sexymoma:
try watching some kamasutra with him
my sister jos download some in your phone, since you guys do stay together most times
relax on his chest then jos play it... if he says "what is this" tell him you are learning some skills
he s your hubby not a stranger... act anyhow.

tell him some sexy words even before night comes
like.. babe my nipples itches , my boobs looks fairer than my face
u go hear "let me see"

davidif:


And you know this how?

pocohantas:

Idris Elba is a hunk!
How many of such do we have in Nigeria? Yet we don't see women using looks as an excuse to cheat, maybe other excuses but not looks.

She should get a very big dil.do. Something that would fill up all the spaces her husband couldn't.
It's better than nothing.
Can't you see he's hurting his wife with his useless ego?
Can a woman do this and get away with it? Ordinary 9mths pregnancy, we see them opening thread, asking how they'll cope. Then their kinds arrive with the side-chick advice.

gracetie:
I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. We have two kids together. our sex life was perfect until after our first baby. My husband doesnt touch me anymore. I always have to initiate sex each time im in dare need of it. He has the problem of weak erection and premature ejaculation too.on one occasion I mentioned to him that we really need to see a doctor he said "are you now saying im not a man again"

I said "'no babe you are a man but in the last 6months we've had sex only once and you didnt last up to a minute, there s no need to blame anyone lets just see a doctor. He cut out the idea and we have been staying like that. I give him good and healthy meals. I dress sexy in the house. I doubt if he s cheating cos i have access to his phone and we are always together. he doesnt keep late nights and doesnts answer starnge calls. I think its a health issue but his ego wont allow him sort out issues.

I have reminded him many times that i am only 25 and he married me a virgin. How can i proudly say that in 5 years of married we have had sex not more than 10 times and lucky two of the times resulted in pregnancies. Please advice on what I should do. I am soo tempted to cheat and satisfy myself. But I love my husband. I wish our sex life can go back to what it used to be.

maxwelloweezy:
My sister my advice for you is to go for deliverance go and see your pastor and seek the face GOD and it shall well with your marriage.

emymeeky:


Hahaha hahaha ... But he could be right . Smell can be a turnoff

FortuneTeller:


Because there is a rise in this with men all over the world. The op's husband is able to get it up on command, so I doubt there is an issue with the actual function. Premature expulsion is not going to stop a Naija guy from having sex with his wife. The husband is not expressing any sexual interest yet he still wants to live peacefully in the home. A cheating man will start problems with his wife, complain about everything, and disappear. I suspect he is doing most of his dirty deeds when the wife and kids are asleep. The problem is masturbating too often is going to deaden his feelings for his wife's vagina.

sexymoma:
try watching some kamasutra with him
my sister jos download some in your phone, since you guys do stay together most times
relax on his chest then jos play it... if he says "what is this" tell him you are learning some skills
he s your hubby not a stranger... act anyhow.

tell him some sexy words even before night comes
like.. babe my nipples itches , my boobs looks fairer than my face
u go hear "let me see"

Acidosis:


I don't understand..


What it used to be? 10 times in 5 years is what it used to be?

gracetie:
I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. We have two kids together. our sex life was perfect until after our first baby. My husband doesnt touch me anymore. I always have to initiate sex each time im in dare need of it. He has the problem of weak erection and premature ejaculation too.on one occasion I mentioned to him that we really need to see a doctor he said "are you now saying im not a man again"

I said "'no babe you are a man but in the last 6months we've had sex only once and you didnt last up to a minute, there s no need to blame anyone lets just see a doctor. He cut out the idea and Benefits of Procuring Taxis we have been staying like that. I give him good and healthy meals. I dress sexy in the house. I doubt if he s cheating cos i have access to his phone and we are always together. he doesnt keep late nights and doesnts answer starnge calls. I think its a health issue but his ego wont allow him sort out issues.

I have reminded him many times that i am only 25 and he married me a virgin. How can i proudly say that in 5 years of married we have had sex not more than 10 times and lucky two of the times resulted in pregnancies. Please advice on what I should do. I am soo tempted to cheat and satisfy myself. But I love my husband. I wish our sex life can go back to what it used to be.

davidif:


How about none of the above?

The problem with people like you who have an overtly simplistic view of the works is that you people tend to generalize and think that most nem follow the same pattern of behavior and if they don't then they must be doing something wring.
How about he is not cheating, watching porn or gay? Have you ever thought about that before? Or what if he doesn't have a high sex drive like the men you have had the opportunity to come across in your life?
Contrary to what you've heard or your thought process, not every guy is the same. Some guys love intimacy while some others are not as crazy about it-believe me, there are lots of guys like this, they probably don't go about broadcasting it to the world.

iamnatty:













First off all am very sorry about ur predicament.. I for one don't joke abt sex..
Him not seeing reasons as to go fr a checkup that's a bad move... Like a nairalander said take the bull by the horn...

En am so right here if you badly want it.. To satisfy ur sex life I mean if ur husband persist on being an ass

FortuneTeller:


I must have touched your konji through the internet. I'm sure yours has been made defunct by too much porn as well.

pocohantas:

Idris Elba is a hunk!
How many of such do we have in Nigeria? Yet we don't see women using looks as an excuse to cheat, maybe other excuses but not looks.

She should get a very big dil.do. Something that would fill up all the spaces her husband couldn't.
It's better than nothing.
Can't you see he's hurting his wife with his useless ego?
Can a woman do this and get away with it? Ordinary 9mths pregnancy, we see them opening thread, asking how they'll cope. Then their kinds arrive with the side-chick advice.

Catalin:
Men love sex, for you husband to suddenly lose interest in having sex with you means that he might be cheating.

You need to confirm if your husband is cheating.

davidif:


See mentality! Always blaming the victim. When is it ever the mans fault?

What of when men stop measuring up to standard like getting fat and developing pot belly? What of when they stop supporting there wives emotionally and financially?

maxwelloweezy:
My sister my advice for you is to go for deliverance go and see your pastor and seek the face GOD and it shall well with your marriage.

davidif:


How about none of the above?

The problem with people like you who have an overtly simplistic view of the world[sub][/sub] is that you people tend to generalize and think that most nem follow the same pattern of behavior and if they don't then they must be doing something wrong.
How about he is not cheating, watching porn or gay? Have you ever thought about that before? Or what if he doesn't have a high sex drive like the men you have had the opportunity to come across in your life?
Contrary to what you've heard or your thought process, not every guy is the same. Some guys love intimacy while some others are not as crazy about it-believe me, there are lots of guys like this, they probably don't go about broadcasting it to the world.

miredia:
This is a new one. A low sex drive is a legitimate argument but 10 times in 5 years is nothing short of an anomaly.

FortuneTeller:


I must have touched your konji through the internet. I'm sure yours has been made defunct by too much porn as well.

CallmePROF:
Be patient and try to reach out more to him...check yourself maybe something is wrong at your side!. As for d idea of cheating on him, I don't think that's the best thing to do.... you can self service yourself, u can use Love Machine and other intimacy gadgets to satisfy yourself till both of you will resolve the issue. You don't have to cheat at all, don't even think of it. Remember your vows "I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part". May the Almighty grant you knowledge to resolve the issue.

pocohantas:
Sadly, this is what some Nigerian women go through. When they complain, people accuse them of being fat or tell them to focus on their kids.
I can count the Nigerian men that are actually that good-looking physically, yet they still demand the sex as their right it is na. No one has asked them to go and work-out.

*You can keep convincing him to see a therapist.
*Get a sex machine, only you can work that vagina like you want. You'll be amazed at how he'll become invisible after you achieve just one orgasm from a sculptured dil.do.

Sike:
You are not attractive to your husband anymore. Period!

LordIsaac:
It has nothing to do with love...she is too demanding on bed. You see, run away from women with insatiable sexual appetites. Life is not for sex alone. Concentrate your time on evangelism, he will come around!