No problem...keep chopping her till u re done...No chase am o...bang the "V" out of her Vagina

May guy run fr ya lyf..'love u d most' mai prick

Ralphjoe:
I got to meet a girl through facebook, we talked and finally hooked up, i asked her out and she accepted, she told me about her two boyfriends that left her for greener pasture, one left for italy and the other one went to ghana, she never broke up with any of them.

So we started dating as we both are student in the same school and department. The whole relationship grew into deep love and affection between us, but she still talk on phone with her previous boyfriends, even when we are together, she will be engaged in a long conversation on phone with her previous boyfriend and also on whatsapp, it got to a stage that i saw a message she sent to her previous boyfriend in ghana that she love him so much, i got so angry with her and she begged me, & she confess that she still love him but she loves me the most and she would love to marry me, we settled the issue.

And now the boyfriend in ghana paid her a surprise visit yesterday when i was at her place and was about leaving, with this now, should i still continue dating her or not? bearing in mind that she is so supportive of me in school.

Assistant boyfriend, that's what u are dear. I seriously detest people playing with one's emotions. Anyway, you'll still love again.

blackaxe78:
2,6,8,12 and even 16 can play the game


No problem...keep chopping her till u re done...No chase am o...bang the "V" out of her Vagina

brotherley, ur head is there.