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Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Strahovski1(m): 9:31am On Mar 11, 2017 |
kingreign: His interest? Let me ask you a question. A man points a gun at you, do you run and call the police or try to disarm the man OR wait, and say '..he has not shot me yet'.? What would you do? Tell me in truth. Its the same case here. Her life is already threatened as there is a possible STD coming if she remains in such marriage as such a man would continue. So she should wait and say "..I'm not infected yet." Right? 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by OKUCHI11(m): 9:33am On Mar 11, 2017 |
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Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 9:41am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Shortyy:Exactly. 10 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by kingreign(m): 9:43am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Strahovski1:For the records, lemme get this straight. I don't encourage infidelity, I do not encourage divorce. Its against what I stand for and what my belief system is. That said, your analogy makes no sense to me cos they're different scenarios. A man who flirts, sex chats and do e-adultry has committed adultery in his heart already and is planning on how to perfect the act (if he hasn't already) this we all know. Bt, a lot of guys maysex chat without even starting to commit physical adultery/fornication which then crescents into the real deal. My disagreement here with you is: 1. You make it sound as if he has already been cheating by way of having sexual contact with the ladies he sexchat with, which maybe right or wrong. 2. You just advocated for a break down of another person's home, without giving a second trial as to trying to even save the situation. 3. You don't care if the woman in the picture is at fault remotely or directly. (May I remind you, only few insane men would cheat on their wives even if their wives acts satisfies them sexually). 4. There's a lot to this issue than what is reported. We've got to hear from the couple before we throw away the bath water with the baby inside. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by hopeforcharles(m): 9:45am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Shortyy:Thank you. There many are many angles this issue could be looked at not out rightly divorce like this Strahovski1 guy is chanting i wonder if he is truly married, if they divorce now will u marry her Strahovski1? Its not right to divorce now. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Strahovski1(m): 9:49am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Here we are again... What you are saying is that someone playing with a gun who isn't a police offer is not a criminal until he is caught shooting someone? That's your point. He is sex chatting! Why? Someone who sex chat is obviously doing the act outside. #Fact The woman isn't at fault. She is the victim here. Go tell a robbery victim it's his fault for leaving his door open. What's wrong is wrong and should not be accepted. kingreign: 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Strahovski1(m): 9:51am On Mar 11, 2017 |
hopeforcharles: What if he is sleeping with women outside? Yes what if? A big if? Is it worth the gamble? I'm trying to save her and her child. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by hopeforcharles(m): 9:51am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Jacksparr0w127:If actually he has done the sex, and besides do u know if he protects himself, you all calling for divorce divorce divorce watch it lest u brake a family, if she divorce the guy will you guys marry her?. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by hopeforcharles(m): 9:55am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Strahovski1:Saving them from what excalty and delivering them to what then Pain, Single parenthood, lack of a proper home to grow up and others. You are not saving them you are trying to to wreck them. Think again if its your home isn't this issue worth a secondary thought or look at? Its not as serious as you are painting it to be. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 9:58am On Mar 11, 2017 |
hopeforcharles:who are the 'you all'? Check my comment, I advised she settles their differences and figure out whatever problem there may be in their sex life as its obvious enough something is not right with their sex life And a MARRIED MAN sexchatting when her wife is right home with him must definitely be fvcking outside. I 100% guarantee you that. Whether he uses protection is what I don't know 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by kingreign(m): 10:00am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Strahovski1:A woman may consciously be at fault if she denies him sexual encounters. She may be unconsciously at fault if she don't keep her self neat and have a high level of personal hygiene and dress well and do all the pre-intimacy acts before the main course of sex, if she gets tired easily and complains during/about his sexual acts, if she acts like a slab during the exercise, if she does not entice him with her dressings. This and lot more could derail a mans sexual appetite in his wife and ignite a fire for another strange woman. I'd suggest the woman sits down with her husband ask hm what his challenges are and where she erred if any. Call in a marriage counsellor (who counselled them before marriage) and sort this out. For you advocating for divorce in marriage shows you may not be married or even be a marriage breaker. Unfollows thread. Modified, you're not Nigerian, you know nothing about Nigerian cultures, religion and marriages. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by naijaboiy: 10:13am On Mar 11, 2017 |
kimbra:A man who would cheat would cheat but starving your man of sex can also lead him to make such decisions. Before any partner wants to lay complaint he/she should check their past actions if it is connected to why their partner is behaving in such manner. Regardless, everyone is expected to take responsibilities for their actions no doubt, but we just have to put it in mind that sometimes we push people to do what they ordinarily wouldn't do by our actions and we wouldn't even know. So, Oga is wrong for sex chatting but whether that's enough reason for divorce is what I'm skeptical about. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 10:27am On Mar 11, 2017 |
naijaboiy:You're right, good people snap. But if his wife pushed him to it either by sex-starve or constant nagging and it only ended as a sex chat then she should reconsider and rule divorce off. She can't be strongly advocating for divorce if it ended as a sex chat, perhaps she's holding back on some information. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by naijaboiy: 10:42am On Mar 11, 2017 |
kimbra:yea that's my point. And it's actually going to be really hard to convince the courts to give her a divorce with just an evidence of sex chats. A person does not just file for divorce and gets it on a platter. She actually has to prove that whatever is her motive for filing for divorce is actually a good reason and is irreconcilable for both parties. In this case, cheating is. It's just the evidence that's not strong. |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by JONSYN7154: 10:52am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Michellla:What is "banging"? |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Adiwana: 10:53am On Mar 11, 2017 |
kingreign: Ranting of a low life racist that can't take the heat in the kitchen or can't bring a superior argument to support his claims resorting to what he knows best,Tribe baiting. Who cares if he's Nigerian or nah.He gave his opinion on the matter and you gots to respect it.The OP didn't put Nigerian into the context and as such the situation should be treated as such.Not trying to play some stupid race card 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 10:56am On Mar 11, 2017 |
naijaboiy:You're on point. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by babyfaceafrica: 10:59am On Mar 11, 2017 |
I thought they said guys na in dey jealous?... So gals sef jealous?... Lolz..na dem sabi |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by kingreign(m): 11:05am On Mar 11, 2017 |
Adiwana:You're a waste of skin. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Apina(m): 1:03pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Strahovski1:So Taking the high way when things get tough is the best option? Its really disappointing hearing this from someone who's married. If the case is that leaving would save her from depression based on some uncertain events u raised, what about the child? what would be his state of mind and how would that affect him on the long run? How selfish your suggestion is. Her leaving his house wouldn't change the fact that another woman will replace her immediately, but who's gonna pick her up? Our parents had their own fair share of such issues and even worse but they knew divorce wasn't an option and sorted things out. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by NemzySeries(m): 1:08pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
regardless of wat might av led to ur inlaw falling so cheap for infidelity i bliv hiz yet to understand dat marriage means TAKING A DECISION & STAYING WITH IT TO D END REGARDLESS OF D OUTCUM BKOS NO MARRIAGE IS PERFECT 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 1:15pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
BoiledHead:Why are you so alarmed. She should do it for her peace of mind being a divorcee isnt the end of the world you know 1 Like |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Tomjazzy2: 1:21pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
ShawttySoFyne: I wonder why most of you guys here in romanceland lack that basic capacity to read and comprehend a simple argument/point with out necessarilly becoming uncivil After reading what I wrote up there, you feel I am an advocate of infidelity in marriages |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Apina(m): 1:29pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
BoiledHead:Tell ur sister that the moment she packs outta that house, he's gonna bring in another woman. Let her go ahead and mortgage her sons position and hers with a man she has struggled with cos she couldn't boss up to the situation @ hand and bring her man under Leash. Being a single mother isn't as easy as she's been seeing it on telemundo and female divorcées aren't smiled at in the African society. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by eezeribe(m): 1:30pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
BoiledHead: They should all go and die. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by AntiWailer: 1:31pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
She should calm down. now the guy has spent 3 days of real banging and not sexting again. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Nobody: 1:31pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
kingreign:9ce one! 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by sadifeelz: 1:31pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
mhmmm |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by DeRay98(m): 1:32pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Freewoman:Very candid opinion. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by tafabaloo(m): 1:33pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
The woman has been looking for an avenue to excuse herself from the marriage. Now, I think she has gotten one. If I were you I would not advice her against divorcing her husband ,perhaps, there is an Angel waiting for her in the outside. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by Firstcitizen: 1:34pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Check if Mr Apostle 3some laid hands on him in the past.....therein lies the solution to their marriage problems |
Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by dannythethug: 1:35pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Let her divorce. She won't be the first and last. |
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