iamloyalty:

Na lie.

CorGier:


Deep down y'all know yourselfs.
Even dat skinny lagos boi Whizkid, if him invite you over for a night; his whole crib - kitchen, wardrobe, bathroom, etc wud be sparkling clean by morning. Everything you do and don't do for your bf, you gon be willingly to do them all for him ×10 dat night.
Was it not on NL front-page some days back I came across a vid of some 9ja girl begging and pleading (thread said she was crying, i think) with ordinary Yung6ix to let her spend "just one night" with him?

All girls would willingly do every every for/with the right guy, dats a fact.

iamloyalty:


NA lie so please dont get a heart attack. Gudnite!

Ginaz:
This is so true, he has not married you yet you are washing boxers and cleaning his back of pot. What na kwanu? Did he tell you he can't do them?

He has not married you, you go and stay in his house for 4 months? Haba? Are you his property?

Girls need to wise up o, it's stupidity. When I go to my bf house, I will only do house chores cos I want to out of my own initiative not cos it is my duty as a woman. And there will be house chores I won't do for him, like washing his own boxers and clothes. He is not a kid, he should be responsible enough to cater for that without needing my assistance.

Kwanu! Call me lazy I don't care. When I am legally your wife I would do my wify duties but I ain't wasting my time doing wify duties on someone that might later not marry me.

Love your boyfriend but don't idolize him. Simple.

Joiceee:
fyn dear. N urs?

valicious1:

You mumu o

RedCard88:
am kool my dear. I hv bin looking at ur profile pic & its wow slim fit

Ginaz:


Happy Sunday, I would have added "dear" to my sentence but I read a thread about innocent things people do that leads to illicit sex. And it was said calling someone sweet names like "dear and sweetheart leads to stuff like that.

So happy Sunday is enough abi?

Ginaz:
This is so true, he has not married you yet you are washing boxers and cleaning his back of pot. What na kwanu? Did he tell you he can't do them?

He has not married you, you go and stay in his house for 4 months? Haba? Are you his property?

Girls need to wise up o, it's stupidity. When I go to my bf house, I will only do house chores cos I want to out of my own initiative not cos it is my duty as a woman. And there will be house chores I won't do for him, like washing his own boxers and clothes. He is not a kid, he should be responsible enough to cater for that without needing my assistance.

Kwanu! Call me lazy I don't care. When I am legally your wife I would do my wify duties but I ain't wasting my time doing wify duties on someone that might later not marry me.

Love your boyfriend but don't idolize him. Simple.

valicious1:

see guy nobe 4 my thread u go de yarn dis kain nonsense with babe.

dingbang:
there is something called character, its innate, no matter d situation one finds himself, they just exhibit it..


I help my babe wash her clothes or iron or even cook when she is not having d energy.. Have I married her yet? No... Look anyone who is lazy is lazy, anyone who is dirty is dirty...

Ginaz:


Same thing I am saying na, you helped her out of your initiative not that she left it for you like it's your responsibility to do wash or cook for her.

RedCard88:
am kool my dear. I hv bin looking at ur profile pic & its wow slim fit

RedCard88:
guy wetin b ur own now. Y u wan use ur blues spoil my regee. Abeg allow my ministry move. Forward jo r.

PabloOmoEscobar:
carry your sermon go joke section

Gofwane:
buahahahaha... Bahd guy. See how you just rubbished d girl's comment

bbmpin:
No comment!

AngelSweetLips:


You have something to say on most things #crap

So abeg indulge me, what's your view on this matter... I'll even add a "Please"

bbmpin:

@Highlighted "Subtle shade"

To "idolize" your boyfriend isn't wrong ……… but because he is not your husband certain things are restricted

You can't be his mum(that's self explanatory)

Your life shouldn't be built around his (be your own woman)

Give him love but your commitment emotionally should be "measured" not enough to make your love for him questionable/unreal

But enough to keep you in control of your feelings, That way when he "violates your expectations" you will be strong enough to walk away #Good old crap

AngelSweetLips:


Lol no it wasn't subtle shade

So what you're saying is during the dating phase people shouldn't give their all in case it doesn't lead to marriage?

My question is if you hold back then how is one going to make a fair judgment on whether or not you are the right person for them to marry?

I don't see any huge difference between dating and marriage other than the logistics. People don't change because they are married but they marry to solidify what they already have.

"Mental Entrapment"

There is an appropriate level for everything in life

This is how it works.... you love him under "moderation" initially

You only "invest" as much as he "invests emotionally" in the relationship

The "older" the relationship gets the stronger your love for eachother grows

You gradually reduce the "moderations"

Like a Mother to her child you "let go gradually" the more disciplined the "system" gets.

valicious1:
Use ur tongue count ur teeth

Ginaz:
This is so true, he has not married you yet you are washing boxers and cleaning his back of pot. What na kwanu? Did he tell you he can't do them?

He has not married you, you go and stay in his house for 4 months? Haba? Are you his property?

Girls need to wise up o, it's stupidity. When I go to my bf house, I will only do house chores cos I want to out of my own initiative not cos it is my duty as a woman. And there will be house chores I won't do for him, like washing his own boxers and clothes. He is not a kid, he should be responsible enough to cater for that without needing my assistance.

Kwanu! Call me lazy I don't care. When I am legally your wife I would do my wify duties but I ain't wasting my time doing wify duties on someone that might later not marry me.

Love your boyfriend but don't idolize him. Simple.

Catalin:
So this is why you brought us here?

bbmpin:
"Mental Entrapment"

There is an appropriate level for everything in life

This is how it works.... you love him under "moderation" initially

You only "invest" as much as he "invests emotionally" in the relationship

The "older" the relationship gets the stronger your love for eachother grows

You gradually reduce the "moderations"

Like a Mother to her child you "let go gradually" the more disciplined the "system" gets.

QueenSuccubus:




Warrisdis?