I have a Baby mama i love so much and hope to marry in the future. just recently after she started working ( which i opposed), I notice she started behaving strange especially she lies to me about little things especially guys issues. to cut the long story short.. she confessed sleeping with a guy about a month now (she said it was just once). she had previously sworn the guy was just a friend and nothing more, now she is saying they have being dating for 2 months now. and from her confession which i had to trick her to do, she said she is also seeing another guy.. she promise changing... question is can i trust her again even though i love her soo much, should i continue and marry her for me and my child? am scared of the future.. what if she does this again?

Op go ahead and marry her

Maybe by the time she sleeps wit ur gate man, d security men in ur area, d entire men in ur family and village, including ur friends.. Maybe den ur eyes will clear

I will advise you marry her. Don't worry she'll change

but really do u need advice before you know what to do

Run faster bro...uv got to search for a better partner

Bro God is revealing to you now dat u want to marry a LovePeddler....
If u travel out of her she gonna sleep with ur hoseboy.



Fire on the mountain run run run

Its obvious you want to marry her out of sympathy cos she is your babymama but this your supposed babymama is a cheat. I will advise you not to marry her to avoid stories that touches the heart.

Hmmm u wan no waiting I go talk,gerara here do waiting dey your mind

Catalin:
Its obvious you want to marry her out of sympathy cos she is your babymama but this your supposed babymama is a cheat. I will advise you not to marry her to avoid stories that touches the heart.

my sister you're really a (f)?

eph12:
I will advise you marry her. Don't worry she'll change

Will u marry her if u were in his shoes?

You don't need advice....

You just want attention.











Op, you know the right thing.









Why open a thread?

Cholls:
my sister you're really a (f)?

How do you mean?

Once a cheat is always a cheat, if she had d mind to cheat on d father of her child,what's d guarantee she won't do it again? If u hadn't caught her, she would still be cheating on you now. This type of thing removes trust from d relationship, u might have forgiven her but you will unknowly start to suspect her every move.

Some women eh...i dnt even know if it's a curse or something...i have one friend like that, upon say she don born out of welock she's still changing men and bleeping around like she was destined for that.

thanks for the responses

let's not forget about op side of the story. what surrounds your relationship. are you showing her a green light on ending up with her 2moa or you are just nursing the feeling. see she needs love and comfort that's why she's misbehaving. not supporting that kind of lifestyle but if you really love her. step up your game