A few days ago.. I received a friend request on Facebook from my uncle's wife. I accepted her and immediately she started chatting me.. she started with "baby boy how are you?, how's school?, hope you're not fucking too much?" All these kind of stupid questions and to think I did have a lot of respect for the woman..

So I complained to my cousin and his reaction was that I should stay there and be dulling, that I should chop n clean mouth. So I busted out on him, telling him how stupid and how wrong he sounds.. so given my moral outburst, he said that he was just joking with me.

Then I recalled there was a day he told me the woman sent him some money so I became more suspicious of him and the woman. I asked him for his phone to check something and he unlocked it and on opening the Facebook messenger the woman's name was the first message there, so I opened it.

I can't still believe what I saw there. The derogatory names they called eachother (My bit hi.. my dick..) The nude pictures littering there up n down.. the conversation is nothing to write home about. I'd have uploaded some pictures but I don't it's right even if i cover their faces..

This just got me thinking.. I never knew women were this promiscuous. I only thought it was the men who were this irresponsible. All the stories I've been reading on social media about cheating woman never stroke me as true but this one is making me regret not believing them. What's happening guys, I'm scared already. Can we still find decent girls to marry..? Ever since I read that chat.. I've been picking fights with my girlfriend cause I don't seem to trust her again..

I don't know what to do with this information.. normally I'm supposed to mind my business but I'm just full of pity for my uncle the husband. The woman is very much good looking and the man (from what I'm seeing) loves her very much and they seem so happy together.

This world sha.. a lot of things are happening behind people's back that if they noticed 1/10th of them..

Honestly I am confused.

The story is a strange story,I mean a woman you had never had any kind of prior discussion bordering on sexual mattters,will from nowhere start asking you DO it in School?

Ok

In this mad world we r living in, statistics of men who father some other men's children thinking they are theirs, by now should be more than those fathering their biological children..

Buh if truth be told, the statistics would be worse if men get pregnant too. I just can't imagine

sorry

Romanceland na Liars Den

OH LaWd save me from olosho wife.

HungerBAD:
Honestly I am confused.

The story is a strange story,I mean a woman you had never had any kind of prior discussion bordering on sexual mattters,will from nowhere start asking you DO it in School?

I don't have an app to draw lines against my name and hers.. I'd have uploaded the screenshots

*Modified

The question was "Hope you're not fucking too much?"

I know a story is fictional the moment I read one

@op, a cheating wife is a life threat to her husband, so you should not mind your business in this if you care about your brother's interest at all. That being said, your cousin being in the mix makes it very tricky, and if not handled properly could burn down the whole family. I hope you handle this well and I hope you have all those chats and pics between them as evidence.

Maybe other posters will tell you just how to approach it. Good luck.

dollyjoy:
I know a story is fictional the moment I read one

So its fictional 'cos it involve a woman abi

If it's the man fvcking the wife's sister then it's not fictional bah?

Did you know that the promiscousity in women is far more higher than in men?

His cousin is mad but the uncle's wife is madder

God help the woman that would cheat on me, she would suffer here and in hell.

This world might end before year 2020 if things like this continue!

HungerBAD:
Honestly I am confused.

The story is a strange story,I mean a woman you had never had any kind of prior discussion bordering on sexual mattters,will from nowhere start asking you DO it in School?

when you hear say some people don mara...na d op dem dey refer to!

Speechless

Ignorance is bliss...

My advice for you is to mind your business and don't let such issue affect your relationship...we still have good eggs out there #don't judge all since uve nt tried all#...pray u find a good woman to love you and be faithful...when you do, hold her tight

This is a crazy world. I knew of a guy who is having with his younger sister in my neighbourhood

This is a crazy world. I knew of a guy who is having sex with his younger sister in my neighbourhood

terrible I must say but shit happens.
Now my issue with you is why take it out on the poor girl who knows absolutely nothing abt it (ur gf)......

Let your uncle know with sense.. If you keep it,it will haunt you. Use your brain sha...and you need evidence pictures and videos..send them to your uncles email with an anonymous mail...tell him!!!!...just one word for your cousin,thw person that will sleep with his wife is in jss3 doing home economics

dollyjoy:
I know a story is fictional the moment I read one

This is not fictional

Mortiple:
Such a woman is not just a disgrace but dangerous to the entire family. She might be bleeping so many other guys elsewhere, and not just your cousin.

If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't blink an eyelid before spilling the beans, provided I have convincing evidence. Considering your high moral rectitude, you cannot afford to cover EVIL being perpetrated against your own uncle and entire family.

Both the woman and your cousin deserve to be paraded Unclad in a market square in one remote village.

and what if the uncle is bleeping someone? can the OP know if his beloved uncle is bleeping somebody? abeg most nd your business and stay out of the woman's hair

Leave them make them dey fleet each other jare.... The husband must catch her one day.
Na this kyn rubbish make me decide not to marry.

This whole problem started when one jealous man decided to make laws and coined the word marriage, when one woman realized her waist is a supermarket.

Child bearing should be contractual. Let everyone fvck freely. At least we are already doing that, albeit in secret.

Kudos to Flavour, Davido and Wizkid. They know the difference between making babies and living a lie.

Another online story for those who don't believe like the Op

Meanchris can I add you on fb so u can show me some of those pics?

oglalasioux:
This whole problem started when one jealous man decided to make laws and coined the word marriage, when one woman realized her waist is a supermarket.

Child bearing should be contractual. Let everyone fvck freely. At least we are already doing that, albeit in secret.

Kudos to Flavour, Davido and Wizkid. They know the difference between making babies and living a lie.

Though not totally in support the way you put it, but you made some points that goes along with my philosophy concerning marriage. I've always been of the opinion the institution called marriage is a bit flawed. To solve this type of problem raised by the OP, marriage should've been arranged in a way that couples can decide to add an extra legal sexual partner at any stage in the marriage. This becomes important since at some point in a marriage both husbands and wives do get tired of each others body and want to taste someone else outside. The simple solution is add an extra legitimate sexual partner, and it ought be part of every marriage agreement right from the beginning. Couples should be able to openly add as much extra sexual partners as they want, secrecy is what should be an offense, not extra marital affairs, since people are already doing it anywhere.

Since infidelity is mostly to blame in most divorce cases, there's actually a natural solution to that, but our jealous and greedy nature wouldn't allow common sense to prevail.