Lies and third parties

Hahah yes ooo ur right. She was acutally from the south western part of Nigeria.
Funny thing is if i tell her am vexed, she would say its cos she loves me thats why she insults me. and am like whats love gat to do with calling me mumu.
Anewaiz, like i said earlier, I dont blame her, I blame her parents and prolly her community.

I once liked a yoruba girl so much during my late teen and undergrad days because of her gentility, humility and meekness and actually categorised all yoruba girls to be alike in that sense...... That was in one of the Northern states. Now I recently (2yrs ago) moved to a yoruba dominated state and thought I was gonna meet several ladies like that but to my greatest surprise its totally d opposite. I'm not a man for stereotypes but I can safely say that MOST yoruba ladies can be very lousy, insultive (as u hav experienced) and uncouth. Seems d men enjoy them like that though.

Sexual indecency...

As a guy I'm extremely sexually decent so I expect same from my woman....many other things can be tolerated but if the number of guys in your life past or present goes beyond a certain limit....na wahala...and I hate to hear that phrase "it's in the past"

pcguru1:


I swear i have been meeting too many AS babes and all this bastard AA boys dey follow AS boys dey drag AA babes.

lol wat should a guy do.... Dat feeling wen u dont have to ask her genotype b4 asking her out

we dated about 16 months. Trust me its not a flaw that can be remedied. Didnt yiu read the part where I said i could be temperamental??
I dont wana have to hit a lady in ma life but she was making me see reasons to. Thats why i quietly walked away. i truly love and adore her, but I cant keep up with the Insults.

you don't get it, it can surly be amended if she truly cares. and you truly love her as well. very workable

Honesty it makes relationship to b Boring. I like it wen my babe can lie for Africa

hmmmn what about the ladies that insult.
I remember ma ex, we broke up some weeks ago due to the fact that she insults so much.
The F word and mad word are nothing to her.
She dishes them out to me carelessly.
I really loved up, but men when the insults were escalating, had to back out. funniest thing is that she really loves me as well, but she had grown up with that psyche already. She probably learnt that from her mum and dad cos even when i visited them, her mumc can talk carelessly for Africa.
I disdain Insult cos i can be very temperamental, so instead make i vex, its better i avoid the relationship.
Insult is a No No for me as well.

in other words, she hates a temperamental dude

megafone:
Are you MMM?

Well said everyone. But my is simple, don't be a broken girl! I can't tolerate a lady solely rely on me financially.

For me, you should want me almost as much as I want you...you can be reticent but not dishonestly holding back information...once you attempt to cheat, the deal is off!!!

Neenie:
I think you are a jealous type.

yeah, maybe I am or will be jealous. how do you want me to feel when people think that my girlfriend and the male bff are dating?
People expect them to the dating. in fact people think they should be dating..

Damfostopper:
not returning missed calls.... if I call you twice.... you don't return it if u did missed my call and you expect me to call back.... we r done... cos I won't call again till u return d calls even if ur dead

hahahaha

I Dont like a complainant. whatever you do don't complain about me to me all the time. it makes my brain snap and I get confused. just be cool. I don't like liars and invariably cheats. then please Dont fail to bath twice a day I hate any form of odour.

freecocoa

I hate dirty & nagging ladies .

I despise control freaks and petty liars plus mummy boys...

jaywhoco:
For me, you should want me almost as much as I want you...you can be reticent but not dishonestly holding back information...once you attempt to cheat, the deal is off!!!

hmmmmmm..... good one but i hope same applies to u cos u cant b hopping around and have this standard in ur relationship...lol

lies and cheat..... gosh..some guys can lie and cheat ..mostly the two work hand in hand...

tillaman:
Lies and third parties

I hate third parties too. A couple should b able to resolves issues instead of running to mummy to complain or daddy or friend...lolz

wizrose:
no giving U advice

ok sir

kuchikau1:
do u mind a Pm?

no

Toks2008:
Sexual indecency...

As a guy I'm extremely sexually decent so I expect same from my woman....many other things can be tolerated but if the number of guys in your life past or present goes beyond a certain limit....na wahala...and I hate to hear that phrase "it's in the past"

LOL.... Its in d past dear, old things have passed away, abi e no dey bible again? ...lolzzz Its best not to concern yoursrlf with past happenings as long as the person stays true to you.

Nma27:
Cheating and Arrogance

every lady hates cheating

ikp120:
I hate lies, insecurity, and violence, because I am a very gentle and easy going guy .

If you hit me I go respond instanta with 30% interest

Lols.. Broz, u b MMM?

Niyuu:
You do not insult me. You just don't.

hehehehehe.... but i dey take style yab oooo..... but in a nice way

Deceit and Pride... I hate them like mad

hmmmn what about the ladies that insult.
I remember ma ex, we broke up some weeks ago due to the fact that she insults so much.
The F word and mad word are nothing to her.
She dishes them out to me carelessly.
I really loved up, but men when the insults were escalating, had to back out. funniest thing is that she really loves me as well, but she had grown up with that psyche already. She probably learnt that from her mum and dad cos even when i visited them, her mumc can talk carelessly for Africa.
I disdain Insult cos i can be very temperamental, so instead make i vex, its better i avoid the relationship.
Insult is a No No for me as well.

d babe go don finish u wit insults over feeding

Kobicove:


Why do you people always assume that someone with a character flaw can be changed.

As far as I'm concerned it's better to just walk away...

What you 'see' during courtship is just about 10% of what you'll see after marriage so don't settle for less.

Guy, do you know what counselling is?...do you know what a heart-heart discussion entails?...see, change is always from the inside!...i've seen many people change from their old ways for good just because they were able to work it out together with their spouses...and the otherwise too...walking away as you've stated above should always be the last resort and that's if the person in question isn't ready to turn a new leaf...we all have flaws and as such, no one is a perfect being...just because someone is a "bad egg"today doesn't mean they'll live like that for the rest of their lives...someone that changes from bad to good can also change from good to bad...it's just from the inside+determination...and if the lady isn't ready to turn a new leaf, the guy should just walk away...shikena

pcguru1:


Actually it would be sexist for him not to hit you, so him hitting you is the non-sexist thing to go, this is what feminist told me on Reddit

Better try and ask for a lady's genotype codedly before entering any serious relationship cos that could b a deal breaker unless you still in ur teen and have no concern for such yrt

Nma27:
LOL.... Its in d past dear, old things have passed away, abi e no dey bible again? ...lolzzz Its best not to concern yoursrlf with past happenings as long as the person stays true to you.

Past my foot...when she dey do am she knew it was bad but still did it anyway...let her go back to the past or look for a guy who has had an equal reckless past.

I hate it when my woman have been scrwd by every Dike Stephen Adamu Kunle..... habba! dem dey collect medal?

Nma27:
Better try and ask for a lady's genotype codedly before entering any serious relationship cos that could b a deal breaker unless you still in ur teen and have no concern for such yrt

Lol not teen oh 31 it's why I need to know fast

adbokus:

life is simple. It's not a military engagement, but there are certain things that personally would not be tolerated. If you wanted that other guy, just say the word and we are through. We imbibe injurious lifestyle of the West forgetting that as Africans, certain things are just plain display of disloyality in a relationship...

Life is simple but we humans complicate it... I drummed this into a friend's ear but he chose not to understand d intricate meaning and complicated his life for a short while though.