Life4Varnity:


A lady did this to me after so many years.

And she still claim that she still loves me

I said OK no wahala, I am currently out of the country but when I come back to naija. I go fucck d hell out of her life

Those girls out there nt just loyal or truthful anymore
Most are how's

I am coming for her

Life4Varnity:


A lady did this to me after so many years.

And she still claim that she still loves me

I said OK no wahala, I am currently out of the country but when I come back to naija. I go fucck d hell out of her life

Those girls out there nt just loyal or truthful anymore
Most are how's

I am coming for her

hurricaneChris:
Guys dont forgive, even I he claims to have forgiven, run for ur useful life.


A babe cheated on me in the past. I loved her so much. And was very faithful to her. I was a student then studying architecture, she was my pride.

That Saturday I caught her red handed, she confessed how she has been doing it with the guy. I was shattered into pieces. I could not eat for days. Hatred filled my soul, I saw her as a wicked girl.

When I got out of the trauma, she and her friends kept begging, I told her I had forgiven her.
We continued. But deep inside me, I knew the relationship was over the day she confessed how she has been fvkcing the guy.

I decided to have a contingency plans. I started establishing relationship with one of my best friends in school. Thank God I was finishing in school.
The new lady and I were getting close everyday, while the former babe still felt we were dating.

After liking 8months I told her babe, am tired, cant continue this. I have a girl friend nw. She thought I I joking until I introduced her to d new girl. I was already an architect. She still cant believe it till today.

cybriz82:





hope u coming with alots of amoxil n syringe?

AntiWailer:
When you get caught and he claim he has forgiven you, be careful, he might be out to waste your years intentionally or unintentionally.

Guys hardly get over that incident.

He will just not allow you go immediately so the other guy will not be feeling like a winner.

My advice is "Once you get caught with hard evidence, MOVE ON immediately !"

If he caught you multiple times and he kept saying "No Problem" run for your life.

He is either a low life, you are a side chick or he is planning to use you for ritual.

Whatever it is, it is safer for you to run.

megareal:
If I cheat, don't forgive me. If you cheat, I won't forgive you. Just as a man cannot get the image of his wife with another man out of his head, so also a woman.

Mere imagining it is enough for any faithful partner to want to do murder.

I believe couples can be faithful. All it takes are hardcore decisions and principles.

Benita27:
Assumption you say.
What if i say have had a first hand experience of how a cheat's psyche works.

AntiWailer:
When you get caught and he claim he has forgiven you, be careful, he might be out to waste your years intentionally or unintentionally.

Guys hardly get over that incident.

He will just not allow you go immediately so the other guy will not be feeling like a winner.

My advice is "Once you get caught with hard evidence, MOVE ON immediately !"

If he caught you multiple times and he kept saying "No Problem" run for your life.

He is either a low life, you are a side chick or he is planning to use you for ritual.

Whatever it is, it is safer for you to run.

bamisepeters:
If you have a caring, understanding and a loving man i don't think you need to do anything to hurt his feelings.

Many women wonder why men find it difficult to forgive them when they are caught in extra marital relationship.

Despite the fact that it is assumed to be normal for men to be free donor and cheat, they(men) find it difficult to forgive their woman if reverse is the case let alone forgetting because they will always be demoralized anytime they remember what they caught the woman doing.

No matter how bad you may be sexually, your man still cherish it and cannot afford to see or hear you share that "bad" moment with another man let alone when you(woman) are perfect in bed.

In the case of rape when he even knows it is out of your control he still finds it difficult to get it out of his head.

... The way you moan or groan when you show love to each other, your moves in reaction to the good time, the way you kiss each other passionately and the romance...

I repeat, that special moments are indeed special to any man that truly loves you.

If you think... The good food you cook, the time you share together to talk or to play and even to argue or fight... are less important to him, the day you are caught in the act will define your unreserved significance in his entire life.

It takes an herculean task for a man to forgive his woman after catching her in the act.

A man who is not fully committed to the relationship will find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife let alone will the man that knows the worth of a good woman accept, forgive or forget a woman caught in the act.

Please don't play on your man's intelligence, he might be slow to anger but he is deadlier than snake if you are caught in the act.

It is very possible you are forgiven, however, it is advisable to be loyal.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/02/reasons-why-he-will-not-forgive-you.html

Toscoas2:

Gender equality will kill some women and families. Take men as men. Don't try what you cannot defend in d long-run, all because you want to be equal with men. What men can do and be proud of (taking wives) women are not allowed to try such. Though, I do not support cheating in relationship or marriage, but I am not a saint and I do try to resist evil thoughts sometime.

princesskimberl:
So not fair, . While d opposite sex cheats continuously.

kerryjossy:


I am a woman, and i am a saint right? Ok noted again.

Benita27:
I still repeat that you have no idea of my mental state, may have found someone cheating on me but holding on to that, i would be serving injustice to my own self.

It's a free world, you cheat...i use the exist door! No point holding on to the past, a well deserving person will always come in to fill the gap.

Toscoas2:

A well deserve man today may cheat tomorrow. does dt indicate u will change man continuously. pls consider d side effects after a child or 2 children

Benita27:
So you advice sticking with a cheating partner?.

God forbid!.

Toscoas2:

3 options
1. stay and let him change (or marry a devoted religionist);
2. leave and become a single mother;
3. leave and become a second wife ( as no man is ready to marry a woman with 2 children except for pass time)
look before u leap.
oko won lode (husband is scarce, bt men are plenty)

jst pray you don't fall a victim. or u see a man dt cheat occasionally like having a hidden 1, because u women are not helping matter.
imagine, a married woman telling a man dt she would care for him more than his wife.

Benita27:
I don't pray to end up with a cheating husband but, if i do...i won't hesitate to divorce him and remain single.

women and mouth!!!,, easier said than done, una clock wey dey tick like kilode


Abeg go Sidon

udeme4real:
Jesus even say, IF YOU LOVE ME, KEEP MY INSTRUCTIONS! God says AM A JEALOUS GOD. This topic is indeed timely for all to learn especially the ladies. No forgiveness if caught oooo dont be deceived!

Toscoas2:

I do not get your message, do you mean you cheat on him?

Benita27:
I don't pray to end up with a cheating husband but, if i do...i won't hesitate to divorce him and remain single.

RuggedArab:


Five years from today you will see this your comment and make adjustments.

If you divorce a man because he is cheating then be ready not to marry any MAN of this world. What happens to your children? How sure are you that you go with them?

I always advice ladies that if your husband is cheating ask yourself this questions:

1. Does he take care of your children?
2. Does he take care of his basic responsibilities?
3. Does he take care of you (giving you money and buying you gifts)
4. Does he come back home?

If he does all the above I will call him a good man. Mind you, I don't subcribe to men cheating. If the man says his problem is cheating, allow him to cheat he will get tired of it and nobody will tell him to stop. Just keep doing your path and pray.

Ladies of this days think they have acquired too many knowledge and is affecting some their reasoning.

Cheating is bad. Let's call a spade a spade! But don't divorce your husband because he cheats if he is a nice man.

youthofnaija:

What if he gives her STD... Imagine contracting syphilis, gonorrhoea, hepatitis B and even HIV from a cheating husband. When passing our opinion, we shouldn't fail to look at the bigger picture.

RuggedArab:


I agree with you. That's the risky aspect of it.... but again that is not enough to quit the marriage.

I tell you this, no reasonable man will have sex outside without protection. You too since you know he is a cheat singing it loud that he should use protection so you don't get infected. What you have actually done is

1. Letting him know you are at risk.
2. Making his conscience to judge him.