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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Bnimz(m): 8:15pm On Jan 22, 2017
JacksonD7:
Dude don't post stuff like this without putting viewer's discretion. It's disgusting.
I was about to call the mods sef
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Lordspicy(m): 11:58pm On Jan 22, 2017
Fourwinds:
my Cerebelum no understand this ur grammar
I don die....
hahahaha

see you just made me laugh out in embryology class
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 4:15am On Jan 24, 2017
supereagle:
I have one, we have both stayed together for up to year plus,sleep on the same mattress ,but I refrained from touching her and she did not make any move either. She does the home cooking ,but no sex ooo, but we maintain body to body contact when we sleep. We can not avoid that. I even made a post about it earlier.

To add again, if you go to ESUT, you see that as a regular thing. Most of the hostel around Agbani it is a frequent thing.
do u have any control?
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jan 24, 2017
wandyvirus:
Stayed in same room with a girl for 3 years in OOU. Same bed too. Great friends still. In fact she's the only friend I trust. Every one believed I had a relationship with her. Funny thing is her extended family and her siblings have played very impacting roles at various times in my life. I'm currently very close to her cousin who is married to my paddy. Sometimes it's not about the sex. It's about the future.





bros na youuu oooooo
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jan 24, 2017
ElsonMorali:

Different bed same room, or different bedrooms?




same room.... different beds
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jan 24, 2017
JacksonD7:


Dude find a way to live with her without doing any stupid stuff, if you can't move out there's no need to mess your life up because of a couple minutes of fun.





yes Boss..... bug those couple of minutes can drive a man crazy


.ask anyone that has partaken in 30 seconds fisting and player before
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 4:25am On Jan 25, 2017
As a young girl myself who's not married yet, I can't and should not stay with a Man who's not my husband as a roommate. It's not wise, biblically it's very wrong. But if perhaps by circumstances you are staying with her, then remove your mind from sex, if you cannot remove your mind from sex, then go find somewhere else to stay. Mr Poster, you are not a kid, so you shouldn't come and find succor online to affirm your plans or none plans. You said she's your friend's sister and from your writeup, you are already bothered about what may arise. That's not a good sign.... Cohabitation is wrong and even if you have no intentions, the devil may use you or her. Be wise, except you know what you are doing

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by abbeyboy2o15(m): 4:29am On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:
As a young girl myself who's not married yet, I can't and should not stay with a Man who's not my husband as a roommate. It's not wise, biblically it's very wrong. But if perhaps by circumstances you are staying with her, then remove your mind from sex, if you cannot remove your mind from sex, then go find somewhere else to stay. Mr Poster, you are not a kid, so you shouldn't come and find succor online to affirm your plans or none plans. You said she's your friend's sister and from your writeup, you are already bothered about what may arise. That's not a good sign.... Cohabitation is wrong and even if you have no intentions, the devil may use you or her. Be wise, except you know what you are doing
The guy was just saying is mind in the aforementioned scenario.

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 4:38am On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

Couldn't see a future with her tho.... Had to take Extreme Measures ....
P.s: (D&C was not in the Equation)

You mean you couldn't see a future with her, but you said she got pregnant thrice
What happened to those innocent babies
They didn't have a future too!!!!
Oh God have mercy!
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 4:58am On Jan 25, 2017
ogtavia:
bro...the whole world doesn't see the sun at the same time...we all have different experiences and come from different backgrounds....what you think makes you a man might not be what another person thinks makes him a man....i have a mother and only sisters,the least respect I can give to my mother and my sisters is to respect them and every other woman who I come in contact with....it is how I have been trained...It isn't a big deal for me to do kitchen work,of course combined with office work, it is a bit difficult but anytime I can,i help out in the kitchen....i am not married yet but I do all my kitchen work myself...if I get married and I help my wife in the kitchen....i dont think it makes me less a man....i became less a man when I can't command the respect of my wife,when I cheat on her or hit her,when I don't take care of her needs -physically,materially,emotionally,mentally and sexually....i become less of a man when I can't guide her,become her closest friend,advice her,strive to make her a better person,i become less of a man when I don't strive to become a better person for her....i dont have to control or discipline my wife,....marriage isnt animal rearing, a military institution et cetera.....my brother....doin domestic work or cooking for my wife is the last thing that would make me less of a man....the lady in question is my guest....should I now die of hunger because she doesn't cook...??

Good riddance to bad rubbish.
People think that the ability to have self control makes you less of a man or woman when it comes to sex.
TThey don't know sex is not the ultimate. If you meet a girl and the only thing you think about is sex, then you are obviously not a man. Friendship will last the test of times and she will respect you more when you show maturity through self control.
When as a man, you don't and can't guide yourself from having sex with any woman just because you can't hold yourself, then sorry, one day your wife will travel and her sister will come and you will end up asking of sex from her.
It's a very harrowing and mundane mindset
My dear, don't give a hoot about what they think.
True men respect women
True men are not the one sleeping around and paying for abortions, killing innocent lives.. With bloodshed on their hands. Real men are the one's who know their boundaries...
Everything now is sex sex sex sex
Rubbish!!!!

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by ogtavia(m): 7:16am On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:


Good riddance to bad rubbish.
People think that the ability to have self control makes you less of a man or woman when it comes to sex.
TThey don't know sex is not the ultimate. If you meet a girl and the only thing you think about is sex, then you are obviously not a man. Friendship will last the test of times and she will respect you more when you show maturity through self control.
When as a man, you don't and can't guide yourself from having sex with any woman just because you can't hold yourself, then sorry, one day your wife will travel and her sister will come and you will end up asking of sex from her.
It's a very harrowing and mundane mindset
My dear, don't give a hoot about what they think.
True men respect women
True men are not the one sleeping around and paying for abortions, killing innocent lives.. With bloodshed on their hands. Real men are the one's who know their boundaries...
Everything now is sex sex sex sex
Rubbish!!!!

well said....but your personal text is a bit contradicting...but it's all good....it really doesn't have to be about sex...our society has lost all form of restrain and inhibition that a greater percentage of our day to day lives,experiences,perception and even goals revolve at worst around sex....
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 12:05pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:


You mean you couldn't see a future with her, but you said she got pregnant thrice
What happened to those innocent babies
They didn't have a future too!!!!
Oh God have mercy!
They weren't babies....jus mere blood
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:


Good riddance to bad rubbish.
People think that the ability to have self control makes you less of a man or woman when it comes to sex.
TThey don't know sex is not the ultimate. If you meet a girl and the only thing you think about is sex, then you are obviously not a man. Friendship will last the test of times and she will respect you more when you show maturity through self control.
When as a man, you don't and can't guide yourself from having sex with any woman just because you can't hold yourself, then sorry, one day your wife will travel and her sister will come and you will end up asking of sex from her.
It's a very harrowing and mundane mindset
My dear, don't give a hoot about what they think.
True men respect women
True men are not the one sleeping around and paying for abortions, killing innocent lives.. With bloodshed on their hands. Real men are the one's who know their boundaries...
Everything now is sex sex sex sex
Rubbish!!!!

Quit with all the self righteous sermon
last time i checked: Life's just a movie,filmed independently
People like you that condemn people like you a God barely make heaven.... Cus' this ain't preaching Good morals.. Only GOD can judge me and my actions i take...... True men/women my Asss undecided

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:24pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

They weren't babies....jus mere blood
Mere blood you say?
God save your soul......
Abortion is murderer and I'm not judging you, I'm just surprised you don't see it that way.
You don't see a future with a lady, don't get her pregnant.
The blood of those innocent ones is the life and they deserved to live and breath just as you are....
But I'm scared you see them as mere blood..
It's harrowing.. Piercing and blinding!!!

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:26pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:


Quit with all the self righteous sermon
last time i checked: Life's just a movie,filmed independently
People like you that condemn people like you a God barely make heaven.... Cus' this ain't preaching Good morals.. Only GOD can judge me and my actions i take...... True men/women my Asss undecided

If you weren't guilty of what I'm saying, you wouldn't take this personal
Peace....
I will keep praying for you
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:28pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

They weren't babies....jus mere blood

I don't hate you. On the contrary, I do love you.
Have w nice day
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:

Mere blood you say?
God save your soul......
Abortion is murderer and I'm not judging you, I'm just surprised you don't see it that way.
You don't see a future with a lady, don't get her pregnant.
The blood of those innocent ones is the life and they deserved to live and breath just as you are....
But I'm scared you see them as mere blood..
It's harrowing.. Piercing and blinding!!!
You can't call GOD whilst being an hypocrite ...it's conflicting!
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:32pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

You can't call GOD whilst being an hypocrite ...it's conflicting!
Ok. Good day
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 12:33pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:


If you weren't guilty of what I'm saying, you wouldn't take this personal
Peace....
I will keep praying for you
It's not personal....it's jus shear stupidity on your end
It was meant to be a fun fun &fun thread.. Comments like yours just didn't correlate
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:35pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

It's not personal....it's jus shear stupidity on your end
It was meant to be a fun fun &fun thread.. Comments like yours just didn't correlate
Whatever you say then.
It's a big world.
Enjoy
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:


I don't hate you. On the contrary, I do love you.
Have w nice day
You should never impose or cajole pple to emulate your lifestyle.....
I see a 1001 loopholes in your life from a mile away... Narcissism won't get you anywhere rather wil it make you feel more complacent undecided
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:

Whatever you say then.
It's a big world.
Enjoy
Apologies for my foul and vain contexts but all these happened back in 2012 when i was still in the university... So what makes you think it ws just yesterday... All that phase of my life has passed and I don't see my self putting someone else's daughter thru all dat at this stage .....
It's all good.....don't be too quick to judge pple if you don't know they whole story ,ya dig?....same applies to every story u read on here...they r all past events that we just had to reminisce about aii!!!!
So we good!?
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:48pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

You should never impose or cajole pple to emulate your lifestyle.....
I see a 1001 loopholes in your life from a mile away... Narcissism won't get you anywhere rather wil it make you feel more complacent undecided
Dear, I'm not cajouling anyone to emulate me, if it seemed that way, then I'm sorry. I respect it's a big world.
Have a nice day already and thanks for the words "harsh or cool"
Good day
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:48pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

Apologies for my foul and vain contexts but all these happened back in 2012 when i was still in the university... So what makes you think it ws just yesterday... All that phase of my life has passed and I don't see my self putting someone else's daughter thru all dat at this stage .....
It's all good.....don't be too quick to judge pple if you don't know they whole story ,ya dig?....same applies to every story u read on here...they r all past events that we just had to reminisce about aii!!!!
So we good!?
Good day then... Thx
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:

Dear, I'm not cajouling anyone to emulate me, if it seemed that way, then I'm sorry. I respect it's a big world.
Have a nice day already and thanks for the words "harsh or cool"
Good day
And on the contrary..... I had to look at your profile
you are not spiritually but sexually and intellectually endowed
You r flashing cleavage
Your nick missvirginluna is in huge contrast with all that plus the "holier art thou" traits
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 12:58pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

And on the contrary..... I had to look at your profile
you are not spiritually but sexually and intellectually endowed
You r flashing cleavage
Your nick missvirginluna is in huge contrast with all that plus the "holier art thou" traits
I never did say I was holier than thou. I just gave my opinion about abortion, but if you feel offended, then I think we are done here. And my nickname is coined out from my name Virginni Evi-Luna. That's my name!!!!

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 1:00pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:

I never did say I was holier than thou. I just gave my opinion about abortion, but if you feel offended, then I think we are done here. And my name is coined out from my name Virginni Evi-Luna. That's my name!!!!
End of discussion!!!!
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:

I never did say I was holier than thou. I just gave my opinion about abortion, but if you feel offended, then I think we are done here. And my name is coined out from my name Virginni Evi-Luna. That's my name!!!!
So all the condemnation was base on
Are you south african by the way!??
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:

End of discussion!!!!
Now you acting insecure.. undecided
Oh well..
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 1:02pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

So all the condemnation was base on
Are you south african by the way!??
I'm Nigerian and live in Nigeria

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MissVirginLuna(f): 1:03pm On Jan 25, 2017
Boj2:

Now you acting insecure.. undecided
Oh well..
Far from it.
I'm not insecure.
I just know when to stop!!!!!

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 25, 2017
MissVirginLuna:

I'm Nigerian and live in Nigeria
I figured!!
U pissed??

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