Hv u heard abt shock absorber?
Dats wat u r to her.

creepsyme:
girls can decide to be sooo confused in oda to know how deeply a guy loves them..... at the end we loose at both ends, she wants to see who among u will decide to hung on a tree or take poison because of her and then settle for him. girls can be soooo stupid at timesss... help me God!

The only thing have been thinking

it seems like the ex likes her so much, and sure knows how to wind her like the hands of a wall clock,

@ igidaduro the solution is for these kind of women to get married, everybody go rest!


the question now is to whom? this is the headache!

but there is 70 - 99% probability that you will end up being her husband eventually, dont give up yet.

ikp120:

Thanks for the fvcking love

you're fvcing welcome

Op... how old are you?

igidaduro:
There are somethings i really don't understand.
A friend needs an advice. The story goes:-

I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@,

So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back
Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask.
Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month.
So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object.

Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me.

Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now

After reading this very long epistle of saint 0p to the Nairalandians, I have one quick question: Have you banged this lady before?? I have a reason for asking....

igidaduro:
There are somethings i really don't understand.
A friend needs an advice. The story goes:-

I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@,

So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back
Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask.
Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month.
So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object.

Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me.

Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now

you are the fool.very annoying fool.u made the innocent girl looks dirty ,meanwhile from your story u are obviously the fool.

Headlesschicken:
Let go of d confused gal,life x too confusing dis days,so y add more stress 2d burden,buh I guess 1of d reasons y she didn't wnt 2b wiv u was cos of yuh english nigga u slayed dt sh!t up dia...

We dey yarn palava u dey talk bout grammar. english na ur papa tongue? as long as d guy communicate abeg let him b. no disrespect, peace.

Op, you should go to jail amd o don't even wanna curse you for this stupid stuff you wrote in your first sentence!! What the fvck is "h@" you stewpid idi0t!!!

Women are the author of confusion not lucifer.... Ogbeni kindly give her a one night stand and move on... U peeps should stop confusing yaselfs...

igidaduro:

Lol thanks, but tolerance isn't in my dico

Guy move on abi wetin u sef expect from someone about to wed? make she leave her husband?.

Move on and reduce your contact with her. If she accuse you of changing, tell her if all your friends chat you the way she does you won't have time for yourself that anything beyond the normal friendship communication is a signal of something more than friendship and she needs to define it cos you don't understand. She might be confused let her sort herself out.

This is why its better not to accept their proposal of friendship. It's hardly ever platonic. At least someone will violate the platonic friendship code.

I pity the poor guy she's getting married to, provided he is not also playing games like she is.

I also had similar challenge: but handling it with diplomatic method. a times, like today; she called and asked me to tell her I love you, but I refused. And she became angry with me since then.

lodphil:
You should ve cut all contact with the chick when she went back to her ex.I mean delete her number from your phone,block her on whatsapp,give her a wide berth.Don't allow people that are confused to also sow confusion in your life.

dats very very immature... very childish

newyorks:
she njoys ur chattin skills and ur torelance.maybe u are good at polishin heartbroken ladies.

Title for people like this is EXTRA SPECIAL NICE GUY!

the problem with them is that the bada guys be gehin them gurls, they be languishing acting Councillor, ass bf, hoping that somehow, a lil crumb fall from them bada tables!

Jaydenjohnson:



dats very very immature... very childish

that was the best move! how can da boss turn a gate guy over night and u are advising him to accept his fate and do the gate guy ish? gee!!!??

You werent born a second fiddle! KNOW YOUR WORTH. aCT YOUR WORTH

This is something missing here which the op has not reveal

Joshjings:
She likes your joystick as nairaland will call it

baddest gal eva liveth

Oma307:
This is something missing here which the op has not reveal

Like?

Oh! Boi see insult i don suffer

OddJimms:
my brother, you need Jesus and 12 lashes of Koboko!!!!

lol

lodphil:
You should ve cut all contact with the chick when she went back to her ex.I mean delete her number from your phone,block her on whatsapp,give her a wide berth.Don't allow people that are confused to also sow confusion in your life.

Good idea real men talk

Bro get your own woman you are operating ' A CANOPY MINISTRY '

igidaduro:
There are somethings i really don't understand.
A friend needs an advice. The story goes:-

I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@,

So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back
Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask.
Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month.
So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object.

Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me.

Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now

u must be an arsenal fan....very patient

Don't pick her call or chat with her anymore.

Ok

lodphil:
You should ve cut all contact with the chick when she went back to her ex.I mean delete her number from your phone,block her on whatsapp,give her a wide berth. Don't allow people that are confused to also sow confusion in your life.

You have said it all.

ikp120:
Your guy dey turn her brain like DJ Crazy, but she no wan do kerewa with him because say she don marry. Is that hard to get?

***Changes gear***

Your nigga is in the god damn fvckless friend zone of a fvcking married lady mehn. Tell ya nigga to just see her as a nice assed friend who has no fvck for him, and just go get a fvcking girlfriend, because this one is both fvckless and married.

***Changes gear***

Igota go?

u studied fuckology?

run for life bro! mst of dis ladies ar naturally confused! that hw my ex disturbed me b4 n after her wedin! i had to warn her to keep off! n face her marriage!

igidaduro:
There are somethings i really don't understand.
A friend needs an advice. The story goes:-

I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@,

So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back
Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask.
Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month.
So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object.

Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me.

Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now

.
She is immature and insecure.
She will be an unfaithful partner.
Tell her the truth and stop pampering her.

igidaduro:
There are somethings i really don't understand.
A friend needs an advice. The story goes:-

I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@,

So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back
Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask.
Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month.
So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object.

Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me.

Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now

Abeg park well..no go put asunder for her marriage

igidaduro:
There are somethings i really don't understand.
A friend needs an advice. The story goes:-

I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@,

So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back
Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask.
Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month.
So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object.

Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me.

Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now

She enjoys your attention and a part of you likes the idea that she does.


Pls Starve her of the attention. If she complains you're drifting, tell her in affirmative that you're drifting.
Don't explain yourself. Don't allow her to explain her 'goodness'...

When she started advising you to get a woman, she's playing niceties so as to pacify your ego.

If she's truly getting married, then give her a wide space and a long distance. Steer clear.