Check his finances! Is he struggling to cater for family expenses? Do u support him in this regard? Such life challenges can affect a man's libido n overall sexual urge.

You deserve a medal for that comment, these women want to kill someone with expenses and still expect u to be a porn star on bed. Mtcheewww

Lies...all lies.

You remained a virgin at 25 and then married him. Now that you have married him, you are tempted to cheat because you are often "in dire need of " sexz"

You are a liar.

Well, in case it's true, let your family doctor give you medicines to be putting in his drinks and meals, medicines like aphrodisiac. Just saying o.

pedrilo:
Check his finances! Is he struggling to cater for family expenses? Do u support him in this regard? Such life challenges can affect a man's libido n overall sexual urge.

gbam....for some men, no money no sex and thats right.

Ene33:
Call me, 08058509969

buygala:
There are two possibilities here:

He just developed the sex issues recently and is yet to come to terms with that fact..

Or

He has always had those sex inadequacies. ..but he arranged himself with some sex enhancers in the early stages of the marriage, because he wanted to take your virginity like a boss, and enjoy the tight ermmmm...ermmm while the tightness lasted

And there is the possibility that having used all those burantashi on you, and kids having been produced and your vagina having expanded significantly, he no longer sees any reason to continue risking his overall health just to satisfy you ... in any case, he may think since he married you a virgin, you wouldn't know any better and will see his 2-minute sex stunts or no stunt except kids are needed as normal for married peeps

My advice:

Please cheat on him so that your sanity can be maintained .... being starved of sex is worse than being starved of food...it messes up the mind in a million ways... ..... and no, hoping and praying won't help you ... You have to take the bull by the horn and help yourself ...at your age, your sex hormones are still pretty strong. ..it would be courting disaster to unreasonably resist them.

Ignore him, get some good sex outside since he doesn't even want to acknowledge there is a problem with his abuna, much less take steps towards solving the problem and fulfilling his conjugal duty towards you

And no..getting some good sex outside won't make you a worse mum...as for being a worse wife to your hubby, he deserves it anyway....but if You can help it, still be a good wife ...but please find a way to cheat incognito. ..many are doing it and still have functional families who have no idea of what is going on

Modified. ..

I just woke up.this morning to this thread on Frontpage and a lot of mentions by mostly male folk...

You are entitled to your opinion just like I am entitled to mine ....Yes i am very young and unmarried, but I have a girlfriend who I have been with for a long time. ..a time longer than the duration of some so-called 'marriages' ...And the fact that our sex life is pretty solid has in no small way helped the relationship...of course there are times when either of us may not be in the mood for any action, leaving the other high and dry. ..but those kinda times are very few and far in between each other, and are very satisfactorily compensated for sooner

Op's husband doesn't even want to take steps to solve his problem, and all you self-righteous men be rooting for him and advising the lady to do this and do that all so she can ride her husband's Peniss ...if the man even did as little as acknowledging the problem, my advice would have been totally different. ...but here he is trying to force the op onto a state of sexual nowhere and all you dudes are saying she should talk to this person or that, do this or that, and generally stand by her husband and bear the brunt of his condition of unreasonable pride and stupidity .....

This life isn't always about what is 'right' or 'moral' .....the man has chosen to leave poor op sexually stranded, riding his high horse of pride and impotence aloofly....Speaking a lot of grammer to whoever, becoming a stripper for husby, praying 69 times a day, begging for a dick that's supposed to be hers when and however she wants, is not only unfair to the woman, but reeks of masculine hypocrisy....as if if it's the husband being denied of the puna unreasonably, he will be so nice as to take most of the steps as prescribed by the self-righteous people who mentioned me

In any case, it's Op's life...it's doesn't matter if you all agree with me or not...Op, having seen the multitude of advice given her here, is totally free to adopt the one her mind has privately been leaning towards already

Well said bro....nobody has said it better. I don't support cheating but in this situation, it's either cheating or divorce anyone that the op can bring her mind to....cos they both take a lot of guts and are both against God's will for marriage....yet who are we to judge or really understand a person's pain unless we are passing through same.

gracetie:
I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. We have two kids together. our sex life was perfect until after our first baby. My husband doesnt touch me anymore. I always have to initiate sex each time im in dare need of it. He has the problem of weak erection and premature ejaculation too.on one occasion I mentioned to him that we really need to see a doctor he said "are you now saying im not a man again"

I said "'no babe you are a man but in the last 6months we've had sex only once and you didnt last up to a minute, there s no need to blame anyone lets just see a doctor. He cut out the idea and we have been staying like that. I give him good and healthy meals. I dress sexy in the house. I doubt if he s cheating cos i have access to his phone and we are always together. he doesnt keep late nights and doesnts answer starnge calls. I think its a health issue but his ego wont allow him sort out issues.

I have reminded him many times that i am only 25 and he married me a virgin. How can i proudly say that in 5 years of married we have had sex not more than 10 times and lucky two of the times resulted in pregnancies. Please advice on what I should do. I am soo tempted to cheat and satisfy myself. But I love my husband. I wish our sex life can go back to what it used to be.

op in case you made up your mind to cheat, don't forget to call on me, I bet you, you must surely give testimony!

gracetie:
I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. We have two kids together. our sex life was perfect until after our first baby. My husband doesnt touch me anymore. I always have to initiate sex each time im in dare need of it. He has the problem of weak erection and premature ejaculation too.on one occasion I mentioned to him that we really need to see a doctor he said "are you now saying im not a man again"

I said "'no babe you are a man but in the last 6months we've had sex only once and you didnt last up to a minute, there s no need to blame anyone lets just see a doctor. He cut out the idea and we have been staying like that. I give him good and healthy meals. I dress sexy in the house. I doubt if he s cheating cos i have access to his phone and we are always together. he doesnt keep late nights and doesnts answer starnge calls. I think its a health issue but his ego wont allow him sort out issues.

I have reminded him many times that i am only 25 and he married me a virgin. How can i proudly say that in 5 years of married we have had sex not more than 10 times and lucky two of the times resulted in pregnancies. Please advice on what I should do. I am soo tempted to cheat and satisfy myself. But I love my husband. I wish our sex life can go back to what it used to be.

bloody liar! I believe you cooked-up the whole story. No Nigerian/African woman will ever voice out on issues like this, Not even under anonymity.

Nigerian/African women don't have issues with sexxx, because a large percentage of them have been genitally mutilated at childhood to suppress sexual urges/satisfaction/enjoyment. so sex means nothing to them as majority of them are like log of woods on bed.

So what the heck are you talking about? I suspect you are even a male disguising as a Female on NL. Pls look for a realistic story to tell next time.

Holla at me via obontami1@gmail.com. I can be helping your husband to do the work he refuses to do.

I beg U pls, U are still young and dont do anything that will ruin your family and am very much sure ur husband is not having extra-marital affairs out there. Have U ask him IF U'V OFFENDED HIM ? lets talk more on 07061312040 am sure everything is gonna b solve within a week or 2 trust GOD for that

obontami:
Holla at me via obontami1@gmail.com. I can be helping your husband to do the work he refuses to do.

NOCHILL

sexymoma:
try watching some kamasutra with him
my sister jos download some in your phone.

Please what downlaod site is sure to download this kamasutra movie?

Cc: others

Memepics:
NOCHILL

Oga, no time Ooooo. Sabi na him no sabi fccck.

gracetie:
I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. We have two kids together. our sex life was perfect until after our first baby. My husband doesnt touch me anymore. I always have to initiate sex each time im in dare need of it. He has the problem of weak erection and premature ejaculation too.on one occasion I mentioned to him that we really need to see a doctor he said "are you now saying im not a man again"

I said "'no babe you are a man but in the last 6months we've had sex only once and you didnt last up to a minute, there s no need to blame anyone lets just see a doctor. He cut out the idea and we have been staying like that. I give him good and healthy meals. I dress sexy in the house. I doubt if he s cheating cos i have access to his phone and we are always together. he doesnt keep late nights and doesnts answer starnge calls. I think its a health issue but his ego wont allow him sort out issues.

I have reminded him many times that i am only 25 and he married me a virgin. How can i proudly say that in 5 years of married we have had sex not more than 10 times and lucky two of the times resulted in pregnancies. Please advice on what I should do. I am soo tempted to cheat and satisfy myself. But I love my husband. I wish our sex life can go back to what it used to be.

I thought you can not miss what you haven't experience, you still young and do not know the consequences what you trying to indulge yourself in. Extra marital affair in Nigeria, be ready to go back to your father's house. The painful thing about extra-marital affairs when it involves a woman is the guy you cheating with will not accept you because you already married neither will your husband accept you back. Be wise

sexymoma:
try watching some kamasutra with him
my sister jos download some in your phone, since you guys do stay together most times...
tell him some sexy words even before night comes
like.. babe my nipples itches , my boobs looks fairer than my face
u go hear "let me see"

You have joined bahd gang. So you have been the one feeding my wife with those fantasies? Let her come back today, her case shall be different.

He is a good man then

madam don't listen to some of the bad advise that they have issue out here,e.g cheat on him, get the self satisfaction etc. sincerely,there is no reason why you should be treated that way according to your story. My advise to you is to persuade him,to know what actually went wrong neithermedically or your attitude. Just talk to him first,if he doesnt change,start praying about it and hope that things we get better. Wish you uneding marriage life

pedrilo:
Check his finances! Is he struggling to cater for family expenses? Do u support him in this regard? Such life challenges can affect a man's libido n overall sexual urge.

dis is d most reasonable reply here, I use to see mysef as a sexual god, but sinve my finances nosedived, I don't av any interest in women or sex as much as I use to...

she can't be expecting sex from her man wen she probably leave him to fend for d family without giving any support... most women tink d only support de can render is advise n s3x...

to d op: does he av rent to pay? av d kids began school? how do u rate his finances since he got married to u? has he improved? I remember a quote from spartacus "I will stroke ur cock n watch it rise just as our finances"

Drdreyy:


bloody liar! I believe you cooked-up the whole story. No Nigerian/African woman will ever voice out on issues like this, Not even under anonymity.

Nigerian/African women don't have issues with sexxx, because a large percentage of them have been genitally mutilated at childhood to suppress sexual urges/satisfaction/enjoyment. so sex means nothing to them as majority of them are like log of woods on bed.

So what the heck are you talking about? I suspect you are even a male disguising as a Female on NL. Pls look for a realistic story to tell next time.

Your comment is ignorant filled. That women don't want sex is a myth men tell themselves to massage the ego. Prostitutes are women and they wants sex albeit for money. Women don't talk about sex because many are afraid of being labelled a slut. Ever wonder why lesbianism is on the increase, the sell of sex objects and enhancers, male di.ldo and the likes. Women are getting enlightened and can't take any below average performance from men. Men should get their sh!t together.

Research well before commenting.

sexymoma:
try watching some kamasutra with him
my sister jos download some in your phone, since you guys do stay together most times
relax on his chest then jos play it... if he says "what is this" tell him you are learning some skills
he s your hubby not a stranger... act anyhow.

tell him some sexy words even before night comes
like.. babe my nipples itches , my boobs looks fairer than my face
u go hear "let me see"

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Henrypraise:


dis is d most reasonable reply here, I use to see mysef as a sexual god, but sinve my finances nosedived, I don't av any interest in women or sex as much as I use to...

she can't be expecting sex from her man wen she probably leave him to fend for d family without giving any support... most women tink d only support de can render is advise n s3x...

to d op: does he av rent to pay? av d kids began school? how do u rate his finances since he got married to u? has he improved? I remember a quote from spartacus "I will stroke ur cock n watch it rise just as our finances"

The only two work men has is to make money and have sex but they are here whining like sissies.
Women tends to the home, bear children and have sex too. Men, you've got only two work and if one didn't work out you won't do the other. What sort of men are you? Kai!!
Most women do all the other three and still work to support the horse band and this whiny " boys" won't stop complaining.

So shameful.

Rosella1:
Ahhhhhan

OMG, FTC! I karrnor shout. God bless the perzon dah shift this post to the land of the Promize.

I Solemly Dedicate this FTC of Mine to God Almighty, My Choco Pop, My Padi Madcow1 (Yes, I made it)

And to lalasticlala, thank you (He stood me up on our first date)

"BELLEROSE ÉTAIT ICI"

MTCHEWWWWWW so how much you don get from being first to comment

End time husband, very foolish and loosing and missing so much. Let the foolish husband repent and start to do the right thing and love his beautiful and precious wife or jewel

TheArchangel:
The only two work men has is to make money and have sex but they are here whining like sissies.
Women tends to the home, bear children and have sex too. Men, you've got only two work and if one didn't work out you won't do the other. What sort of men are you? Kai!!
Most women do all the other three and still work to support the horse band and this whiny " boys" won't stop complaining.

So shameful.

wow, very very intelligent u, keep up wit dis attitude n talk n ur husband may av sex wit u only wen its Christmas eve..

Another disadvantage of marrying without fhucking during courtship.

A lot of people have reproductive issues.

Gat no advice for the Op.

If I am gonna give a fhuck, then we would prolly have to fhuck.

i would like to help. If ur really interested. 07037727894

Agozie48:



MTCHEWWWWWW so how much you don get from being first to comment

I hope this long hissing of yours has added more success to your future!

daewoorazer:
Before I say anything


Upload ur picture before wedding and after Giving birth

Forget about dressing sexy

Are u Now fat?
Do u have stretch marks now?
Do u wear perfume as a sisi but have stopped?
What has changed?

That's that on your part


Talk to him about his condition and ask his permission about buying him pills that increase libido and strength in men.

Thank me larer

#zanga

I don't think the problem is on attraction. If she's sexy or not. Because if it was that, the man will be cheating on her but the thing is he can't achieve it and is not interested. so its not the woman's fault. even if it were why will the man refuse medical counselling where the woman would hv gotten advice on how to prop up her body.

So its the man's impotence as a result of health and his pride that's the problem. His pride is making him much more impotent than his health.

Catalin:
Men love sex, for you husband to suddenly lose interest in having sex with you means that he might be cheating.

You need to confirm if your husband is cheating.

Not cheating. A cheating man will occasionally go under the sheets wt the wife. its health problem

LastProphet:


women don't like sex zombie? remind us who is begging for sex here? u hopeless ladies that think all men are like the beer parlour moroom you know on ur street. am a man and i hate sex more than most of the girls i have met, and i have friends like me plenty, so what the crap are you saying

Edakun easy with the lie.

Pls , Inform your pastor

newdawn2017:
ve said it all my dear. I ve stayed without sex 4 2yrs & 6mnths; so I well knw what it means as one would't be able 2 think straight anymore.

Chisos! ...u try o! I have seen sex starved married women before meehn! N they are d synonym to desperation.....as an unmarried man with a hot physique I get looks all d time....d sad part is some even confess n lemme know how they feel....there is nothing I want that these women won't give me without askin! I end up running away before d pressure becomes too much!
I silently always curse their husbands for treating em this way......
Even as am talking to u now....I have two matured women 30-40yrs on my neck! All I need is just to say yes.....they have been so sex starved, they look gaunt with haunted eyes!
I just weak for hia!

Catalin:
Edakun easy with the lie.

you are lucky, you will learn