I doubt your maturity to handle marriage . She told you in love and truth that she is astmatic but you inform your uncle . Must your uncle be infomr

She was sincere to you but he return you informed your uncle . That to me is a sign of immaturity . must u inform uncle ? Hope your uncle willl not dictate when to have sex with her after the wedding ? Already you sold her cheap to your family members .Your partner illness is not for general consumption.

Bluezy13:

My brother, I wonder why these days, girls to get that thing called ulcer! 2016, first girl wey I try ask out...ulcer! second girl wey come be my neighbour friend...ulcer! The last one wey I come try hook up weda things go work out small...Ulcer!
The thing tire me!

Bluezy13:


My brother, I wonder why these days, girls to get that thing called ulcer!
2016, first girl wey I try ask out...ulcer!
second girl wey come be my neighbour friend...ulcer!
The last one wey I come try hook up weda things go work out small...Ulcer!

The thing tire me!

E com be like say na watin dey reign o. All of them wan be model at the end having anorexia

gbaskiboy:
Good evening Nairaland friends. Trust you all have a splendid weekend. I have issues going through my mind and I have been having nightmares.
This is the problem:
I met a lady early last year, we both fell in Love and I have agreed to walk her down the aisle as soon as pepper rest(money) . But the problem with her is that she's Asthmatic(not a chronic type) and she told the first time we met. I called my uncle recently to discuss my relationship status with the lady and he asked me if I noticed anything in her. I told him plainly that the lady is asthmatic but not a chronic type. My uncle relates all the sermon on the earth to dissuade me from going ahead with the lady and he was so serious. Am scare of how to tell this young innocent lady about my uncle stand, I've grown lean. Please I need advises on what to do? Has anyone been in this kind of situation? What should I do? Please I need help from here...........

Dude, first of all I don't even believe you love this girl cos if you do you won't come to nairaland and write something like this. If you know what love is
Secondly asthma is curable, plus it doesn't always last forever so y all the fuss. I don't even understand what your uncle us doing in the gist, he seems mean and illiterate. Well I rest my case. All the "don't give a Bleep" crew, Abeg where una dey

Advisers run no risk, my brother...
B4 i can give u advice i mush hav being in ur shoe, ur family matters, ur kids everything is just abt future...what you think about her will determined even if u married her now, out of blind love, won't u complain, abuse her cos of conditions, beat her, make her feel lonely later in d marriage.
Decide on your own, is better you love with her flaw till d end o. And u know men changes often. So think twice. Ur uncle might even end being d one making jest of you.... But if ur decision is right and u dint quit loving her, all will work well

littlewonders:
There's nothing bad. But personally I'll would have left the very first day i knew(my love get medical eye) cos I won't have such energy to manage it.

There's this seraphic lady I one time opted to settle down with, tho the relationship was on a nursery stage, I somehow found my way into her fear, telling me she had ulcer, suffering from asthma, with minimal bladder dysfunction. I smiled and pretended like it was nothing afterall, is a common thing ( within me, i was kind of discouraged already).

Ever since then, whenever I imagine sex with her in the picture, my cassave shrinks. I started avoiding her o... Marriage na future program while wedding na present tense. So am trying to avoid future complications which we don't pray for.

These days, there're lot of ladies out there, roaming around with complicating issues developed as a result of displaying youth exuberance, some with [b]weak foetus caused from several ab*rtion section.
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Marriage truly no easy!

My brother deep down, the answer lies with you.

We won't tell you the taste of campari

nice one bro... But I don't understand that statement in bold o

@OP Asthma shouldnt be a reason for you not to marry her especially when it's mild..

Omonoba1:
nice one bro... But I don't understand that statement in bold o

Some ladies have undergone lots of abortion making the womb not able to keep a child throughout gestation period, either miscarriage or unable to bear children.

Because of love for luxury and beauty these days girls are becoming slaves to different private sickness.

samtol4:
She was sincere to you but he return you informed your uncle . That to me is a sign of immaturity . must u inform uncle ? Hope your uncle willl not dictate when to have sex with her after the wedding ? Already you sold her cheap to your family members .Your partner illness is not for general consumption.

Thanks, bro I appreciate your candid opinion.

littlewonders:


Some ladies have undergone lots of abortion making the womb not able to keep a child throughout gestation period, either miscarriage or unable to bear children.

Because of love for luxury and beauty these days girls are becoming slaves to different private sickness.

kk thanks..but you should have written uterus not foetus as they both mean different things..

Asthma is a very manageable illness. I AM ASTHMATIC, I AM MARRIED WITH CHILDREN, I DELIVERED THEM NORMALLY WITHOUT COMPLICATIONS AND NO SPECIAL PROVISION WAS MADE. ASTHMATIC PATIENTS DONT GET ATTACKS WHEN PREGNANT. MY HUSBAND TAKES CARE OF ME, HE LOVES ME EVEN WITH THE ASTHMA. I LIVE A VERY NORMAL LIFE. IF I DONT TELL YOU, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW.

INITIALLY, WHEN WE GOT MARRIED, WE DIVIDED HOUSE CHORES, I ARRANGE THE HOUSE, SITTING ROOM, BEDROOMS, I DO DISHES WHILE HE BRUSHES THE RUG BECAUSE OF DUST, HE LIKES FRIED BEANS SO I BOIL IT WHEN ITS TIME TO FRY THE OIL HE DOES IT, WE AVOIDED ANYTHING THAT MIGHT UPSET ME. but today its improved, I do all the above mentioned chores now, I hardly use an inhaler, I haven't used one in over 5 months. Goodluck to you two

Omonoba1:
kk thanks..but you should have written uterus not foetus as they both mean different things..

I'll go back to school tomorrow morning. thanks

Been asthmatic is not enough reason to leave her. If she truly loves you and she respects you ,she is very loyal to you ,she doesn't cheat on you .then my brother go ahead and marry .I have seen people who are ashmatic and they still living today . some are 65 years and above

Omonoba1:
@OP Asthma shouldnt be a reason for you not to marry her especially when it's mild..

Thanks bro, I appreciate your concern

wendypenny:
Asthma is a very manageable illness. I AM ASTHMATIC, I AM MARRIED WITH CHILDREN, I DELIVERED THEM NORMALLY WITHOUT COMPLICATIONS AND NO SPECIAL PROVISION WAS MADE. ASTHMATIC PATIENTS DONT GET ATTACKS WHEN PREGNANT. MY HUSBAND TAKES CARE OF ME, HE LOVES ME EVEN WITH THE ASTHMA. I LIVE A VERY NORMAL LIFE. IF I DONT TELL YOU, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW.

INITIALLY, WHEN WE GOT MARRIED, WE DIVIDED HOUSE CHORES, I ARRANGE THE HOUSE, SITTING ROOM, BEDROOMS, I DO DISHES WHILE HE BRUSHES THE RUG BECAUSE OF DUST, HE LIKES FRIED BEANS SO I BOIL IT WHEN ITS TIME TO FRY THE OIL HE DOES IT, WE AVOIDED ANYTHING THAT MIGHT UPSET ME. but today its improved, I do all the above mentioned chores now, I hardly use an inhaler, I haven't used one in over 5 months. Goodluck to you two

Thanks for sharing this inspiring experience, am motivated and encouraged. Thanks again

wendypenny:
Asthma is a very manageable illness. I AM ASTHMATIC, I AM MARRIED WITH CHILDREN, I DELIVERED THEM NORMALLY WITHOUT COMPLICATIONS AND NO SPECIAL PROVISION WAS MADE. ASTHMATIC PATIENTS DONT GET ATTACKS WHEN PREGNANT. MY HUSBAND TAKES CARE OF ME, HE LOVES ME EVEN WITH THE ASTHMA. I LIVE A VERY NORMAL LIFE. IF I DONT TELL YOU, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW.

INITIALLY, WHEN WE GOT MARRIED, WE DIVIDED HOUSE CHORES, I ARRANGE THE HOUSE, SITTING ROOM, BEDROOMS, I DO DISHES WHILE HE BRUSHES THE RUG BECAUSE OF DUST, HE LIKES FRIED BEANS SO I BOIL IT WHEN ITS TIME TO FRY THE OIL HE DOES IT, WE AVOIDED ANYTHING THAT MIGHT UPSET ME. but today its improved, I do all the above mentioned chores now, I hardly use an inhaler, I haven't used one in over 5 months. Goodluck to you two

Thanks for this timely words coming out from you, am motivated, encouraged and inspired by you. May God bless your family more

Common asthma you dey shake, something that can be managed with ease and most times fades away naturally. Besides what's your guarantee you won't die before your asthmatic girlfriend. Wise up bro.

JeffreyJamez:
Common asthma

Asthma na common illness.