Most relationship starts with all the fun you could imagine, but in a short while all of this could be lost and we would be left to wonder why. It's not like you have stopped falling in love with each other, what is happening is behavioral change and if this is not checked quickly it cab ruin the relationship. Am sure you don't want that to happen that's why you are here, so here are the top 10 behaviors written by www.kikiotolu.com that can ruin your relationship and I would be telling you how you avoid them.

1. Acting Like You Are Single: This is a top relationship killer. Since you are in a relationship you should never act like you are single. This sort of attitude would be sending all the wrong signals to your partner and this could over time ruin your relationship.

2. Not Honouring Your Partner: Yeah, it's cool to joke at times and make fun but when it leads to you being over sarcastic it can destroy even the best Bollywood relationship. So try to be more humane and honour your partner.

3. Lack Of Affection: I know some of us love to prove that we can do without the opposite s*x and go about our daily affair like we don't care. But hey, you are now in a relationship and this needs to be put to stop if you want the relationship to work out.

4. Focusing On Your Phone More Than Your Partner: Most of us are guilty of this crime (yes its a crime when it comes to relationship). This is no wonder why numerous relationship crashes nowadays. You need to save some more time for your partner and pay attention to them. That if you want the relationship to work out.

5. Nagging: This is the marriage killer. And not only the females are guilty of this, men also have their own irritating way to Nag. So if you sure want your relationship to last long (forever) then kill the nagging spirit in you rather than it killing your relationship.

6. Dishonesty: Trust is key in every relationship and we are all sensitive to trust issues in different ways. Some might take a "petty lie" as a big deal while others would simply ignore it. So to get the best out of your relationship try your best to be honest. This is even going to make it better for you as if you have nothing to hide from your partner you are bound to feel better around that special person.

7. Avoiding Eye Contacts: If at all you are not used to having eye contacts with people since you are in a relationship and with that special one (as you have claimed) then you would need to start having eye contacts with that person. Else you would be sending a wrong signal like you have something to hide.

8. Being Financially Irresponsible: Now that you are in a relationship there are a lot of aspects of your life which needs to change POSITIVELY. If you where the type who spends lavishly and irresponsibly then it's high time you opt for a change else you would be clearly telling your partner that you are not responsible.

9. Being Dominant: It is so glaring that everyone wants to be free and nobody wants to be tied down by a dominant figure. So when in a relationship try your best not to be too over bearing on your partner so as not to make them feel insecure.

10. Always Being On The Edge: Nobody loves that face of you frowning, and I don't think you love it either. So do your partner more good by looking more cheerful and less on the edge like a grenade waiting to explode.

http://www.kikiotolu.com/2016/11/10-behaviors-that-ruin-relationships.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 seun Dominique

See as this guy above me just snatch my ftc. Is wa oh

Mmmmmmm. See how people above me dey book space.

Nairalander that has not book space before is that one a nairalander

don't even know what to comment...trust some niggas they can hit like button for no reason

The last point tho

Some girls are so guilty of this. Frowning just to form being classy or i don't care especially when they sight a guy coming towards their direction. Simply means you are either intimidated by his presence or you actually "care"

I don't give much relevance to relationship nowadays

but if we can be able to trust & understand each other, our relationship go old pass Methuselah

Just give her enough money and the rest problems will become history.

Relationship don tire me biko

ok

I don't look people eye ball to eye ball, it
feels weird for me.

Excess of everything s bad

Maturity, discipline, commitment.. Those three things really matter..

OK, I don't even know which rule to follow again.
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11. Lack of money

ayam reading comments

Ginaz:
I don't look people eye ball to eye ball, it
feels weird for me.

Not even when you are kissing?

I dey come, let me comment first

on point

See how people above me dey book space. Nairalander that has not book space before is that one a nairalander.

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My bae must see this

True I may be guilty of 1, 3,4 and 7

Very true. No. 6 and 8 especially.

For most men, except the for the likes of that stupid airman that killed his girlfriend, the ultimate relationship killer is "over-possessiveness".

No guy likes being choked. Stop monitoring him as if he had no life before he met you.

Don't kill his feelings for you with too many calls and too many texts. Wisdom is profitable.


For most women (not all) the ultimate relationship killer is when you can't take care of her basic needs. Her friends start deriding her , then she makes up her mind and runs without any sign.

Women are also attention-seeking by nature. They get mad when you dont satisfy their yearning for attention.

hmm

Nice points operator......i think all the above can be summed up into One: A movie (or book) titled:when love dwindles

Problem starts when couples begin to see themselves as 'I' and not 'We'. The only way to have a healthy relationship is putting the other person first.

benjaminiyke:
Just give her enough money and the rest problems will become history.

Tonto has money o.
Toke is given money.