freecocoa:
Like a girl can't decide not to have sex no more? Don't be silly jor.

BoboYekini:
Of course she can. It's your prerogative. But expect to be second(third/fourth) choice for that interlude.


Op, I like to think of women as cars. Na as your money reach your ride go tight. If your maintenance/security isn't right, the experience will break down or she gon get stolen.
You don't see my Corolla telling me how hard not to drive her. Still, I have fond memories of all my cars and I don't take a break down personally. On to the next.

blont:
like your man can decide not to have sex with u and u ar fucking ok... dont be silly jor.

pocohantas:

Masturbation is an area to explore in a relationship?
I will be masturbating together with my guy, does this make sense to you?

pocohantas:

I prefer to explore it without sex, pays in this judgemental patriarchal society.
She is his fiancee, he should make her his wife. Maybe she is trying to make him marry her faster.
He should go meet her, I definitely won't travel down from Calabar to go meet him in the North because I wanna break up. If he needs me to explain, he would have to come down to me.

If she is tired, life goes on.
People get tired of the other everyday, it's not a must they stay together. She was nice enough to give an excuse, what of the ones that leave you hanging? Or those ones that keep stringing you along?

jahsson:

Hi.. I'm a virgin.. Can we be friends...?

greatnaija01:
If am the types that sleeps around, then why are you bothered? YOU ARE SIMPLY CONFUSED. and if the girl has truly found Jesus.... you are single again. you came here looking for help... i gave you bitter truth and you turn around to attack me as a hypocrite... STOVE Calling Kettle Black
#wehdone sir

Vikky014:
lol no

LordAdam16:


It only pays when you are dealing with a patriarchal unintelligent pseudo-alpha (I'm not taking a shot at your ability to make a good choice).

***

No, you wouldn't break up less than 12 hours after agreeing to see him. And where is this entitlement of who has to meet who coming from? She has agreed to meet him, he has sent her transport fare. Who has to meet who is irrelevant.

Use rope tk tie goat or use goat tk tie rope is irrelevant. All that matters is that there is a rope and a goat and they are tied to each other.

She wasn't nice to give a silly excuse. There's no nicety in beheading a person because there is the option of having rats eat the person from the inside out. How about an injection or a clean shot to the head.

She could easily have told him days back that she wasn't interested anymore. Not agree to see him, call him less than 12 hours later that she's no longer game, and then give an excuse of sex and spiritual life. The guy hasn't been unfair to her (I can't say for certain), so the break up should have been more amicable.

Sounds like a tween break-up, not a breakup between adults who've been having it good and have no big elephant in the room.

It's clear that the guy will always have a soft spot for her in spite of if they're together or not. She ruined that with a very silly move. Now it's gone from I think she didn't see it working out to I think she was cheating on me and decided to pull the plug because she had secretly loathed me for long.

-Lord

pocohantas:
She doesn't want sex anymore, they can see and talk it over. I am sure she'll come around. A lady can't keep on fucking every guy she dates to prove she is real...then same guy would turn around to judge her? That's hypocritical.
Does fucking OP guarantee he would marry her? NO.
It's her choice then to choose who Bleep.

pocohantas:

If that's the case, then OP is paying for what someone else did to his girl or maybe it's Karma following OP for all the hearts he broke.

I was in a no sex relationship with my ex , I supported that young man financially, emotionally, every fucking way I could think of, did it stop him from cheating? NO!

If I fall in love with some other man tomorrow, I would still do everything I can to support him, I am never going to transfer my pains or past experience on any innocent man. That's life...

She knows OP more than we do. The guy too done tire for her matter, no be today we start to see this kind thread for NL.

My friend, you didn't support him in the most important way to him, sex

But this Mofasa guy, i suspect he doesn't have concrete married plans.

Some guys mistake an outlet for sex as LOVE.

But the girl is definitely getting her pipe supply elsewhere. If Mofasa agrees to all her terms, she would complain that solar eclipse happens when he's around ( ridiculous excuses)

freecocoa:
Why can't he decide to? It's his life his pen1s, all I need do is listen to his reasons and analyse them, it's not rocket science.

pocohantas:

Alright.
She is cheating on OP, she has another guy in Calabar. Her decisions were harsh. OP should move... we are good now.
Make I rest.

pocohantas:
Look at how pained guys are that a sister doesn't want to keep on donating her toto
I said it that most Nigerian guys are just looking for babes to keep on fucking. Relationship to them is a f<cking spree...Withdraw sex and watch the animalistic traits in them come to play. This are the same people that ask what a lady brings to the table aside sex.
One even talk of losing husband. Has he married all the ones he f<cked??

Ladies should learn from threads like this.
For an average Nigerian guy, sex equals love.

kennygee:
She just got born again and has decided she's not about that fornicating life anymore.

She can't force you to be in the same spiritual level as she is and it won't be fair for her to remain in the relationship denying you sex if you are not ready to come on board the Christian relationship.

Move on with your life to another female who is about the fornicating life.

It sure pays to know Jesus.

jahsson:

Hehehe... U don't make friends with virgins?

blont:
lol, you remind me of my ex when u use the word shit happens. same shit she told me when leaving me, but all d same, am strong n fucking over it. shitz really happen.

Vikky014:
lol. i hv already

jahsson:

Hehehe

rosalieene:

Lol what the fvck is 10k,

its small compared to what you can do for a loved one unless the OP is still struggling

don't put in the spirit of greediness on the op

carmag:


eh.eh ... 10k might be small change but let her return it. ...simple


I will follow this thread until Op comes back to his senses and request for his money
.
let him send the 10k to his mother

unclezuma:


Does she stay in a "Family House"?

You think you are having a bad day...here's something to cheer you up.