dhardline:


I dare not cheat, I fear the wrath of God and His hatred for sin too much for me to even think of giving it a try. Same reason I've been celibate for 4years plus. Give it a try dear and see how God rewards those who diligently seek Him.

That's really good to know but it keeps one wondering why you decided to turn celibate and how many ladies you had before then.

2dice01:
thats the sexiest language on planet earth

Really??, why then do the men that speak the sexiest language on the planet, on average, turn out to be nightmares to both their ladies and others?.

thornapple:

How can you be sure when you never gave it a try.

and who said I have not tried?..

firstking01:
Nah, i hold it in high esteem...except you wanna meet me off here .

Nah, i smell trap.

thornapple:
Nah, i smell trap.

Lol, trap how?

thornapple:

I love this baby. keep up the good spirit. Let them prove to you they aren't evil by their words and actions.

abi na lol

thornapple:


That's really good to know but it keeps one wondering why you decided to turn celibate and how many ladies you had before then.

OH... You are asking of body count.what if I told you below five, Would you believe? Didn't even go that far into the whole sex thing.

babyfaceafrica:
and who said I have not tried?..

Then try and try again. You never know when you'll meet that special one that'll change your testimony.

thornapple:


Then try and try again. You never know when you'll meet that special one that'll change your testimony.

ok

sinaj:
yes nau
I do only sugardaddies

sinaj come and do me too...I will pay u

dhardline:


OH... You are asking of body count.what if I told you below five, Would you believe? Didn't even go that far into the whole sex thing.

Isn't anything more than one far enough?.
Anyway i like your zeal for abstinence. 4yrs is long enough to believe you will be faithful.
keep it up and God will surprise you one day with what he has for you.

firstking01:
Lol, trap how?

One never knows. You guys are so good at it.

thornapple:


One never knows. You guys are so good at it.

And why should i snare you in the first place??, you'd really be clingy and struggling with trust issues in your relationship....some of you girls here just need to grow up.

midehill:



sinaj come and do me too...I will pay u

do u have pot belly

thornapple:


Isn't anything more than one far enough?.
Anyway i like your zeal for abstinence. 4yrs is long enough to believe you will be faithful.
keep it up and God will surprise you one day with what he has for you.

Yes anything more than the only 1 is too much, most time I wish I had remained a Virgin in fact till marriage it would have been much more pleasing to God.
And about what God has for me, am sure He has already done that.

dhardline:


Yes anything more than the only 1 is too much, most time I wish I had remained a Virgin in fact till marriage it would have been much more pleasing to God.
And about what God has for me, am sure He has already done that.

That's good, i'm happy for you.

firstking01:
And why should i snare you in the first place??, you'd really be clingy and struggling with trust issues in your relationship....some of you girls here just need to grow up.

Sorry if you feel offended.
Have had a few experiences. How do i grow up by not living by my experiences?.

thornapple:


Sorry if you feel offended.
Have had a few experiences. How do i grow up by not living by my experiences?.

You can grow up by learning to give life a second chance and not living in your past cos most times first impressions are not always what they seem my dear.

thornapple:


Really??, why then do the men that speak the sexiest language on the planet, on average, turn out to be nightmares to both their ladies and others?.

like seriously
How many have you dated

firstking01:
You can grow up by learning to give life a second chance and not living in your past cos most times first impressions are not always what they seem my dear.

I won't argue with you on that but i know anyone that refuses to learn from experiences may've subscribed for a life of repeated doom and misery.

thornapple:

I won't argue with you on that but i know anyone that refuses to learn from experiences may've subscribed for a life of repeated doom and misery.

Meaning you not gon gimmie a chance to show you what it means to love unconditionally?

2dice01:
like seriously
How many have you dated

Haven't dated anyone yet but presently relating closely with someone i liked and that's like a first time.

firstking01:
Meaning you not gon gimmie a chance to show you what it means to love unconditionally?

Hahahahaha,
Honestly i think you are worth it going by my perception of you so far. You share some similarities with someone i relate with(not dating) presently.
That is to tell you I think you are quite likeable however i have no relationship experiences so i should rather concentrate on one person than get things complicated, much more than i can handle as a novice.
However i am not done with you yet. You've got several interesting topics i will keep digging into in the days ahead.
One other guy i met on ur thread also falls in ur category and i will also dig into his threads too.
lol

thornapple:

Haven't dated anyone yet but presently relating closely with someone i liked and that's like a first time.

so you want to use one person to judge millions...its like you saying chinese guys are kungfu literate

2dice01:
so you want to use one person to judge millions...its like you saying chinese guys are kungfu literate

Naaaaah, you credit me with more daftness than i deserve.
The one person you are referring to isn't yoruba for a start,
Not that tribalism has anything to do with it but i rather not use myself to confirm the story of others.

thornapple:

Some of us think the right way. why the generalization.
You guys are quick to argue all men aren't same but you want to force it down our throats that all ladies are the same?.
In almost all relationships, it's you men that lay the foundations for cheating and dishonesty.
I'll consider making that my next topic.

I look forward to read the next topic

L0velyn:
why the stress.... They got nothing to offer



just be yaself ..... Men are evil

Who hurt you?

What Ladies Really Want: 7 Things Every Guy Can Do To Be Perfect For Her. by thornapple(f): 11:37pm On Mar 01
A Lady really doesn't want much from a man. There are really only seven things – seven qualities that she's looking for in a life partner. Although these qualities are hard to find, they are qualities of which every man is capable. These seven things are not out of any man's reach, yet the fact is that most lack at least one. Now, you may like to argue that no one is perfect and therefore no one has all seven of these qualities, but that's just not true. There are plenty of men out there who are sufficient in each of these categories, not perfectly, but sufficient enough to make a woman incredibly happy. That's all that matters, right?

1. Honesty – but not too much of it. A woman doesn't want a man to lie to her about important matters. She wants to be an important part of his life – the most important part, in fact. She wants to know the things that are going on his life and she wants him to have trust in her. As far as she is concerned, they are one – his life is her life. She wants him to want to share in his pleasant experiences and memories. She also doesn't want him to feel that he has to lie, because when that is the case it usually means that he was stepping out of line, making poor choices and mistakes. On the other hand, she doesn't want the truth in all circumstances. Brutal honesty isn't wanted. If she asks, she looks great, she looks beautiful, the fact she gained 15 pounds doesn't bother you, her new haircut makes her look even cuter. Now that I think about it, the only thing you should really lie is about such shallow matters as appearances. We all look like sh*t sometimes – but she doesn't need to hear you say it.

2. Understanding – so that she doesn't feel the need to have to explain herself. She wants you to know her – inside and out. Why? Because only then will you love her for her. We all sometimes need confirmation that we're worth loving. The real us – not the people others perceive us to be. We may not all need such a confirmation of our value, but we all want it. But it's more than just that. Having someone understand you is having someone completely know you for the person that you really are. There's no confusion, there's no misunderstanding or misconception. They know you for you and because they know you for the person you really are, you, in a sense, exist outside of yourself. As long as they live on, so do you.

3. Caring – she needs to know she matters to you. To be cared for means not to be alone in this life. Most people are forced to care for themselves and the truth is that it's a lot more difficult than people let on. As human beings, we aren't always in the right mindset to care for ourselves. To top it off, that's usually exactly when we need the most caring – when we aren't mentally or physically capable of doing it ourselves. She wants you to be there for her when she needs someone, to be there to share her burden. I know it sounds ridiculous, but she wants you to make her life a little easier. Craziness – I know. On the upside, she'll be there for you when no one else will. Fair enough tradeoff I think.

4. Strength – both mental and physical. No woman wants a physical weakling – it's against her nature. That doesn't mean she won't settle for slightly less than Herculean, but you're a man dammit. She wants to feel that when she's in your presence. She wants you to be intelligent and to practice self-control simply because you can. We're all still animals and women will always be attracted to the stronger men. She wants you to be strong not for the sake of being strong – she wants you to be strong for her. It brings her pleasure, makes her feel safe and turns her on. Do you honestly need more convincing?

5. Compassion – shows her you’re capable of loving. A woman doesn't only want a man to have love only for her, but a love for life, for living things. She wants a kind man, a man whom others will look up to, appreciate and admire. She wants a good man. She doesn't see being good and compassionate as a weakness. And that's because it's not. I know lots of men are taught that to be strong you have to be hateful, spiteful and malicious. That's very unfortunate, but it's simply the world we live in. She doesn't need that. You don't need that either. No one does.

6. Security – financial and literal. You don't need to be a millionaire. Well, for some women, you very well may need to be, but hopefully you'll only end up with one who admires the traits required for turning oneself into a millionaire and not the money alone. Generally speaking, the right woman will love you for you, but she does need you to make her feel secure. She wants to feel that you will protect her from physical harm. She wants to know that you'll keep her safe, healthy and comfortable. Does she need you to keep her safe? To bring home the bread? No. But she'd like you to be capable of it – even if her salary is bigger than yours. She'll have your back too so you can rest easier as well.

7. Blind Loyalty – she wants to be the only woman he has eyes for. We all have big egos – men and women alike. We want to feel special. We want to feel unique and better than the rest. We're competitive by nature and there is no getting around it. Women want a man who sees the world in her. Her and only her. She knows she's not the most beautiful or smartest woman in the world, but she doesn't need to be – she's not delusional. She just wants you to think – know – that she's the most beautiful, best woman in the world for you. She needs you to think she is the best thing that ever happened to you. She wants to be the best and she wants a man who will allot her that title.

You forgot the most important thing. Sorry, u don't know women.

CArt:
You forgot the most important thing. Sorry, u don't know women.

So where, when and how did you get to know women better?. Are you cart or c,art?.

thornapple:

So where,

In the other room

when?

Last year June,in PH

Are you cart or c,art?.

Cart

and how did you get to know women better?.

Do u really want me to enlighten you?

How to Turn a Girl on

- Lip biting
- Ass Grabbing
- Hair Pulling
- Hand Guiding
- Having Her against the wall
- Kissing Her Neck
- Teasing Her
- Love Bites

How to Turn a Boy on

- Touch us anywhere, even our shirt
For me just point at me

CArt:

In the other room

Last year June,in PH

Cart

Do u really want me to enlighten you?

Hahahaha,
One day you'll get trapped "in the other room".
Thank God since last June you've remained locked out from that room.