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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by iyobs7(f): 3:06pm On Feb 27, 2017
Mophasa:
Please guys I need your advice and suggestions please.
There is this girl I have been dating for over a year now, I love her so much and intend to marry her soon. I think she loves me too.

She's currently doing her Nysc in cross river while I am in the north. We haven't seen each other since last November though we always chatting and talking on phone like everyday. We have been so cool over the past few weeks and we arranged for her to come see me this week, Thursday to be precise. I even sent her 10k for transportation.

Now after we talked last night and she agreed to come on Thursday, she called me early this morning around 6am only to tell me there was a problem, when I asked her what it was, she told me despite the fact she loves me so much and wants to be with me, she's breaking up with me because she doesn't want to be having sex anymore, that she's not okay with her spiritual life.

I was devastated and all my efforts to try talk sense into her has been in futility! Now the problem am having is that this girl happens to be the only woman in my life, for over a year we, ve been together I have not cheated on her despite the distance. I love her so much and I have always wanted to end up with her. I always did everything possible to make her happy and I, ve never hurt her before.

Please guys I don't want to lose her, what do I do.


From a heartbroken Nairalander

She might actually be planning a surprise for you. Observe that day (Thursday) properly her msg might not go due through due to the fact that she's travelling to meet you up.

But if after collecting money and she does not come, then she has been playing you.
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 3:10pm On Feb 27, 2017
Mujtahida:

How do you know she just got born again? What evidence do you have to make such confident claim. As if born again people don't fornicate.

Born again people don't fornicate. Read your bible.

If you know any that claims to be born again AMD is fornicating, that person is a liar.

No true Christian will fornicate.

Gob bless you.
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 3:10pm On Feb 27, 2017
Mophasa:


Sure, the best advice so far.

Just forget about any advice, when are we going to recover the 10k..huh

your mother will appreciate it

she will pray for you

she will bless you

she suddenly realised her spiritual life after receiving your 10k...that is a holy fraud
.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by nellyelitz(m): 3:14pm On Feb 27, 2017
I ended my relationship last year December because of this, though we're still friends but not seeing again.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Dwizeone: 3:16pm On Feb 27, 2017
kennygee:
She just got born again and has decided she's not about that fornicating life anymore.

She can't force you to be in the same spiritual level as she is and it won't be fair for her to remain in the relationship denying you sex if you are not ready to come on board the Christian relationship.

Move on with your life to another female who is about the fornicating life.

It sure pays to know Jesus.
God bless you dear.
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by nellyelitz(m): 3:17pm On Feb 27, 2017
falconey:
Was her spiritual life in kirikiri when you both were having coitus_?. This is how they lose husband for bizzare reasons.

Call her,if you can go to cross river better,tell her its fine by you no sex( if of course you can live with that), if she persist she can't continue dude let her go.
exactly what I passed through, but its now history.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by nellyelitz(m): 3:18pm On Feb 27, 2017
kennygee:
She just got born again and has decided she's not about that fornicating life anymore.

She can't force you to be in the same spiritual level as she is and it won't be fair for her to remain in the relationship denying you sex if you are not ready to come on board the Christian relationship.

Move on with your life to another female who is about the fornicating life.

It sure pays to know Jesus.
its either you're married or ure sure over 29 yrs

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 3:19pm On Feb 27, 2017
nellyelitz:
its either you're married or ure sure over 29 yrs

I am neither.
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by LordAdam16: 3:24pm On Feb 27, 2017
pocohantas:

You were the first to come off dismissive. I only followed your footsteps . Didn't mean to sound that way, apologies. smiley

You didn't have to apologize. But that's incredibly polite.

How's work?

Scratch that, I know how to contact you if I want to ask a personal question... Which I'll do shortly.

-Lord

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Trojan00(m): 3:29pm On Feb 27, 2017
Mophasa:
Please guys I need your advice and suggestions please.
There is this girl I have been dating for over a year now, I love her so much and intend to marry her soon. I think she loves me too.

She's currently doing her Nysc in cross river while I am in the north. We haven't seen each other since last November though we always chatting and talking on phone like everyday. We have been so cool over the past few weeks and we arranged for her to come see me this week, Thursday to be precise. I even sent her 10k for transportation.

Now after we talked last night and she agreed to come on Thursday, she called me early this morning around 6am only to tell me there was a problem, when I asked her what it was, she told me despite the fact she loves me so much and wants to be with me, she's breaking up with me because she doesn't want to be having sex anymore, that she's not okay with her spiritual life.

I was devastated and all my efforts to try talk sense into her has been in futility! Now the problem am having is that this girl happens to be the only woman in my life, for over a year we, ve been together I have not cheated on her despite the distance. I love her so much and I have always wanted to end up with her. I always did everything possible to make her happy and I, ve never hurt her before.

Please guys I don't want to lose her, what do I do.

From a heartbroken Nairalander
Bros make I no lie give u. She is bleeping another person. I had a girl break up with me for this same reason only for me to find out 2of my other friends had bleeped her after we broke up.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by LordAdam16: 3:33pm On Feb 27, 2017
carmag:


Just forget about any advice, when are we going to recover the 10k..huh

your mother will appreciate it

she will pray for you

she will bless you

she suddenly realised her spiritual life after receiving your 10k...that is a holy fraud
.

LOL at holy fraud. #epic.

Reminds me of this apt description by safari.girl... "Girls will just be practicing advance fee fraud and using God to cover it."

-Lord
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Joe50(m): 3:35pm On Feb 27, 2017
My brother; she's collecting big cassava over there...

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by biggy26: 3:39pm On Feb 27, 2017
Mophasa:


It's not like she got born again or something, fornication is not the only sin in life and all sins are equal before God.
She still does other stuff too and it's not like I met her a virgin.

Bros, na wa for u o, they just gave u sound advice and u are there weighing sin, are u God? It's not d only sin but wrong is wrong. If u can't stand d heat, stay out of d kitchen and move on with ur life so u can have peace.

If her conscience can't take it, leave her. But my candid advice to u is to receive Jesus with all ur heart!
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by EAZY2422(m): 3:39pm On Feb 27, 2017
did i just hear you say she is serving in calabar?hmm....bro am sorry to be the one to break the news to you,but she's gone and gone for good.i had a similar experience although we werw both serving but in different states and just 2 months to our pop she called the relationship off.despite all my weeping and begging which i never knew i could do because of any lady she still held to her decision.bt some 4 months after pop she called and started apologising, and it was like we got back.bt a month latter she called it off again citing same reasons as yours but i knew it was cos she got a job.bt glory be to God i hav gotten mine.so bro just man up and move on.its not going to be easy but at the end,it'll be worth it.from a caring broda

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by wizrose(m): 3:40pm On Feb 27, 2017
Mophasa:
Please guys I need your advice and suggestions please.
There is this girl I have been dating for over a year now, I love her so much and intend to marry her soon. I think she loves me too.

She's currently doing her Nysc in cross river while I am in the north. We haven't seen each other since last November though we always chatting and talking on phone like everyday. We have been so cool over the past few weeks and we arranged for her to come see me this week, Thursday to be precise. I even sent her 10k for transportation.

Now after we talked last night and she agreed to come on Thursday, she called me early this morning around 6am only to tell me there was a problem, when I asked her what it was, she told me despite the fact she loves me so much and wants to be with me, she's breaking up with me because she doesn't want to be having sex anymore, that she's not okay with her spiritual life.

I was devastated and all my efforts to try talk sense into her has been in futility! Now the problem am having is that this girl happens to be the only woman in my life, for over a year we, ve been together I have not cheated on her despite the distance. I love her so much and I have always wanted to end up with her. I always did everything possible to make her happy and I, ve never hurt her before.

Please guys I don't want to lose her, what do I do.


From a heartbroken Nairalander






she is hiding something from U... if she love U she won't just broke up with you like that easily.. and Y is it that after U send the ten thousand she decided to broke up with U..omo guy.. U have been wetting someone else's grasses ... omo U be mamu... grin
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by niyi123: 3:47pm On Feb 27, 2017
kennygee:


Born again people don't fornicate. Read your bible.

If you know any that claims to be born again AMD is fornicating, that person is a liar.

No true Christian will fornicate.

Gob bless you.

I can say we don't even have up to 2% true Christian in Nigeria because majority of them fornicate.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by vicardino(m): 3:51pm On Feb 27, 2017
A white Bible for her.
kennygee:
She just got born again and has decided she's not about that fornicating life anymore.

She can't force you to be in the same spiritual level as she is and it won't be fair for her to remain in the relationship denying you sex if you are not ready to come on board the Christian relationship.

Move on with your life to another female who is about the fornicating life.

It sure pays to know Jesus.
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by EAZY2422(m): 3:52pm On Feb 27, 2017
ZarZar:


I'm not a man lol. Don't worry though. Karma has a way of teaching these kind of people a valuable lesson. They end up with the trash they deserve. Please, don't take her back when she comes back crawling after being disappointed by her new BF. Mark my words, because that's exactly what is going to happen.
u just summarized the end point.u sure know how all dis ends up...pls bro jst like she said she will surely comeback but jst dnt allow ur emotions take control of ur judgement cos there is 99.9 percent possibility it wnt work nd u'll regret it.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by whiteseed(m): 4:04pm On Feb 27, 2017
She is seeing someone else nd she feels guilty comin to see u.
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 4:07pm On Feb 27, 2017
niyi123:


I can say we don't even have up to 2% true Christian in Nigeria because majority of them[b] fornicate[/b].

This is a load of bullshit?....do you even know the real meaning of the word translated 'fornicate'....This is ignorance gone on rampage...

The Greek term porneia (πορνεία), meaning "illicit sexual intercourse", was translated as "fornication" in the 1611 King James Version of the bible and has also been translated as whoredom, sexual immorality or simply immorality

and before oversabi and self righteousness kills you, are you saying the supposed sin of your so called 'fornicate' is a special sin that is higher than the rest other sins.....

To expose your stupidity, ignorance and hypocrisy many of your so called 2% true christians routinely lie and steal....are those ones lesser sins than the assumed sin of 'fornication'
If pre-marital sex was such a deadly sin, why wasn't it mentioned in the 10 commandments where you have the sin of adultery listed and in Leveticus where you have the other lists of sexual sins......

True christians indeed grin....bunch of spiritually devoid folks deceiving themselves and the simple
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Crystal2020: 4:08pm On Feb 27, 2017
My guy if u have told her sincerely from ur heart dat u will abstain from such and get married to her but she continues given u excuses. My guy leave her because someone is already seriously dia under ur nose. If it is just born again she will go with u to change ur life because she luvs u but if a man like u is dia SORRY she will never come back except d man disappoint her. Experience and observations is d best teacher
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 4:19pm On Feb 27, 2017
niyi123:


I can say we don't even have up to 2% true Christian in Nigeria because majority of them fornicate.

Speak for yourself.

If you don't have facts to buttress this point, don't make assumptions because you're unable to accept the truth.
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Babacele: 4:21pm On Feb 27, 2017
pocohantas:

Nobody can finish me...bounce.
hemhem poco abi na poking chatting sef....lols
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by crispyvick(f): 4:22pm On Feb 27, 2017
jst yesterday a guy posted on NL dat he doesn't want his gurl again nd sm blabla. saying he doesn't wana even marry her nd she doesn't wana leave him.
i wish ppl can learn hw to kip dia rhlship private , asking d public for advice will only ruin ur decision bcoz dey aint in ya shoe rite nw nd u alone knw ur feelings.
best thing move on nd forget any karma issh ,no amount of pleading will bring her back nd i guess dia is anoda guy lyk smbdy said earlier or she doesn't want again das even one tin abt long distance stuff.move on dude
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by adedayor08(m): 4:23pm On Feb 27, 2017
Mophasa:
Please guys I need your advice and suggestions please.
There is this girl I have been dating for over a year now, I love her so much and intend to marry her soon. I think she loves me too.

She's currently doing her Nysc in cross river while I am in the north. We haven't seen each other since last November though we always chatting and talking on phone like everyday. We have been so cool over the past few weeks and we arranged for her to come see me this week, Thursday to be precise. I even sent her 10k for transportation.

Now after we talked last night and she agreed to come on Thursday, she called me early this morning around 6am only to tell me there was a problem, when I asked her what it was, she told me despite the fact she loves me so much and wants to be with me, she's breaking up with me because she doesn't want to be having sex anymore, that she's not okay with her spiritual life.

I was devastated and all my efforts to try talk sense into her has been in futility! Now the problem am having is that this girl happens to be the only woman in my life, for over a year we, ve been together I have not cheated on her despite the distance. I love her so much and I have always wanted to end up with her. I always did everything possible to make her happy and I, ve never hurt her before.

Please guys I don't want to lose her, what do I do.


From a heartbroken Nairalander

from personal experience, their is another guy in the picture believe it or not. she might have been comparing for a while and finally decide on what she think is good for her. just chill
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 4:29pm On Feb 27, 2017
hope4life:
If she has realised her sin, it's a best decision she has taken. Giving your body to a man who has not married you is not only against God's command but also against your human dignity. The consequences are grave. A Statistics shows that only 5%of those who had premarital sex eventually gets married and 95% did not stay married after 10years. You can't break God's law without facing the consequences. You should respect her for that decision.

What ever she may realise can she kidly return the damn 10k cuz his mother needs it more
.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Joiceee(f): 4:35pm On Feb 27, 2017
greatnaija01:
If sex is what is so important to you in a relationship then YOU NEED JESUS because you are cheating on HIM.

Since when did sex become LOVE...ehn... biko tell me... who sex epp? rather it weakens you. it is good only when it is right and thats MARRIAGE...

this generation has its values warped... It seems you do not know that LIFE IS SPIRITUAL... will sex protect you from witches n wizards??

this is sad but bros you are not even thanking God that she is becoming a wife material by taking her spiritual life seriously... she will meet more responsible guys WHO CAN WAIT till marriage... then your eyes will clear!!!

bros you gatta know that LIFE IS MORE THAN SEX. if she is the only woman for you then MARRY.... else you are not responsible enough for her.

anyone who thinks dating or relationship is an excuse for sex is not ok at all. LOVE is sacrifice not feelings.... 10 year later the feelings or horniness will die... but its the sacrifices you have both been thru that will keep you.

THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP SUCH A GIRL IS TO MARRY HER.... and i advice you that if you are not ready to change your values and upgrade spiritually do not bother.


Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Joiceee(f): 4:35pm On Feb 27, 2017
greatnaija01:
If sex is what is so important to you in a relationship then YOU NEED JESUS because you are cheating on HIM.

Since when did sex become LOVE...ehn... biko tell me... who sex epp? rather it weakens you. it is good only when it is right and thats MARRIAGE...

this generation has its values warped... It seems you do not know that LIFE IS SPIRITUAL... will sex protect you from witches n wizards??

this is sad but bros you are not even thanking God that she is becoming a wife material by taking her spiritual life seriously... she will meet more responsible guys WHO CAN WAIT till marriage... then your eyes will clear!!!

bros you gatta know that LIFE IS MORE THAN SEX. if she is the only woman for you then MARRY.... else you are not responsible enough for her.

anyone who thinks dating or relationship is an excuse for sex is not ok at all. LOVE is sacrifice not feelings.... 10 year later the feelings or horniness will die... but its the sacrifices you have both been thru that will keep you.

THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP SUCH A GIRL IS TO MARRY HER.... and i advice you that if you are not ready to change your values and upgrade spiritually do not bother.


fact!
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by vicardino(m): 4:37pm On Feb 27, 2017
What can I give u ooooo?? U sure nailed it. But guys ain't pained because she doesn't want to be donating her toto but because she's being womanly. How could you claim u love a guy and you decided to break up with him over the phone after collecting 10k from him because u no longer wanna continue having sex with him? But u can continue collecting money from him, abi?? Love doesn't work that way,,, it ain't love. Now u get why guys are opening d eyes of the OP to see clearly.
pocohantas:
Look at how pained guys are that a sister doesn't want to keep on donating her toto grin
I said it that most Nigerian guys are just looking for babes to keep on fucking. Relationship to them is a f<cking spree...Withdraw sex and watch the animalistic traits in them come to play. This are the same people that ask what a lady brings to the table aside sex.
One even talk of losing husband. Has he married all the ones he f<cked??

Ladies should learn from threads like this.
For an average Nigerian guy, sex equals love.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by BlindAngel: 4:40pm On Feb 27, 2017
pocohantas:

LOL.
Grow up dear... don't you guys get tired of this particular attempt at mocking women?
Abeg, go and sin no more.


I didn't mean it that way jare. No too laugh, before you choke.
.
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Go and sit down goat, all naija girls vagina are wells, there was this lady i fcck yesterday night, jeezzz i could not even feel my dick rubbing in between her walls, or my dick in contact with anything, it was jst like i inserted my dick in a bucked and was moving in and out, the thing has expanded beyoud limits, i had to move out bcus no single pleasure nt even slightly, so hw will i cum, i had to move out without cummming.

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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by lereinter(m): 4:51pm On Feb 27, 2017
she is in cross river to come and visit u in north just cos of sex or what
why she no go find excuse
collect your 10k find side babe in north
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by itsmeurLady(f): 4:59pm On Feb 27, 2017
Can two walk together except they agree If u want to keep her, you have to simply accept Christ Genuinely and not because of the fear of losing her... buh I tell you ur relationship will be much more exciting and purpose driven with Christ involved. Still, if you are not ready to receive Christ, let her go. All things work together for Good. Just don't force it, take it slow and seek God's help. The wisdom of men will not satisfy that which u seek. All the best!

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