Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

Hummm, your matter got me in the corner.

OP, I won't advice you to get married early if you are not fully ready, my definition of fully ready coupled with (financial and maturity).

But truth be told, if I were you, I would make sure I talk to her to give you more time, remember you disvergined her and she also aborted for you, so you need to always put her in consideration while planing your career.

The best you can just do for her is just let her relax her mind, assure her that you are going to marry her (that's if you intend marrying her), plan her program in your future agenda.

I know the reason why she's desperate to settle down is because of the abortion, so that it won't later have side effect when she gets to a certain age (early 30's or late 30's).

Don't let people push you to what you are not ready for, so that your future kids would not suffer.

kai
you have wrecked her womb for another man to clean up your mess abi? chai.... when will ladies keep themselves till marriage...?? this is sad!! She is now an emotional WRECK. And you want a fresh girl who is untouched. Listen if u ever loved her... stick with her till Parents agree.

You are not ok o cos if she curses you NO MATTER THE MAN OF GOD WHO PRAYS FOR YOU IT WONT WORK O.... you have both killed an unborn child... Pls do not make a monster out of her. cos if she does not kill herself or kill you she will destroy another Man's Life

isaacsegun:
please fellow nairalanders,i need your urgent advice.
we started dating as far back as year 2007,then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s.I'm her first love,infact,i was the person that disflowered her.I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted,the abortion almost took her life.Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine,her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even uptill today.Please guys,should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side,but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything(like attempting to even take her own life)

She will lay a curse on you...


You better marry her before its too late

This ur story just weak me

and so.,.........

Who do you intend leaving her for after 10years of dating with an abortion?. When she was 17 she wasn't desperate, now she's 27 what were you expecting?. You better marry that girl!.

But where is lalasticlala now sef

Marry? What do you do for a living?

isaacsegun:
please fellow nairalanders,i need your urgent advice.
we started dating as far back as year 2007,then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s.I'm her first love,infact,i was the person that disflowered her.I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted,the abortion almost took her life.Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine,her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even uptill today.Please guys,should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side,but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything(like attempting to even take her own life)

but what sort of wickedness is this

After 10 solid years(comprising of 2 leap years) & an abortion (that almost ended her), & pretty sure she's into u(probably), u now decided u won't marry her, because u feel the relationship can't work?!!!!. After 10 freaking years??!!!,
Not like she cheated or, she's a manaic. But because u feel it won't work??
After 10years??!!

Haba!!,

Seriously mehn, that's just terribly wrong. Dunno what to even type/say

The wickedness of man... Op just tell us you are tired of the kinni.

You are a very cruel and callous man. You don't deserve happines. She is good enough to deflower, get pregnant continue to keep sticking your key in her ignition for years and now you mention age and it won't work? Are you serious? It took you 10 years to work that out?

Verily verily I say unto you..you might not make heaven if you fail to marry that girl

you are evil...

Draei:

Now you don't wanna marry her for no
genuine reason? Nigger don't make me
plank you through the screen...mtcheeeew!

.

Marry her, may you not have erection if you dump this girl after 10 years. Anuofia

Chai the life of man..

Na wa o

Op..u no dey make sense....
Please adjust d message coz u sound confused

If that girl gets naked and open mouth for you eehh, all this years do you think there are no other guys that want to be with her, but she ignored all for you. Is I amu

So after aborting for you and almost losing her life, you want another man to marry her.

Some guys are not just worth it.

The kin thunder wey go strike you still dey gym...

A simple case of wanting to eat your cake and have it

are you to blame the guy or the assh*le wey open leg yakata make he piss put?

Rorachy:
So after aborting for you and almost losing her life, you want another man to marry her.

Some guys are not just worth it.

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

Pray God does not punish you for the trauma you are about to unleash into the poor girl's life. Strive to be fair in all of your dealings, humans have emotions.

U Don ffuck dis geh for gud ten years now u wan leave her
Guy y
Wu u wan leave her for

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

nairalanders av started laying curses on your way talkless of the one wey the girl go giv you

If am the one. I would curse you... You wasted 10yrs of her life... Why didn't you break up with her since.. Callous guy

Op No Vex.........I fear U!!!