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Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by chibestjerry(m): 11:03pm On Mar 22, 2017
Stlomo1s:
pls chat me up,let's talk.its urgent@op
Another Lesbian Spoted

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Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by ztanleechima(m): 11:13pm On Mar 22, 2017
hmm.

Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by ztanleechima(m): 11:19pm On Mar 22, 2017
start BET9JA.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by justiceybi: 11:44pm On Mar 22, 2017
Pls get a bible and reading now.
It will stop. Read ur bible every day
Read as many chapters as u can per day.
Ur problem is small.
It is done." Read ur bible"
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Viczeni123: 11:54pm On Mar 22, 2017
Go get ur sef a stick
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by justiceybi: 11:57pm On Mar 22, 2017
Pls get a bible and start reading now.
It will stop. Read ur bible every day
Read as many chapters as u can per day.
Ur problem is small.
It is done." Read ur bible".
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Abdallah495(m): 12:26am On Mar 23, 2017
Hmm na wow for u.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Swagahyk(m): 12:33am On Mar 23, 2017
Swahili0:
pLs house help me i have feeling for ladies and i dont know what to do

someone needs help and came online instead of helping out you guys are taking crap, moreover if you don't have what to say you can ignore.

Back to the matter, am not a sex expert, but I can help out with one or two advice
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Nobody: 12:57am On Mar 23, 2017
Mumu op.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by darealez(m): 2:23am On Mar 23, 2017
Swahili0:
i just need help dats all
Take a deep breath, accept the reality (you feel for ladies), make resolution (I don't want this), keep your resolution clearly in your head, be very clear, distinct and strict with yourself, deliberately acknowledge the urge and refute it (I know I feel this way but I'm not gonna ever step into it), turn your resolution to your daily memory verse and pray about it.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by chizidgreat(m): 6:28am On Mar 23, 2017
Swahili0:
pLs house help me i have feeling for ladies and i dont know what to do
I feel for you my sister but I bet you this is a condition I know the Lord Jesus Christ can comfortable handle.
I have living testimonies. You can email me, let's talk more.
You can also buy some Joseph Prince's tapes and Books and listen to his TV programs
You will surely be free because it's your right to be free in Christ
All the best my dear sister
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Jokerman(m): 6:42am On Mar 23, 2017
TolaTosin:
you are not alone, we are many wink wink wink wink 98% of ladies feel something for ladies too, some just do 3some to have the opportunity to touch another lady, while others are dating in secret or in public cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy


Buh you know its unfair... many a guys need a companion, yet girls go for other girls .. going against nature...
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by chizidgreat(m): 7:03am On Mar 23, 2017
Swahili0:
pLs house help me i have feeling for ladies and i dont know what to do
Note this too:
You can't help yourself but Jesus can.
Remove your gaze from yourself and from any other man and place it on Jesus.
That's His work. His job description is saving you and He's very committed to that. He is very interested in helping you. Oh, how much He yearns to help you.
But you know, you have to cry out to Him. You have to be sincere with Him. You have to talk to Him sincerely about it.
And too...Don't condemn yourself neither feel comfortable with it. Jesus himself does not condemn you. Hate the habit but don't hate yourself.
And while looking unto Jesus for help, keep talking to yourself that you are not a lesbian and that you are free and that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus.
However, I'm saying all these with the faith that you have accepted Jesus as your Lord and savior. If not, why not do that now and turn to Him for help, knowing that all your case have been settled on the cross.
All the best my precious sister
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by moorme(m): 7:21am On Mar 23, 2017
Swahili0:
i just need help dats all

You need my di*k to fuq out that spirit in you. Inbox me i got the right help for you.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Skillz02(m): 7:42am On Mar 23, 2017
Swahili0:
i just need help dats all

Swahili0 Pls just pray hard over it & keep to male counterparts it helps
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 23, 2017
Swahili0:
pLs house help me i have feeling for ladies and i dont know what to do
so you have to pretend to be from east africa or suggest something about east africa when youre infact...........

Kwantinu!
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by kingBally(m): 4:03pm On Mar 23, 2017
LeView1:
Follow your heart grin

But if you're in 9ja where they lock you up for following your heart then I have no advice to give. I'm sorry you in a land where human rights aren't respected cry
and you call that human right? LGBT aint no human right momma
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by davien(m): 4:52pm On Mar 23, 2017
kingBally:

and you call that human right? LGBT aint no human right momma
It actually is,freedom of sexual orientation which sadly majority of hypocritical Nigerians don't understand..

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Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by cheeboi(m): 10:02pm On Mar 24, 2017
if you follow your heart you will rot in hell fire. lesbianism is not an attitude but there is a spirit behind it not written in the bible or quran for you to marry your same
you are in a serious bondage you need prayers and delivarance
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Rosamystica(f): 7:59am On Mar 25, 2017
Swagahyk:


someone needs help and came online instead of helping out you guys are taking crap, moreover if you don't have what to say you can ignore.

Back to the matter, am not a sex expert, but I can help out with one or two advice
mtcheeeew
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by hammerF: 6:25pm On Mar 26, 2017
ireneony:
Op you're gay or bi.
you can't fight gay porn does not make you gay.
you can be aroused wen watching lesbian, but that does not mean you are gay. ..being attracted to same sex, means you are simply gay

How will u decide my case, i can't stand homo? I like woman too much! I like to do too. grin By the way, liking that sunday look... kiss
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by bluntMonkey: 7:53am On Mar 28, 2017
Indeed, u sure need a cock in your life
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by kingBally(m): 10:06am On Mar 29, 2017
davien:
It actually is,freedom of sexual orientation which sadly majority of hypocritical Nigerians don't understand..
story......... if we should all go the way the society wants and not The Natural way God made it..... ahh i don't think there will be anything call human race ....... sex that its not between a man n wife bros even devil no be gay but humans are just been clouded by the so called human rights..... goan fight human rights for the less privilege fr education n not did trash of sex my foot
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Sheikhmd007(m): 6:55pm On Apr 27, 2017
Swahili0:
i just need help dats all
Eyaa! Ok it's no problem just contact me and your problems are solved.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by Nobody: 8:23pm On Apr 27, 2017
Lady, just have a girlfriend for sex and a man for marriage to have kids. Good luck trying to balance that out.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by barallanee(f): 8:55pm On Apr 27, 2017
She needed u guys help and it turned to anoda thing....mayb she saw this place as the only place to be opened...she saw u people worth it dats why she confided in u..and now ur like "wat shuld I do"
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by crowley(m): 6:00am On Jul 07, 2017
Swahili0:
i just need help dats all
Nah you dont. the heart wants what the heart wants. stop trying to force it, just be neutral. if you are really into girls then its no big deal. but try hanging out with guy first, good guys no jerks. it might change how u feel.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by sagaxity(m): 7:22am On Jul 07, 2017
Let's be together, and I bet you those feelings will be gone...
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by DollyBig: 11:16am On Oct 13, 2017
Op, its going to take you a very long time to deal with this. I take it you are still a virgin. Don't even think of having sex with a man to overcome this feelings because its going to make it worse. Besides, you probably can't have sex with a man because you're too afraid of getting pregnant and all the STDs associated with sex.
Even having sex with a woman will not solve the problem. You will just get few minutes pleasure and then feel horrible when guilty conscience sets in .
Continue praying but know that temptation will come and you will give in. Don't belittle yourself for falling into temptation for God is not a man.
My advice is, get a good female friend who you are attracted to but who is not interested in having sex with you. She has to be a godly person, someone who understands you and someone who will not judge you. Also someone who you can discuss your sexual desires with. If you're Hot and you want to make love to her, you should be able to tell her that, now she is the one who will be able to give you a good counselling.
Very Important is to know that you are not alone in this. Many people go through this same dilemma. Just do the right thing because you alone knows what is right. Jesus still saves!
I hope this helps, it helped alot of people.
Re: "I Think I Am A Lesbian, I Need Help Please! " by chris2h(m): 12:18pm On Oct 13, 2017
Walking by....nlanders dont have to be this mean now @ naughtydiana I like ur sense of freedom please dont let anybody take that away from you. @ OP i dont think there is anything wrong with you. You are just discovering a new part of yourself that you did not know about. So don't freak out. Forget about our crude society which is just moving in any direction and watch your back. Whatsoever you want to do, do it discretely because of the legal repercussions and ramifications and please calm down. There is nothing that is happening to you that as not happened before.

Cheers

Christopher Haruna Hamman

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