mrpataki:

@ davidylan,
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Wetin you wan run with again? Abi your whitey never do you? We dey hear your gist oh!

say what?
davidylan,I am shocked!!!
et tu brutus?

mrpataki  

oya confess sharp sharp. I could have said there were very few people from the rockcity that i did not know! Confess o! Before i take the matter to the Lord in prayers.

babyosisi:

say what?
davidylan,I am shocked!!!
et tu brutus?

scarcity of nigerians!

I don hear the same  excuse tire.
It is not true my brother.
There are tons of Nigerian girls,other Africans,African Americans,why an oyibo now eh?

Well it doesn't really matter.
_{I lied,it does matter}.

Thanks oh babyosisi,
At least we have the likes of Shahan, mlks_baby et al here.

anyway just kidding as usual.
True love is very hard to find and if anyone finds it in a blue eyed blonde or kinky haired Macy Gray look alike,why not.

Oh really? i thought it didnt matter though.
I didnt see much of a difference except you miss being able to converse in your mother tongue and she being unable to cook nigerian food. Anyway now that i'm out looking for a nigerian girl no one is showing up.  

Igwe's brother,
Why are you shocked? This is the Jet Age . Moreso on the www anything can happen. Even on this topic here in nairaland, anything can happen

While on this subject,what does an African man find very attractive in a white girl that is lacking in a black girl?

mrpataki:

Igwe's brother,
Why are you shocked? This is the Jet Age . Moreso on the www anything can happen. Even on this topic here in nairaland, anything can happen

Finally!!!! Now speak up! Its clear we do know each other!

Ah

Me I dont know that answer oh

davidylan:

Finally!!!! Now speak up! Its clear we do know each other!

fantastic!!!

^{according to osuofia}

I want to see this to the end,so una sabi.
please answer my previous Q
What is wrong with us?

davidylan:

Finally!!!! Now speak up! Its clear we do know each other!

Hows Law, Bayo, Rote, everyother person!
Beat more of that

Telling you of moi only spoils the fum for me!

babyosisi:

While on this subject,what does an African man find very attractive in a white girl that is lacking in a black girl?

To be very frank, there are quite a lot of things that make the white girl more attractive and it is NOT about her hair or color. Life is wayyyyy easier with a white girl than a black one, infact too easy you begin to wonder if everything is alright. They don't nag as much, they will do ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING you tell them to do, very many are willing to sacrifice their family, time, convenience to stick by you.

mrpataki:



Hows Law, Bayo, Rote, everyother person!
Beat more of that

Telling you of moi only spoils the fum for me!

They are doing excellent last time i spoke to them. Law is getting married in August. Oya unveil urself.

In a way you are right there, but cultural differences will always come to play.

davidylan:

To be very frank, there are quite a lot of things that make the white girl more attractive and it is NOT about her hair or color. Life is wayyyyy easier with a white girl than a black one, infact too easy you begin to wonder if everything is alright. They don't nag as much, they will do ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING you tell them to do, very many are willing to sacrifice their family, time, convenience to stick by you.

@babyosisi, not my experience with 'white' girls.
Some black sisters may be harder to 'manage', but better that than a "i'm making a sacrifice dating you" attitude.

cultural differences will be the most important factor later when you both start taking issues seriously. Things like will learning a new language, habbits, attitudes and outlook to life. What of family? Will she understand that marrying a man in Nigerian parlance is akin to marrying his family?
Will she leave her country for yours when it comes to the crunch?
Besides while a typical nigerian wife will not contemplate divorce until things are completely unrescueable, the white chic's culture has taught her to bail out at the slightest whiff of wahala.

Maybe when you come around for his weddings in August to Bussy, I can unveil myself then But till then suffice it for me to remain hooded

In the end though the nigerian girl is harder to manage as ugwumba said, she is a far better option for the long term. If you want to have fun no strings attached, then the white girl is your best bet.

mrpataki:

Maybe when you come around for his weddings in August to Bussy, I can unveil myself then But till then suffice it for me to remain hooded

na wa o! I'm sure you even know the road to my father's house sef at this rate.

Personally I cant settle for a white. Your inputs davidylan stretches my convictions further.

mrpataki:

Personally I can't settle for a white. Your inputs davidylan stretches my convictions further.

It's not a helpless situation. There are very many that would make excellent mates. In the end you will be the one to make your choice after considering both sides of the coin. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Can you live forever with someone who has a diff culture from yours?
I can, she just has to learn to adjust. Many may seem to be willing to adjust in the short term to make you happy, some are more than willing to follow you wherever.

It is a matter of finding God's choice for you. The decision no easy at all.

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@mrpataki, don't mind that mindless ga.l called shahan! The day you give am commission, me and you don finish pata-pata!! I will soon re-activate my yahoo and then we can gist. Period.


@shahan, you do well. How many days now wey I gee you d message to deliver for me?? No worry, I still get that aussie's phone number - you go soon see pepper!! You better go back home to naija, because I don phone the Aussie embassy not to extend your visa - you're on holiday!!

WOW mlks_baby online!
Tell me more.

She went off again.

mrpataki, reveal yourself now!

I wont be coming for Ayo's wedding, i'll be busy that period. Finished from Unaab?

Ugwumba:

@babyosisi, not my experience with 'white' girls.
Some black sisters may be harder to 'manage', but better that than a "i'm making a sacrifice dating you" attitude.

I'm happy to hear this o.
That we are still the best in the long run.

davidylan:

It's not a helpless situation. There are very many that would make excellent mates. In the end you will be the one to make your choice after considering both sides of the coin. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Can you live forever with someone who has a diff culture from yours?
I can, she just has to learn to adjust. Many may seem to be willing to adjust in the short term to make you happy, some are more than willing to follow you wherever.

It is a matter of finding God's choice for you. The decision no easy at all.

I feel that a Naija that marries a white woman would live a life of explanations.
You'll interprete what people say,our expressions and body language,take her to Naija party and you'll be explaining why our music is so loud,that goat meat is edible,the ingredients in moi moi and okra soup.
It'll just be an everlasting question and answer session.
Who need all that added wahala?

babyosisi:

I feel that a Naija that marries a white woman would live a life of explanations.
You'll interprete what people say,our expressions and body language,take her to Naija party and you'll be explaining why our music is so loud,the ingredients in moi moi and okra soup.
It'll just be an everlasting question and answer session.
Who need all that added wahala?

You just captured the scenario. It starts with "will your mother like me"? What are Nigerians like? What will your family say if you marry a white girl? Plenty of questions. . . .

Besides, she was horrified that we eat rabbits. She thought it should only be kept as a pet.

davidylan:


You just captured the scenario. It starts with "will your mother like me"? What are Nigerians like? What will your family say if you marry a white girl? Plenty of questions. . . .

Biko my brother go Lagos or Ibadan find wife.
Or better yet do what your dad did and go across the Niger lol

make it easy, dash me your sister.
Chikena, problem solved!

@ davidylan,
Knowing the state of how desirious you want to know who this is now,
I will only answer that question of yours and any further questions will be highly crushed about my identity here.

Yes to your questions.
Dont bother to ask fellow who I am, because I have told him to do no such here! You deserve such for holding a fight with me in school! You and your brother? Now I have given you enough clues.  

I have to be off now. Hope you will not ask about my identity henceforth.As it will be severely crushed I wont make it for Laws wedding too. But will send my love to him! Miss you all.

Bye for now, goodnight.