It is about a girl who was decieved by a man some where in the middle belt in Nigeria.

This girl has been dating this guy for more than 2 yrs. He was always lavishing her with money & gifts
she probably must have forgotten to ask a question that any other girl would want to know before getting serious with any guy (if he is single).

She has been decieved by this man for more than 24 months.

Now she is 8months pregnant only to discover that this man has a family somewhere & the worst part of it is that he has now disappeared & is no where to be found.

Pls what advice can you give to this 19 yr old girl?

it ia a pity the girl did not know that b4 going out with the man. The advice i av 4 d girl is that she should put her trust in God and try to believe that sooner or later she will find the man.

Well, let God be her guide

omahost005:

It is about a girl who was decieved by a man some where in the middle belt in Nigeria.

This girl has been dating this guy for more than 2 yrs. He was always lavishing her with money & gifts
she probably must have forgotten to ask a question that any other girl would want to know before getting serious with any guy (if he is single).

She has been decieved by this man for more than 24 months.

Now s[b]he is 8months pregnant[/b] only to discover that this man has a family somewhere & the worst part of it is that he has now disappeared & is no where to be found.

Pls what advice can you give to this 19 yr old girl?

Where was she when the pregnancy got to eight months and why did she not inform the man in the early days of the pregnancy. What about calling, does he not have a GSM phone? Or she also forgot to ask of his number.
This is not the best way to present your story except you just want people to abuse you or you are the girl and from your post, your are really dumb. I don't believe this story.

omahost005:

This girl has been dating this guy for more than 2 yrs. He was always lavishing her with money & gifts
she probably must have forgotten to ask a question that any other girl would want to know before getting serious with any guy (if he is single).

This girl dated a man for more than two years, two years! She accepted gifts and money from him yet, she knew nothing about him! Unbelievable! This man did not deceive her, he dated her and played his part well by taking good care of her. Did he ever talk of marriage? NO. She assumed, she was blinded by the gifts and money.

omahost005:


She has been decieved by this man for more than 24 months.

She deceived herself into believing the man would marry her.

omahost005:


Now she is 8months pregnant only to discover that this man has a family somewhere & the worst part of it is that he has now disappeared & is no where to be found.

Pls what advice can you give to this 19 yr old girl?

Buy loads of wrappers to back the baby!

She doesn't need advise, she will learn from the experience. Don't blame the man alone, there is something called CONDOM.
Obviously as the money and gift were puring in she 4got abt safe-intimacy

Tell her she's not the first neither will she be the last. some pple are destined to be examples.

Ben-10:

Tell her she's not the first neither will she be the last. some pple are destined to be examples.

mehnn your statement hit straight home!

Anoda tale by moonlight.

Anywaz, in d event dat its true, she shud find anoda maga and put her xperience to gud use,

rave2u:

mehnn your statement hit straight home!

well u guyz shud`nt b harsh on the girl,she is just 19 u guyz are more experienced
rev2u letz chat plz
oluchukwu_patrick@yahoo.com

jejelolatu:

Anoda tale by moonlight.

Anywaz, in d event dat its true, she shud find anoda maga and put her xperience to gud use,

MAGA u call it na wah ooh

Nollywood needs these type of stories rather than the recycled junk they keep putting out

Ebonyeyes:

Nollywood needs these type of stories rather than the recycled junk they keep putting out

abeg who still they watch naija movies,
i watch afri mag when they si nothing to do,
they get the same story line jare,

She's still young. Tell her to shed a few tears and move on with life.
As with the baby, if she cant find support, can she go to the man's parent?

The girl is a fool jare

Old enough to have sex without condom and contraceptives abi ?

This kind of thing has featured in many Nollywood movies

She needs to watch more movies instead of acting them

Mumu Osi.

make she born the pickin na~
is it a new tin

@Poster apperently the girl whom i knw is u,is really dumb,u deceived urself,theres nothing u can do now than deliver the baby & pray that someday he'll remember u dats if he even knws u re pregnant & FYI u brot ur problem on urself so u wldnt cal me mean wen i say u got wat u deserved.

Is this the pattern you are using to get attention of NLanders to get to know how you foolishly got pregnant for a complete stranger after 2 years of dating? All because of money and gift now you are 8months pregnant with the man vanishing into thin air.

While i believe you still has some of the money and gifts left behind because time has come when you really need them ( Enjoyment chick)

All thanks goes to Nollywood for writing a professional script
for this poster.

@ spyker
yea! this might not be the best way to present it, but this actually happened 2 a daughter of an old neighbour.

come 2 think of it, don't u think it is only a dumb person that will still xpect someone on the run 2 still use the number he's always been using?

Tell her she's not the first neither will she be the last. some pple are destined to be examples.

mehnn your statement hit straight home!

both true. i mean, she ma self, at that age having sex, shud be able to control it! kidzzzzzzz, shame

Truly love is blind.

Eyaaa. . . .
Na so e take happen?
Pele oo. . .

The girl is extremely naive. With all the information going around about safe sex and condoms she should have protected herself. My advise is she should give the baby for adoption in the event of her not being able to take care of it. This is an example of a baby giving birth to a baby

How can I advise one who was enjoying money and gifts with both her eyes & legs widely open! I can't advise her now cos they two, i mean she and the unborn baby! Maybe i can advise during her post-natal, when she can understand what it means to embark on protective sex.

First, this gist has some contradictns.
1. Wasnt she see d guy b4 the preg got 2 8mothz.
2. How would she be dating this guy 4 24mothz witout knowin dat the man has a family some were or didnt she ever visit d man in question?
Well, i dnt tink this happened in this century

It is possible for her not to know he is married. The family might be living far from where the girl is. Her pregnancy is inexcusable because she was old enough to know about contraceptives

The girl is being foolish, selfish and gullible, Wat is it about pregnancy, Its enuf to be having sex with a stranger , not to talk of being pregnant

The girl was just lacked maturity and the man took advantage of it. Men can be demons at times

sexybaby22:

The girl was just lacked maturity and the man took advantage of it. Men can be demons at times

Hey dear, why do u bring men into this, just talk about the man and his cruel behaviour towards the teenage

didnt she know dat things dat are sweat kills

she is a confirmed no unconfirmed foo!

shie be wen she de chop she 4get 2 clean mouth!

Good~ now the deed has been un-done

i pray she gives birth so that her eyes would become clearer

wats all these recent stories of under age, 15,16,17,18,19,20,21yrs all

chasin men,havin s3x,cheatin on their lovers,and now getting pregnant, all about!!

they should all GO TO SCHOOL, abi isnt SCHOOL compulsory anymore!!

Imagine a 21yr old gurl wanting 2 get married the other day, to a guy of 30yrs old,

and funny enough the 30yr old guy is still in 300L, reading C.R.S, i was like HECK!!

whats all these in 9ja, i finished University @ 21yrs, and this gurl thats 21yrs is still awaiting WAEC

Its really annonying me, i dont seem 2 understand wats goin on these days anymore.

iM Out, i dont wanna spoil my mood!

Damn!
Lets Hunt him down!
damit, those kind of men Piss me off.
He played around with her and Ruined her Life!
Poor girl, I have no advice for her