i dont believe that u have to be handsome to look good. there is nothing wrong with feeling good about urself and u dont have to be J Depp to do that. it sucks too to have a girl who is careless about herself.sometimes,u dont have to hate the guys,just blame their tailors.

Michelini. . .na wa for you oh. . .All your threads on Nl are always about guyz dis guyz dat lol. . . .

I am compensating for the threads about girls this, girls that.

AM TOO CONFIDENT - cos i kno am the hottesst, flyest and most handsome man, since "BABA SUWE", lol, at least i fine pass one person

michelin~~~
how confident are u about ur own looks?

Confident enough to know you can always improve.

Gr8 topic. Funny enuf itz d women in his life: his sisters, mom, girlfriends etc dat put d ideas in his head just how hot he is. But d guy with 500 of his own pix on his phone - his is d opposite of confidence: he needs 2 convince himself about his looks = low self-esteem. He sounds hilarious, though.

good~~~~
and how much time do you dedicate to "tryin to improve"?

Enough to require a gym subscription.

how wud u find it to realise dat if u spent such tym then there's a bit of proximity btw u n d guy ur complainin about?

I am a lady!

i knew
~~wats ur most cherished physical asset?

This is getting too personal.

too personal or too public?

Too publicly personal.

unfortunately i wudn't lyk to go PRIVATE with u

And how does this affect me?

does it affect u?
have u ever been soo WRAPED UP in a coversation dat the more u GIVE IN VERBALLY, the more u find urslf BEGIN TO GET MORE AND MORE INTERESTED IN THE PERSON?

Rarely.

Truly speaking here, am an Ok guy, not that all around attractive. But the problem is, I have always come across gf's that would say " Deji you are fine(today) then the other day" Deji you are looking soooo un-attractive.

Not that I have low self esteem, but I just have a soft spot when it comes to that. I myself know that my looks change which I really dnt know the reason why. Part of why I tend to be catious bout my looks so I dnt get no complain about how un-attractive I am " today" It came to a point that I just have to accept the way I look at anytime, anyday.

I have no patience for fickle and flaky guys. Such a turn off!

When I saw this topic & some of the posts, I cldnt help but get amazed. If a guy is handsome & he's confident abt it, it's no problem. It becomes a prob when he starts to get over indulged in his appearance. I'm always told that am handsome but I can never boast abt it. In my own case, both guys & ladies{who re very close} tell me abt this but am not always comfortable with such compliments. In fact, a friend always called me 'most handsome' in class & I had to tell him to reduce the freq of his call, u know. I dont let this get into my head cos I know it's not always abt appearance but abt the size of ur wallet. No matter how ugly a guy may look, if he's got the money,he can marry the most beautiful girls around. I recall a friend of mine{who is a devoted deeper life member} who complained that I have too many female friends and that I shld reduce them & he said it's all because of my appearance. Is that my making? My dad was very handsome when he was young. Though am not vain abt it but I try as much as possible to look clean, neat & trimmed, use a cream and perfumes, deodorant,

there is nothing as good as being confident as a man no matter what brings the confidence. but when a man starts carrying a make up kit, water do pass garri.

Tcrack:

there is nothing as good as being confident as a man no matter what brings the confidence. but when a man starts carrying a make up kit, water do pass garri.

Do u know any man that have make up kit. . .haba!

@ topic,
Am thinking Johnny Bravo. The obvious lack of intelligence, the vanity and the fact that the world must revolve around him. Sucks!

no1madman:

Do u know any man that have make up kit. . .haba!

well, i know one who always has his lip gloss ready. walking around with shiny lips like someone that ate stolen akara.

She is referring to his attitude. Of course even a toddler knows JB has nothing human.

Even though African men sometimes have that built. Big shoulders and skinny legs.

Ahahhaha wrong. That man will get me even with a nice attitude. Skinny legs doesn't make one less of a man.

Especially when the kongo works really fine.

michelin89:

Ahahhaha wrong. That man will get me even with a nice attitude. Skinny legs doesn't make one less of a man. 

Especially when the kongo works really fine.

Coming from Michelin, I'd have to reconsider an enhancement of some sort. .