Ladies this is for you

Learn to listen to your boyfriend, don't be so stubborn, best believe he just wants what's best for you & is always looking out for you

Don't be childish and expect your man to always text you first, it is not written that guys are meant to text first , grow up and text him first too

Your man ain't obliged to cover for all your expenses, he isn't your ATM, appreciate money he spends on you, don't act like its his sole purpose

Don't expect your man to guess why you're upset, just tell him so yal can solve it, sometimes it isn't that evident for him to notice why.

Stop thinking your man is cheating, you gotta believe in him, if you can't trust your man then you shouldn't be with him in the first place

Sex is not a gift, your man can get that from you any day, get him something that he'll actually appreciate on his birthday/Valentine's.

Stop trying to befriend your man's friends, the sooner you understand that his friends are not your friends the longer your rship will last

You gotta show interest in what your man likes doing, as much as you don't want to watch the game with him, your company will be appreciated

Tell your man what you want & expect of him, it's as simple as that, things don't have to be complicated, just be straight forward

Be there even when your man ain't got money to take you out, chill home with him & learn to enjoy his company too, not just what he has

You can't expect your man to have time for you 24/7 365, he had a life before he met you so you gotta understand he has got things to do

Remind your man how much you love him and how handsome he is to you, every person needs to feel secure when it comes to their partner

Using the "no sex" card on your man as a punishment is immature, he can get sex anywhere, so no need to push him into proving he can do so

Make an effort to look good, exercise, eat/dress well, don't get too comfortable just coz you got him, show him why he should keep you too.

Don't forget to always say "Thank you" to your man for whatever he does for you, give him credit where its due, let him know he appreciated.

Be the girl your man would introduce his mum to, if you aint got "wife potential" best believe he just gonna be with you to pass the time

Things dont always have to be one sided, as much as your man wont ask you to spend on him, it wont hurt to take him out once for a change

Acting insecure ain't cute at all, that is going to push your man away, be confident - it's sexy, if he's your man there's no need to trip.

Be a freak for your man, ride him, please don't just lay there during sex. Don't be shy to try new things.

Discuss your problems btw the two of you, going to your friends & thinking they can solve your rship issues is childish & can kill your rship.

Lastly, respect your man. Don't try belittle him or make him feel any less of man, that's emotionally abusive. If you ain't happy then leave

I hope this makes sense.